posted September 13, 2016 01:28 PM            

- Got a job - one which I have no experience in - where I have to deal with a quite aggressive environment
- Three months into that job I got into a HUGE - I mean there was a lot of yelling involved - fight with my two bosses
- Had a few heated arguments with my client (two different people)
- I've been accused of having no patience and being too blunt several times
- BIG-BIG crushes on one coworker and another one on my client (both Aries sun - never liked an aries sun before)

Overall, I've been having issues with relationships at work because I understand that I come accross as too aggressive. All things above are things that had never happened before - normally you'd have to push me way too much in order to react like that.
I don't know how to handle this. Also, last week, I sent a very blunt email to my client, who didn't seem to understand what I had been trying to tell him - and he got offended. I spent three hours writing that email and tonining it down and it still wasn't enough. I'm completely lost. Any tips? I don't see anything possitive coming out of this moon

posted September 14, 2016 05:11 PM            

You sound like someone with a lot of pent up energy that isn't getting out of your system. I say this because Aries like action, action, and did I say action? They aren't afraid to express their opinion or stand their ground and quite frequently this can offend other people that aren't as quick to act. Also, not everyone can handle the kind of honesty that an Aries dishes out. They can occasionally say something without thinking it through or if they do think it through they end up not realizing what they said could hurt someone or put them in a bad mood. The thing with Aries is they are aggressive without meaning to be sometimes. They can't help it. It's just their nature to *do* things and to be honest about what they think. Their behavior is very in-your-face, but the good thing about Aries is you always know where you stand with them. As long as they're free to do things their way Aries energy isn't necessarily that bad. You just need an environment to release the energy that hasn't been expressed properly.

My suggestion is to get lots of exercise when you can and channel some energy into expressing yourself creatively. Try to keep a journal while your moon is placed here. It might help to re-read the things you say every now and then or have someone else's opinion on whether something you've written would come across as offensive to someone else.