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Hemilla
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posted September 21, 2016 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hemilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i was reading some interpretations of some peoples charts from Balkan astrologers and they were reading a chart of woman whos 11th starts in cancer,and person who brought up her chart asked "what is reason behind her treating her friends as family" and they made it clear that its 11th house,the house of frienships in cancer,sign known as family oriented....

And then i stoped for a minute...

So if 11th is in aries - persons would treat his friends energeticly,pushy or even agressive

In Taurus - would person pick friends based on things they can offer to him

Would 11th in gemini person have lots of them whom he easily disposes because they bore him?

Cancer we mentioned

Would leo pick those who would flatter him and dignify him in some way or maybe go for artistic showy friends?

Virgo would go for those neat and clean people,or they would treat them with much care?

Libras would try to balance them out?

Scorpios would go for .... What,i dont even know xD

Saggs would like free spirits they can play sports with and go on road trips

Capricorns probably older bunch,like mums friends or their fave professor

Aquas independant looneys with whom they would go and save animals from the streets

And 11th in pisces...probably befriend anyone in need

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posted September 21, 2016 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My 11th house is in Virgo and I think I do look for clean people, most of my friends are like that and the ones that weren't like in my teenage days hanging with the wrong crowd I kinda left behind. I do treat people with care also.

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charlie
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posted September 21, 2016 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
11th house Cancer stellium here and yes, my friends have been my family my entire life!

My husband has a Cap 11H with Mars and his mother's friends used to try and be sexual with him when he was a boy. Yucky and a personal story so won't say more.

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posted September 21, 2016 11:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wouldn't say I'm aggressive with my friends, but I enjoy being friends with men or strong women more than I do others. (Aries 11H)

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Hemilla
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posted September 21, 2016 12:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hemilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
interesting,thank you guys for sharing.

All things you mentioned def sounds like signs you have on 11th

Except that moms pedo friend,thats just....wrooong

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posted September 21, 2016 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faery     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Aries in the 11th house and I'm not aggressive with my friends, but I can be more straightforward when making friends. In a good amount of my friendships I think I was the one to initiate it. I also am more energetic with my friends than with my family or other ppl.

Also a lot of my really close friends have prominent Aries in their charts.

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Hemilla
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posted September 21, 2016 02:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hemilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that def makes sence

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ScarlettO'Hara
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posted September 21, 2016 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScarlettO'Hara     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Accounting for 11th house Aquas........ true!!!! We want somebody who is really cool and fun and who shares same ideology about the world issues or humanitarian issues. Also I can vouch for foreign friends or somebody with unusual or different cultural/background/tongue... because we want to know everything and be the intellectual ones.

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PixieJane
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posted September 21, 2016 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This doesn't work for me or anyone I'm close to (or was at one time) whose chart I know. I see other astrological placements at work, however.

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posted September 21, 2016 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Cancer in 11h, and although my extended family members are not my friends really (they mostly make me want to yell obscenities), I do spend most of my time with my parents and extended family...now that I have a family of my own.

Prior to that, hardly at all, but family gatherings have always been important to me. I do enjoy hanging out with my family, sometimes. For barbecues and whatever.

My own family, with my husband and children, are my friends, yes. But not the friends I go out and do stuff with the way that I do with friends outside my family. When my husband and I actually get a moment or a few hours to ourselves, we do things I would do with friends. Go out on photography outings, watch our favorite shows, go for modest hikes, etc.

I have Saturn in 11h, so most of my actual friends I've met either in school, or at work. Those few friendships have lasted for decades, and they're trusted people I value. I can literally count them on one hand.

I won't go out of my way to meet people though, so yeah it's mostly just family and coworkers I hang out with.

Thankfully, as insane as my extended family and parents can be, we all have a good sense of humor and will often laugh ourselves to tears with each other (when we're not arguing about politics and world views, or how to raise kids, etc).

I should add that I have Pluto in 3h, square Saturn in 11h.

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posted September 21, 2016 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moongaze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScarlettO'Hara:
Accounting for 11th house Aquas........ true!!!! We want somebody who is really cool and fun and who shares same ideology about the world issues or humanitarian issues. Also I can vouch for foreign friends or somebody with unusual or different cultural/background/tongue... because we want to know everything and be the intellectual ones.

Totally can relate! As an 11th house Aqua, I am fascinated by people from different cultures and backgrounds. I also gravitate towards people who are a bit more "underground" from different subcultures and very individualistic. I have Saturn here though, so I am a loner, but have a few great friends that I cherish to this day.

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posted September 22, 2016 03:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Hemilla
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posted September 22, 2016 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hemilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you see thats interesting to me,my 11th starts at taurus,and i do prefere friends that can bring something to me that i need,like better reputation,be good for my image, but i also have gemini inside that 11th,and it seems to me friends come and go,some of them i didnt want to let go of but i did because it seemed like it was inevitable....and i have like connections,but i just tend not to spend much time with them , those friends seem like people that just pass bye my life,in turn either i hellp them or they hellp me - then again i have rulers of 1st,2nd,4th,11th...

