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posted September 14, 2016 11:37 PM            

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Hello. I have Venus in Aquarius (on my 4th house cusp) squaring Saturn, Pluto, my Scorp ascendant and Jupiter. I'd like to ask those of you who have any of these squares, how they played out for you? I'm especially curious of Venus square Saturn. So, how have these squares left you feeling in your relationships or towards relationships?

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posted September 14, 2016 11:56 PM            

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I have Venus square Pluto. I think I confused passion with love.. I was also involved in relationships where I was desired obsessively where all I wanted was friendship, also in relationship with plutonic, charismatic and unstable individuals... (perhaps "unstable" due to my natally Venus trine Uranus), and still hasn't found the one and only...

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posted September 15, 2016 12:58 AM            

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Ayelet, I've experienced that as well, where all I actually wanted from them was friendship!!

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posted September 15, 2016 08:42 PM            

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I don't remember the synastry of those situations... Perhaps you do, and can enlighten me? But I have two incidents with day of birth, methink, so I can look at the ephemeris and see what I can find out... will.

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posted September 15, 2016 09:46 PM            

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Ayelet,

I have Venus square Pluto too and definitely resonate with what you said. I think that's my least favorite aspect in my chart :/ I still can't find anything positive to say about it. Can you? And what about you, kaiLLand?

Guys love the passion I put into them and can get hooked by it. I can too. It's like a drug from both ends. In the end, I just felt like they didn't love me for me, that they loved the intense passion. But I also realized that's why I stuck around as well, because the passion that was ignited was addicting.

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posted September 16, 2016 03:42 AM            

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Readytochill, I don't think that I can describe it as well as you did!. I do feel like with that aspect, I go through the motions of feeling the passion and it really pulls me in but I always come crashing down from it. I'm not a big fan of Venus square Pluto either!

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posted September 16, 2016 04:30 AM            

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I find love very stressful. It's so beautiful and important to me but I get myself in situations where it has to be hard-won, where its work or where it interferes with work.

And always, when i've become passionate and absorbed in work, I'll be pulled from it by love. For instance, I moved to Australia for a r/ship, under pressure and when I really wanted to give my all to studies at that stage. I was not even in love, really. Obligation features a lot - either I'll feel it to others or others have it towards me and so love is heavy.

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posted September 16, 2016 08:04 AM            

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Florence, I totally get that!. Do you have Saturn square Venus?

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posted September 16, 2016 01:57 PM            

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Oops forgot that information. Yes, you have opened the correct door

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posted September 16, 2016 03:53 PM            

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I have it squared my Ascendant. What I have noticed is that I am never satisfied with how I look. I used to obsess over my appearance when I was younger because I felt that people wouldn't like me otherwise. Like my worth wouldn't be validated unless I thought in my own eyes I was pretty. I would pick at imperfections on myself and wish I could somehow change them in order to be perceived as conventionally beautiful. Even if people said I looked pretty, I wouldn't believe them. In my eyes, I always thought I was never good enough.

Thankfully, my perspective has changed since then. I have now grown to accept that I will never find myself attractive, but understand that beauty is subjective in itself and that someone else would find me attractive regardless of how I feel about myself. I have found that putting my energy on something meaningful in my life and focusing on that has led me to be less vain and happier in the long run.

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