posted August 25, 2016 07:37 PM            

As long as I believe in astrology then I'll take the moons of others into account in how I relate to them, especially when we get close, though moon isn't the only thing I take into account. Being mutable, that's easy for me, but it's not always for others who prefer something more fixed.

posted August 25, 2016 07:42 PM            

Kurt Cobain had a Cancer moon in 10th

Moon rules Cancer and the fourth house. He killed himself at his home. When he was at home he was emotional to a tee I'm guessing.

His IC was ruled by Capricorn. He dealt with family and home in a serious, disciplined and restricted way. Cap is where you grow and learm lessons. His parents divorce really affected him and stayed with him for life. He always cared too much for his family life and wanted to form the "perfect" family because of his not so good upbringing. He took it seriously, and when his entire inner world began crushing him he felt began to become erratic and felt hopeless. Moon was in the house of Career which is ruled by Capricorn. Having his moin in the 10th made him show his heart to the world and being in it's own sign doubled that affect. His career made is what turned on his emotions. Cancer is all about family and so is the IC. Kurt married a Cancer.

posted August 27, 2016 02:35 PM            

While I'm not the most chatty person around I do need to communicate frequently with my partner. I've had exes complain about me being clingy as a result of this need, but now that I'm older and a bit more mature I've somehow ended up with someone that thinks I don't talk enough.

I also need a lot of security and stability in my life, because unlike most Gemini Moons I have a heavy Earth emphasis in my chart.

posted August 27, 2016 03:09 PM            

Its weird because i intellectualize my feelings a lot and really like it when someone i am with, can express theirs in words too.

My Sun in Sag in the 9th ,Moon is in Cancer in the 4th house. And i am mostly attracted to Sun in Air/Moon in water or Sun in air/Moon in earth.

posted August 27, 2016 03:39 PM            

I dont really know what are my emotional "needs" ... I dont know,i am emotional,but i dont think i am emotionally demanding - i like harmony and peace,i like when people are happy and well in general...

Now thinking through simbolics of moon as my mum and 8th house as other peoples money - yeah,her not having money makes me emotional,sad,angry,happy,annoyed.

8th as death house and moon there - death makes me emotional,but at the same time life after death and all that interests me

posted August 27, 2016 07:33 PM            

I need someone who is able to experience the world with me and have fun whilst still maintaining a deep, emotional connection with me. This is probably why I often make friends with Earth and Water suns quite often, since they are emotional and understand my emotional depth in contrast to Air and Fire Suns, where it seems that it's just words and such (more so with Air Suns).

Often I have friends who have Scorpio placements that can handle my extreme emotional imbalances. Even so though, I try to keep my emotions hidden because it is quite difficult for me to express the way I feel to people when emotional. It's kind of like this conflicting idea where I want someone to help me but tell everyone that "I'm fine" when they question my mood. I need someone who understands the pain I'm going through but won't try shoving advice down my throat as if they know exactly how to solve all my problems and paint rainbows in the sky.

posted August 27, 2016 07:42 PM            

Expression of emotions is important. Communicating my emotions is important. And freedom, independence, all of that good stuff.

The squares manifest as situations, circumstances where I have to keep things under control. It didn't come naturally. It's something I learned. I don't dislike it, in my life it is a good skill to have and it serves me well. Having said that, holding emotions in/neutralizing them over long periods of time is not something I'd consider.

posted August 28, 2016 01:04 AM            

Sag Moon, 2nd house

To be happy in general, i need to have the freedom to live how I want. I need a varied and interesting routine. Monotony and super detail oriented work drives me crazy. I need to be able to express my creativity, ideas, and sense of humor in a laidback, accepting environment. I need a varied group of friends and acquaintances with whom I can hang out, discuss anything and everything, and support each other.

I also reallly need financial security and a stable home and a vehicle. A vehicle represents freedom to me.

I need humor, people who get and appreciate my humor, people around me to be open and well (in health and mentality).

posted August 28, 2016 02:41 PM            

I've gone back and forth on what to answer for this. I kept beginning to type and then backed out.
More than wanting my actual feelings to be understood I want the reasons for my emotions to be understood. I'm that person that will explain it and then expect, "Oh. Oh ok. I understand why you're upset. That makes sense."
That to me is satisfying. I don't even expect the other person to feel what I feel. Just to understand where I'm coming from.
Likewise, if I come across a friend or whatever who is elated, or extra cheery, upset, etc. I'm most interested in knowing why. If someone at work that I see all of the time is more energetic and smiley than usual. I don't think, "Wow. They're in a good mood." I think, "Wow. It's nice that they're in a good mood but I wonder why."

posted August 28, 2016 03:42 PM            

I need loyalty, consistency, to give love, to be around cats, to learn to explore and express. I have a lot of aspects to my Moon, it fits into a Grand Trine and so my choices, beliefs and decisions are all processed through my intuition and gut feeling. The Moon is also square Pluto and I can see and hear people's thoughts and feelings with this.

I don't have a huge need to travel (9th House) although in early adulthood I did, I do need to know how everybody feels and experiences however. Hence, I'm a great listener and have a way of getting deeply into people's psychological motivations.

posted August 28, 2016 06:39 PM            

Translate that into personal experience and I can say I am happiest in a relationship where I'm appreciated for the nurturing and care I give, plus really need to be able to open up to someone who is also caring and nurturing to me. I like being pampered, I like attentive partners. I love sensuality and sharing food. I need to be with someone who appreciates my cooking. And I would do anything for a great tasting satisfying meal (almost true, haha).

Cancer and the moon cycles bring repetitive emotional cycles and I need to know my partner will not betray me or lose my respect or degrade me in any way, or lie to me, or keep secrets, because then instantly that my Cappy loyalty dissolves.

The trust factor rings true with 12H moon. And my Sag Mercury is so honest, I expect honesty in return. Plus I need to Feel I can express my emotions safely. I need to trust my sensitivities. Moon has positive aspects to Pluto, Jupiter, Neptune, but opposite Mercury.