posted September 15, 2016 11:32 AM            

Aries in 7th House: You tend to favor a spouse who is in-control, a leader, self-assured, and decisive. You want to be sought out and desired by your partner. A conscious effort should be made to not be so impulsive in love. May even be married young or earlier in life

Taurus in 7th House: You attract and prefer a partner who has a special and sensual appearance that is unique to you. In addition you want someone healthy who is practical, well off financially or who has a promise of wealth. Sexual satisfaction is important for not only you, but for your lover too.

Gemini in 7th House: Being/looking youthful or having a youthful outlook/demeanor figure is important to you because you want someone who is communicative and can keep you on your toes. Intelligence is a major factor and your spouse will mostly be very intelligent with a good mental rapport with you. You may have trouble settling down with someone forever, but once you realize no one will ever give you 100% of what you want then you will be able to settle down.

Cancer in 7th House: You can be especially interested in having a significant other who is fatherly or motherly, even if you don’t want children. Security and protection is an important factor in a spouse and you may look for someone who you believe has these factors. Sensitivity is also important, you need a partner who understands this and is sensitive to you and your needs. Partners may often times be older or very mature.

Leo in the 7th House: You have a yearning for a relationship with someone who is flashy, posses a certain showmanship or is just ostentatious. People who are unusually creative or dramatic catch your eye or people who can release the inner child. Spouses with a positive attitude make you the happiest. Someone who you can act like a kid with and who makes you smile are keys to your heart. You may marry an actor, a musician a sportsman or a person in the spotlight.

Virgo in the 7th house: A spouse who is practical and down-to-earth is crucial to you. You prefer a significant other who is not shy to hard work, with common sense and intelligence. A person with a good college degree or someone with a good education peeks your interest right away. The partner doesn’t have to be a dime, but needs to please you in bed. You look for a partner who will always help you and look out for you in some way.

Libra in the 7th house: It is imperative that your spouse is above average looking (at least in your eyes), possessing good manners and neatness, with an ability to get along well with others. People who have are artistic, creative, aesthetically inclined, or have musical talents are favored. There will never be a boring moment in your romantic unions. You need to remember that not every partner will be 100% put together 100% of the time.

Scorpio in the 7th house: You need to marry someone you are sexually attracted to. Desire is a big part in your relationship. Also, unions that isn’t rushed are critical, since you have secrets and things that you won't just open up with. You’ll favor someone who is willing to take ample time to build a meaningful relationship and who will eventually find a way around your walls. There is also an appreciation of a partner if they are well off financially and/or in line for a sizable inheritance in the foreseeable future. You may look for intense relationships that bring out strong emotions in both you and your partner, try not to let that cloud your arguments.

Sagittarius in the 7th house: Lovers who are from other states/countries, or whose upbringing and life experiences are in contrast with your own are preferred. However, this is tricky because you want someone with the same morals as you. You look for someone unique and can show you something new, so traveling with your spouse excites you. Clingy partners or being smothered are turn offs. Independence and trust is needed to have a solid relationship. A good sense of humor is also adored.

Capricorn in the 7th house: It may take you a while to find your ideal spouse.You need a powerful union with someone which will stand the test of time. Emotional outbursts in public are deal-breakers and you will look for someone put together in public. A practical, levelheaded and down-to-earth person who will work hard attracts your eye. Having great sex,and being reliable are more important to you than good-looks, age or even romance.

Aquarius in the 7th house: You attract unusual partners, but your significant other needs to stimulate you mentally above anything else. Before you settle down with anyone you make sure they are your friend. You are often guilty of marrying someone you deem your best friend. You tend to fall for the humanitarians, very empathetic people, or the activists. Having a mental rapport between you and your spouse will always be imperative.

Pisces in the 7th house: You seem to prefer others who are sensitive, affectionate, and posses a pure heart. People who are more romantic appeal to you because you prefer to be totally adored by your partner. There is a strong urge to nurture and be nurtured and you may find someone who does both for you. You tend to have a special interest in those who are physically attractive, especially if they have remarkable or dazzling eyes.

posted September 15, 2016 12:46 PM            

Marriage is a contract and as a Libra 7th house cusp person, I am more into romance and the idea of "happily ever after" etc.

