posted September 06, 2016 07:06 AM            

I am NOT talking about jealousy/envy in general- i know that moon/pluto contacts in a woman's chart can attract jealousy from other women - however, i am talking about jealousy and obsessiveness from the other gender

i know women who get along great with other women but they would always have jealous or even obsessive suitors and dates in their lives.

also, i know women who can't be friends with men- the guys would act jealous like a lover and would pursue them the sooner or later

posted September 06, 2016 08:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
what could indicate that a woman indicates jealous or even obsessive men?

I am NOT talking about jealousy/envy in general- i know that moon/pluto contacts in a woman's chart can attract jealousy from other women - however, i am talking about jealousy and obsessiveness from the other gender

i know women who get along great with other women but they would always have jealous or even obsessive suitors and dates in their lives.

also, i know women who can't be friends with men- the guys would act jealous like a lover and would pursue them the sooner or later

I guess an angular pluto and venus/pluto contacts could contribute to that?

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This is the story of my life. I have sun opposite pluto and mars trine pluto, and I always attract men who have aspects between pluto with moon or/and venus.
As if this aspect is not enough, they are mostly Scorpio suns or ACs (because of my Taurus sun) and they are imho the kings of possesiveness and bad temper.

Thank God I have leo AC though and I get along both platonically and romantically very well with Aquarius men (they give me the attention and the freedom I need), as I would never again date a Scorpio sun or AC, my own father being a Scorpio sun.

posted September 06, 2016 08:56 AM            

Pisces can be very sacrificing, willing to see the good in others, and can have a savior outlook. You know what I'm saying? They can be viewed as easy targets or attract / feel attracted to such abusive, obsessive or possessive individuals.

posted September 06, 2016 11:16 AM            

yes, pisces and neptune strong people could be viewed either as the ideal victim or people don't see things clear about them

What about the 8th house?
i know a woman who's (as far as i remember) 8h ruler (moon) made hard aspects to her angles -> her ex-bfs and her current bf are dreadfully jealous but she also attracted jealousy from women, so i do think we'd need to focus on sun & mars and probably venus to find out if a woman attracts that sort of men. Afflicted moons speak mainly of tensions with women i think

and one of my former classmates did attract sooo many men, all going crazy about her. She had sun & venus conj pluto; however very very wide degress + an unaspected mars in an anarectic degree (29 cancer). I think that contributed to men becoming obsessive over her.
She had no hard aspects of her moon i think; she got along with most women and even though many were jealous, jealousy from other women was not her main issue

posted September 06, 2016 11:22 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
This is the story of my life. I have sun opposite pluto and mars trine pluto, and I always attract men who have aspects between pluto with moon or/and venus.
As if this aspect is not enough, they are mostly Scorpio suns or ACs (because of my Taurus sun) and they are imho the kings of possesiveness and bad temper.

Thank God I have leo AC though and I get along both platonically and romantically very well with Aquarius men (they give me the attention and the freedom I need), as I would never again date a Scorpio sun or AC, my own father being a Scorpio sun.

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wow, your constellation sounds like attracting real obsession- i think your leo asc has saved you from serious attacks so far- you just come across as too self-confident

posted September 06, 2016 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Saturn8_Me:
Obsessive: Like guys will fall hard and get all "emotional" after only speaking to me for a few minutes... & you cannot tell a guy who really likes you, that you don't like them back, but that we can be friends if they'd like.. They only take that as playing hard-to-get, or "she doesn't like me, YET". And they won't leave me alone... That's why if I know a guy has even the slightest crush on me, I refuse to be friends with them. It's just better for everyone in the long run.

Scorpio ASC
Pluto 1st House
Venus 8th
8th House Ruler, In 8th house, tightly Square Mars
Venus quincunx Pluto, and Uranus
Mars trine Neptune (I think I read somewhere this makes one really appealing to men, or something like that)

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wow, some sexy configurations no wonder, they "love" you

does your sun or mars anyhow touch your pluto?

posted September 06, 2016 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Saturn8_Me:
No, unless you count minor aspects... Sun is sesquisquare Pluto.

Edit: I also have Moon conjunct Mars... Maybe that has something to do with the emotionalism and attachment, idk.

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thanks for the quick reply

posted September 08, 2016 05:53 PM            

I have:

posted September 08, 2016 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I have pluto conjunct moon in my 1st house. I've heard it can cause other women to be jealous but I don't believe that. I do however drawl jealous men but for some reason I think everyone loves men or ends up loving me . My exes usually end up telling me that I was the only one they felt they could talk to about anything and most women tell me the same. Sometimes I go threw a series of challenges with people but all in all, people say I have one of the most beautiful souls that anyone could ever meet. I dont think on myself like this but usually thats what I'm told.

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thanks for the info.

Did your mother have a strong influence on your life?

posted September 08, 2016 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
It's common for people with Venus/Pluto aspects to attract obsessive or jealous partners.

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i thought they are the stalkers, not the other way around

posted September 08, 2016 06:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
I've attracted obsessive men since I was 19. Some men will even propose marriage to me on the first date, which seriously disturbs me. I tend to run from these types immediately. Other men will at first appear nice, laid-back and kind, but then they become obsessive within 1 month of dating.

I have:

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jesus on a bycycle

that's scary! Hair-raising!