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Topic: Uber Fixed People: How do you deal with change?
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@lycat74
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posted August 30, 2016 01:37 AM
  
Uber Fixed People: How do you deal with change?What are your fixed placements?
How do you react to it?
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Randall
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posted August 31, 2016 03:04 PM
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MermaidDreamz
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posted August 31, 2016 03:31 PM
Saturn in Taurus - I can become bossy. This sucks but it has a nice reward as well, it's in my 6H. I can reign in my bad habits when I see trouble ahead. Having a Sag AC, that is very beneficial to have this placement. However, I can nit pick with others who aren't conscious of their health. Since Saturn sits in my natal to Virgos house. I can really get others mad at me. This is where my trouble really is, keeping my 6H thoughts to myself.Also I have 4 more planets sprinkled between my 3rd&12thH. Scorpio/Aquarius. I'd say 5 Fixed placements makes me a tad stuborn. 😯
Dealing with it is interesting. I forget about it, as it is per my natural state of being. Not saying it does not bring me discomfort, it absolutely does. As I'm an Air sign Sun/Sag rising, I often go within. Either using my mind or finding new ways to be spiritual and soothe myself of that discomfort.
Where are your Fixed signs/Planets? Does it feel like a drain to be fixed in your natal?
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Lerena
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posted August 31, 2016 05:02 PM
How do you deal with change?
Very poorly. I like to handle change on my own terms and if I'm not ready for it I become very irritable and unstable. This is why it's important for me to have enough time to adjust before I make a major life change instead of having it forced on me without prior consent.What are your fixed placements?
Sun in Taurus
Venus in Taurus
Saturn in Aquarius
Pluto in Scorpio
Ascendant in Scorpio
Chiron in Leo How do you react to it?
I am typically very resistant to unwanted change. The exception of course is losing someone important to me because of how sudden that can be and since I have no control over what someone else decides. If there is not prior time to adjust I go through a period of adjustment rage.  I used to go through periods of not taking my medication until this year when I experienced an unexpected shift in my mentality. I'm amazed my brain can still develop in any way considering my fatigue issues. If I initiated the change myself, however, no one can possibly stop me from making that change without advance effort to stop me before it's made. How do you cope?
I don't know. My ability to cope probably has to do with my stubborn resistance to change I don't want. Not even my parents can *make* me do anything. This is a weird thing to say though, because I have so much respect for people of authority that I've handed over responsibilities that were mine over to other people just because those other people were in qualified positions that required knowledge I didn't have in the past. In some ways I've had to stop relying on health care professionals to fix my health issues and I've had to unlearn the weird concept of people being older than me meaning their opinions hold more weight. I don't know where I got that impression or how I started believing it. Basically, as long as the change is mine it's an easy change and if someone else made it for me it's a difficult change that I never actually adjust to unless I want it as well. Overall I know that change is necessary and I'm not opposed to making changes if I think something in my life has been outgrown. IP: Logged |
@lycat74
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posted August 31, 2016 05:49 PM
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MsLeora
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posted August 31, 2016 06:10 PM
ASC: Aquarius
Sun: Leo
Moon: Leo
Venus: Leo
Mars: Scorpio
Jupiter: Scorpio I welcome changes of most forms, except belief and moral ethic codes. I can be extremely stubborn and aggressive to defend what I believe in, to the point that it'd take everything you've got to change my mind. I'm too fixed. But thank god for my mercury in Virgo there's a little bit of mutability stored in me. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 04, 2016 01:03 PM
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