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Topic: Mercury Hard Aspect Venus Synastry = yuck, shut up?
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rorrr
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 17, 2016 03:54 AM
  
What are your experiences with someone who had mercury in square or opposition to your venus?Where you bored out of your mind when this person started talking? Like *eyeroll* pleeease shut up?! Or were you just turned off to the point of almost being grossed out, like this person just became distasteful to you as soon as they spoke. What happened? I've met people whose Mercury square my Mars, and in the end, no matter how many other compatibility factors there were, the way they thought just became so frustrating for me! I was like "you're an idiot! I can't respect the way you think! Auuugh!" haha so these mercury synastries are pretty important, especially because communication is the key to everything! IP: Logged |
Sylven
Knowflake Posts: 567
From: Netherlands
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted September 17, 2016 08:08 AM
Not at all! I have a friend who's Mercury is in Taurus square my Venus. We talk, talk, deep and honest. He is one of my best friends! I do find his voice a bit annoying to be frank. Because he can sometimes talk a bit piteous. Oppositions? That would mean Aqua Mercury. Love em as they conjunct my Moon and trine my own Mercury in Gemini. Why do you ask?  IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted September 17, 2016 09:06 AM
Have this with my husband. He is anything but boring! We have the craziest conversations ever but then again, we have a lot of Uranus going on natally and I'm synastry so things are never dull...IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
Knowflake Posts: 1225
From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
Registered: May 2014
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posted September 17, 2016 10:08 AM
My Merc opp her Venus. She loved hearing me talk, topic didn't matter. Until she had enough (for now).IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted September 17, 2016 09:09 PM
I think the worst are when someone's mercury square/opposition to your moon and/or mars.Mercury to venus in any aspect is favorable than no aspect. In synastry when my mercury doesn't touch someone's venus, I don't feel comfortable talking much. When my mercury touches someone's venus, I talk easily and a lot.
When my Venus doesn't touch someone's Mercury, I don't really listen to their topic. When my venus touches someone's mercury, I love listening to any of their story. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted September 17, 2016 09:53 PM
I would think it's still positive. I usually love Venus to Mercury. It's calming, and lightens things up. IP: Logged |
Libracorn
Knowflake Posts: 320
From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 18, 2016 03:29 AM
Hmm.. Now that I think about it when my Venus square someone's Mercury, I don't really feel anything. And I believe that's because my Mercury will either sextile or trine their Mercury.I have Venus in Virgo, Mercury in Libra in the early degrees. If you have a Gemini/Sag Mercury in the early degrees, your Mercury should trine or sextile my Mercury. If your Mercury trines or sextiles mines, I usually like listening to what you have to say and I'm also very agreeable with you. Both Gemini and Sagittarius can talk way too much for me though, but I don't really mind and it does not anger me. I agree with the post above with the Mercury-Mars aspects, now THESE people will quickly anger me with their words. Having your Mercury square my Mars, I'd have a hard time getting along with you intellectually. I have a Mars in Leo. Allow me to explain: Mercury in Scorpio - too private for me, stop hiding stuff. Keep it 100% and you'll be on my good side. If we're friends, you should be comfortable with telling me what's on your mind. Speaking of which, they also play too many mind games. I had an ex-friend with Mercury in Scorpio (which squared my Mars) and he'd constantly ask me questions that he already knows the answers to. I used to think he did this because he wanted to see my response, but regardless it was very annoying. Mercury in Taurus - too quiet and shallow for me. Especially via text message, I hate texting people with a Mercury in Taurus (squared my Mars). Some of them don't even respond to text messages and I believe that's so rude. I don't have much in common with these folks. These explanations aren't meant to offend anyone with those placements but these are my own experiences with people with those placements. I'm open for comments however IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted September 18, 2016 08:21 AM
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Originally posted by Libracorn:
Mercury in Taurus - too quiet and shallow for me. Especially via text message, I hate texting people with a Mercury in Taurus (squared my Mars). Some of them don't even respond to text messages and I believe that's so rude. I don't have much in common with these folks.
How many Mercury Taurus people do you know? I wonder if they're all like that - quiet. I am Sagittarius Mercury and I get along great with all Fire Mercuries. I need to be able to chat and have a laugh with people. If they're quiet in a social setting - that's fine. But if they are quiet in one on one interactions too, then...my Mercury in Sagittarius won't like that, at all.. Is Mercury in Taurus like that? Also are they known for rigid thinking? Prepare me please IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 19128
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 18, 2016 11:00 AM
My Sag Venus squares my husband's Mercury in Virgo.For the most part, I really enjoy hearing him talk. He has a nice voice, he's intelligent, and we're interested in the same kinda things. However, his Mercury is conjunct his Leo Mars, and he can sometimes go on and on about himself, his feats of strength, his concerns, right down to the very last detail (Virgo Mercury as I said) and I am bored to pieces and tormented, trying desperately to derail him....like Hey! what's that over there??? Let's go see!!!  .....or inserting an absurd joke to get him to laugh and break the monotony...or surprising him by over-agreeing with him, upping the ante on his own argument, befuddling him (I have Aqua Mercury square Scorpio Uranus, it's just in my nature to be this way.) Before I learned these sabotaging tactics, I really, strongly, seriously wanted him to shut up sometimes, and felt downright oppressed by his monologues. Sometimes I will still put up with an insufferably long lecture, just out of kindness and sympathy for his predicaments in life. But do I wish he would have more consideration, and that there was a more equal give-and-take? Uh huh. Please don't quote, thanks IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmaine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2016 09:20 PM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
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