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posted September 22, 2016 06:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Ayelet
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posted September 22, 2016 11:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ayelet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a scorpio 11th house and I look for friends who are discreet and loyal, with whom I can form strong bonds.

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posted September 23, 2016 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries 11th house here, I like making new friends, and doing active stuff with my friends. I also got a group of friends where we sort of "challenge" each other, like who dare to do the most dangerous stuff... it has been sort of a theme in most of my closest friendships. And I like people with aries in their chart, but they don't make good friends for me.

I like leo energy though, cause they like to have fun, and I got venus/pluto in the 5th house as well.

Also gemini people are usually keen on doing something a bit dangerous:P

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posted September 23, 2016 04:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Julz87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Leo in the 11th
Most of my friends now that I look at their charts have Leo Moon hmm

They are usually egotistical and know it all's but I love them all their big egos match my Capricorn moon (work status oriented)

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posted September 23, 2016 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for the89freespirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I personally think this is a common misconception. I don't see the 11th House as being about special friendships, as in people we're close to. This house is a detached house. I think a person's most important friendships - particularly the "best friend" - is symbolized by the 7th.

However, the 11th is about people who we associate with, our peers, those in the same community, etc. They're often times "acquaintances" more than anything, distant friendships. So, they are your friends, but they're the friends who you could stand being out of touch with and who you could easily go long periods without seeing or talking to.

For me, it works that I have a Leo Sun in the 7th and my best friend is also a Leo. Another close friend of mine is most likely a Leo Rising. My most important friendships do have that Sun-like dynamic: we really entertain each other and have strong personalities.

But, I have Sagittarius on the 11th. That characterizes everyone else I know socially. The people I'm cool with. And the dynamic there is very Sagittarius. I can make A LOT of different social connections and acquaintances. But, then again, that's also my Aquarius NN. I have no trouble talking to anyone new and befriending a wide range of people. And if you're not actually close to me (7th), then I am hard to pin down. I prefer spreading myself around and kind of being everyone's buddy. Also, my social life is most fortunate when I have this attitude.

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posted September 23, 2016 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScarlettO'Hara     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by moongaze:
Totally can relate! As an 11th house Aqua, I am fascinated by people from different cultures and backgrounds. I also gravitate towards people who are a bit more "underground" from different subcultures and very individualistic. I have Saturn here though, so I am a loner, but have a few great friends that I cherish to this day.

High Five moongaze........ we rule!!! Hehehe

P.S. agree with the fact saturn... when saturn is here you tend to be loner and you want even more mature friends!!!


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posted September 23, 2016 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Julz87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@the89freespirit

Interesting concept, I have Aries 7th House and Jupiter conjunct DC, some of my closest BFFS are indeed Aries and Sagittariuses AND foreigners no less so you have a point there. Now that I look at my Leo SUN/MOON pals they are all far away from me, physically (different countries) and or our lives just get in the way so we do go extended periods of time with no communication - spot on!

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posted September 24, 2016 04:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hemilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that 7th thing does not work for me though,i have aqua there,and only 1 close aqua friend

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posted September 24, 2016 06:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hemilla:
And 11th in pisces...probably befriend anyone in need

I don't like cling ons. My friends should be independent and be able to stand on their own two feet. Coz i won't be there to hold their hand and help them through minutes, hours and days.

The ruler of my 11th is in Pisces. I thought that this meant not having many friends or having a non existent social life.And that is totally me

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posted September 24, 2016 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll have to amend my original post, because I always forget to look at which sign is on the cusp of a house. I tend to only remember which planets are in my houses, and the houses they're in.

I have Gemini on the cusp of 11h, but Saturn in Cancer lives there as well.

I think that does fit more than Cancer, although Saturn in Cancer definitely adds a serious tone to all of my friendships and group activities (which I rarely take part in, unless it's for work, family, or a cause that I advocate).

I do not have a lot of friends, and I don't dispose easily of the few that I have unless they really tick me off.

I am, however, capable of being very chatty when I'm out and about, and in very large groups of diverse people.
I'm comfortable in crowds if the people aren't all the same.
My daily social interactions are sporadic, usually with people I haphazardly encounter in places like when I'm out shopping or whatever.

It's comfortable for me to be able to throw out a funny comment about something relevant to whatever it is that we're doing, and then be able to go about my business and never see that person again.


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posted September 24, 2016 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini30     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Hemilla:
that 7th thing does not work for me though,i have aqua there,and only 1 close aqua friend

How many close friends do you have?

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posted September 24, 2016 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
11H Gemini Cusp
11H Gemini Mars

My closest friends "in real life"...

- Gemini ASC, sun conjunct Mercury
- Virgo moon conjunct Mercury, Gem Mars
- Gemini NN/Jupiter, Cap Mercury conjunct my sun
- Cap Mars conjunct Mercury, conjunct my sun
- Another Gemini Mars, Leo Mercury conjunct my ASC
- Pisces Mercury tightly conjunct my moon
- Libra Mars conjunct Uranus, on my 3H Pluto, trine my Mercury and Mars

Please don't quote, I feel weird taking inventory, just looking at the Mercury patterns.

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