posted August 25, 2016 11:31 AM            

Her wounds stem primarily from her dad's alcoholism (12h), and his untimely and tragic death as a result of that.

I don't believe it was much of a secret while she was growing up, or that she was unaware of the pain that created for her. I'm not sure that I know anyone else with that placement, but I'll look.

Then again, her Chiron is in Sagittarius, which isn't exactly a secretive sign, so perhaps that adds to the openness of her wounds that she can't heal herself, but tries to heal in others who have no family support.

posted August 26, 2016 05:15 PM            

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Originally posted by @lycat74:
Chiron in the 12th House: Invisible Wound?

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I have this placement. in Cancer.
I don't really scream emotionally hurt on the outside and I'm actually quite the opposite. Many those close to me, consider me a strong person and usually come to me to open up about their traumas.

I think this placement means, if other people's unhealed wound seems to stem from outside factors (chiron in other houses), ours seems to stem from ourselves.

personally, I am almost always disappointed in myself as a human being. whenever I do something I KNOW is wrong, it is ad if I am looking at myself, standing on the outside, and watching a stupid person doing something harmful to others or herself. and yet I can't seem to help it. But I am always AWARE of the deepness of my wrong deeds.

In my life, a few things happened that I can only attribute to chiron in my 12th:
- being anorexic (depriving yourself from food), although it may be because of my saturn square MC too
- being abused for almost a year as child, and never speaking about it to anyone, because the abuser is a close relative which is going to be around for the rest of my life
- attracting and being attracted to the most wounded kind of people, to the point that if somebody has a good, healthy and balanced relationship with BOTH their parents, it is an instant turn off for me! although it may also be because of my mars conjunct chiron

posted August 28, 2016 01:08 PM            

The 12th house can *feel* invisible to the native and yet is glaringly obvious to onlookers. I encourage people with 12th House planets to look at the closest aspect - ideally a ptolmeic one, but basically the closest you have and use it to 'communicate with' the 12th house planet!

posted August 28, 2016 01:15 PM            

I'm sending you a huge healing hug. Now you need to know that *everybody* is responsible for their Chiron wound. Not just you, ALL of us. We can all learn from it, we can all grow through it and we all make mistakes.

The fact that you're hard on yourself is one of the qualities which makes you a kind, caring and warm hearted person, so it's a plus really.

I'm sorry to hear you've been through so much, Chiron does actually 'rule' anorexia and the bach flower remedy crab apple is the vibrational healing for it.

posted August 28, 2016 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Violet does your mother-in-law have Virgo MC by any chance? i.e. Chiron ruling the MC and Neptune ruling the IC?

The 4th House will speak more volumes than the 12th House Chiron when considering her childhood...

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posted August 29, 2016 02:21 AM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Girlwiththerainysoul,

I'm sending you a huge healing hug. Now you need to know that *everybody* is responsible for their Chiron wound. Not just you, ALL of us. We can all learn from it, we can all grow through it and we all make mistakes.

The fact that you're hard on yourself is one of the qualities which makes you a kind, caring and warm hearted person, so it's a plus really.

I'm sorry to hear you've been through so much, Chiron does actually 'rule' anorexia and the bach flower remedy crab apple is the vibrational healing for it.

I suggest this to everybody but in your case I can imagine it changing your life in a wonderful way. Try to find somewhere to do your Reiki 1. Forever afterwards your ability to self heal, shed old pains, and love yourself will increasingly improve. ♥

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Many huge thanks dear lobster :-)
I am thankful to have found such a great community with the kindest souls such as yourself.

WOW I had no idea that chiron ruled anorexia!
I will try to track down that medicine and hope it will help!

Thank you so much ♥♥♥

posted August 29, 2016 02:43 AM            

I was never directly bullied, except once (but they quickly said sorry) But all my childhood I felt left out and was unpopular. I think this created a deep wound in me of low self-confidence, something I'm still struggling to build up until this day, now I'm 26.

And it's always been really hard for me to build up my inner self worth and self-happiness, it's like there is always something that disturbs my inner peace.

posted August 29, 2016 12:26 PM            

His father died when he was around 12 years old and this affected him deeply. He has a fear of death that is more marked than the average person's fear of death for sure, he has a lot of knowledge about ways you can die.