But as is customary with Aries rising, the marriage must not "impede" me or get in my way. Which I don't believe is realistic

I prefer contracts that have an open-ended clause or a short life span.There must be provisional choice to either renew or terminate (depending on how I feel).

This is in keeping with Libra-like partners because they will also want to opt out if things are not rosy in future No hard feelings.

I don't see them sticking around when all the romance and champagne is gone. As they are fickle-natured in essence

posted September 15, 2016 01:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I feel like this should be also be written as "7th House Contract Preferences"

Marriage is a contract and as a Libra 7th house cusp person, I am more into romance and the idea of "happily ever after" etc.

But as is customary with Aries rising, the marriage must not "impede" me or get in my way. Which I don't believe is realistic

I prefer contracts that have an open-ended clause or a short life span.There must be provisional choice to either renew or terminate (depending on how I feel).

This is in keeping with Libra-like partners because they will also want to opt out if things are not rosy in future No hard feelings.

I don't see them sticking around when all the romance and champagne is gone. As they are fickle-natured in essence

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Are you suggesting that those with a Aries/Libra ASC/DSC axis are truly not meant for a "contracted" partnership a la marriage?

posted September 15, 2016 02:25 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
Are you suggesting that those with a Aries/Libra ASC/DSC axis are truly not meant for a "contracted" partnership a la marriage?

I've already wondered if this one man I know with a Libra DSC (Gemini as DSC ruler) is truly meant to ever be married. He seems to be weary of it. He is afraid of his partner "changing" and things not being the same after the commitment is made. He also has a packed 7th house though...(Mars, Saturn, Jupiter, Pluto). It's like he NEEDS a partner, loves the idea of marriage and stability and family, says he wants it for himself someday, and then when it comes time to pull the trigger he gets nervous.

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Auwa Shame!!!

I can't speak for him. I can only speak from my perspective of the 7th house in Libra.

Libra is the sign of justice and fairness. But it is also the sign of idealism.

After all, love/peace and justice are ideals that we all strive for. And they sort of have a "Utopian" feel to them that seems unreal.

With Libra on the 7th house cusp, the "wanting" to jump right in(when you have found "the one" is strong).

This is especially the case when Venus(ruler of the 7th) is in the 4th or 2nd house. As there is both peace of mind(4th) and security(2nd)attached therein with finding someone(7th).

The issue here however is that one can get fixated with the dream,the fantasy and the romance of it all.

But when it comes right down to having to stick it out and go through the motions of it.It is simply not the same as when one first entered into it.

The weariness he feels could be "how do I keep the momentum of the fairy-tale going?". But since the ruler of his 1st house is in the 7th,it is also likely that it is an area of life that will feel very "new", uncharted and honestly quite scary

posted September 16, 2016 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
A well developed relationship and money who wouldn't .
Scorpio 7th

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HAHA You are so right! I will edit Scorpio's to make it longer, I din't even realize how short I made that one, thanks for pointing it out.

posted September 18, 2016 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by bella_taurus:
I have Leo and Virgo in the 7th house.

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posted September 18, 2016 03:14 PM              

My ideal partner would be someone a lot like me: a very creative type with a distinct personality. Also, I have always thought it would be better to end up with a fellow artist or performer because we would just be on the same page, lifestyle wise, and we would have much more in common.

posted September 19, 2016 12:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Liliya:
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So your Dcs is Leo then.

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posted July 28, 2019 07:22 AM            

friend that is capricorn descendant mentioned few times to me how she wouldnt mind older husband, she is 25 but is not rushing to get married

posted July 28, 2019 09:12 AM            

I have Cap DSC
I never liked men who are older than me more than 2-3 years. Even when someone is 5 years older I kind of feel it's a little bit much.

Intense feelings and that weird kind of psychic connection with someone is the only thing that could lead me to a relationship.. (if even that) when not in love I want to remain single forever, I don't see a reason to be with someone.

posted July 28, 2019 01:10 PM            

His last girlfriend (prior to dating me) didn't have a great fashion sense from the photos I've seen- she dressed a bit matronly. But as someone who has a Leo DSC you'd think they want a partner who is well put together and presents nicely.

He does like women who are positive and happy though. Although I think this could go for everyone, because who wants to date someone who is negative all the time (??).