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EmGem
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posted September 21, 2016 06:44 PM
  
Cheat??Now I don't like to generalize, but I was thinking about all the Aries sun men I know and sadly pretty much all of them have cheated on their partner.
its kinda worrying.. Edit: by the way I fricken love them, most of my friends are Aries Suns. It's just something I've noticed.. IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted September 21, 2016 06:52 PM
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FatedCinderella
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posted September 21, 2016 06:53 PM
I dont know any aries men so I can't give opinion but all the libras I know are cheaters.IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted September 21, 2016 06:58 PM
Mine did--well, he didn't officially cheat, he just turned out to be a liar, and he betrayed me (online) with an ex. But before he met me, he slept with a close friends' girlfriend, which is cheater-like. But I thought it was his lunar stellium (including Neptune and Pluto) in Sagittarius in the 12th house. He has ALL of the negative, low-vibe manifestations of 12h Sag (as well as some of the positive, high-vibe ones)....I didn't see it as an Aries thing. If it is an Ariies thing, it could just be about wanting what they want when they want it--sometimes those guys move in a straight line forward, they don't seem to think about anybody else, just their own end goal. IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted September 21, 2016 07:00 PM
I'm pretty sure my Libra ex was faithful to me (we were together a long time)---we're close now and I' m almost 100% positive he's faithful to his wife.IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted September 21, 2016 07:04 PM
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Originally posted by Lucia23:
If it is an Ariies thing, it could just be about wanting what they want when they want it--sometimes those guys move in a straight line forward, they don't seem to think about anybody else, just their own end goal.
I think so. Act now, consequences later. Also wanting new new new experiences? It's just interesting that all the ones I know share this pattern 😐 IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 22, 2016 03:08 AM
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EmGem
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posted September 23, 2016 07:30 PM
^^ yep! It's that impulsive energy that at times gets them into trouble. I notice that these men that I know (not generalizing) tend to have a mothering type of gf/wife that they need to stabilize them and provide all the comforts they need - cooking, cleaning etc. then they go off and 'play'. Somehow they feel they can't have both within one woman. The wife AND the sex goddess. It seems it will never be enough for them. IP: Logged |
Julz87
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posted September 23, 2016 07:53 PM
One of my best relationship was with an Aries Sun Libra Moon. :/ he wasn't a cheater in fact he always asked if anything ever made me feel uncomfortable. He was really sweet, I was the one that screwed up though (Libra) wasn't ready for something serious. I have DC in Aries, Jupiter in Aries, NN and Vertex in Aries. One of my closest friends is an Aries as well. IP: Logged |
Lehia2
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posted September 24, 2016 02:05 PM
I currently know four Aries man, 2 of them I'm unfortunately interested in. 3 of them cheaters. Fourth one..I'm not sure. Moon/venus/mars doesn't seem to matter.IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted September 24, 2016 02:49 PM
I know many Aries men and dated one for 7 years and am currently married to one so I feel qualified to answer this. They need excitement. Period. Analyze that how you wish and make conclusions based on that. Also, if you are able to argue at the top of your lungs 1 second and follow it up with hot sex the next second, you're good. Are they liars? Not in my opinion. My experience has been that they'll come straight out and tell you what happened. It's your choice after that. Edit: they do have a hard time letting go of exs.. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted September 24, 2016 03:00 PM
The ones close to me.Cancer sun (my cousin) -cheated his girlfriend thousand times!!! Still doing and doesn't mind to tell us.I was very surprised because I mistaken his birth day and I thought he was a gemini sun. My libra friends - Also cheat and tell everybody about it.My boss is one of them.He is married,cheated his wife a billion times and even asked me to help him with a woman once. Only mentioned the ones who cheated many times and dont feel regret about it.Every sign can be a CHEATER!! Im capricorn sun and betrayal for me is something serious but never say never right? lol We are humans after all but I know that I would feel a DEEP guilt ( I mean I feel guilt even for my thoughts when I have a boyfriend and I think someone other then them is beautiful) and besides that no one puts a gun into your head and obligates you to commit with someone else...well perhaps a crazy person but you know what I mean  IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted September 24, 2016 07:33 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I know many Aries men and dated one for 7 years and am currently married to one so I feel qualified to answer this. They need excitement. Period. Analyze that how you wish and make conclusions based on that. Also, if you are able to argue at the top of your lungs 1 second and follow it up with hot sex the next second, you're good. Are they liars? Not in my opinion. My experience has been that they'll come straight out and tell you what happened. It's your choice after that. Edit: they do have a hard time letting go of exs..
How do YOU keep the excitement going Charlie? How do you keep him on his toes? Agree about the ex thing. I've noticed this too. I wouldn't have thought that Aries would hold on so much because they're so quick to change and get over stuff - well, you'd think. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted September 25, 2016 07:11 AM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
How do YOU keep the excitement going Charlie? How do you keep him on his toes? Agree about the ex thing. I've noticed this too. I wouldn't have thought that Aries would hold on so much because they're so quick to change and get over stuff - well, you'd think.
I don't really have to work so hard in the excitement-department because I'm seriously nuanced by Uranus and all what that entails :-/ I never sit still. I never not blurt out something random. I can say some pretty off the chart crazy stuff, and believe it. I am a non-conformist! I also have Mars conj ASC..
I will speak my mind when I feel like it-take it or don't. Much like an Aries.
My mother is a Aries Asc with a Scorpio Stellium so I have FIRE in my blood. The only advice I can give with Aries men, and women, is: Don't be boring
Be upfront
Don't be a crybaby
Speak your mind
Don't be a "rug"-don't let people walk all over you
Do your own thing whether Aries likes it or not
Also, they don't really like vulgarity I've noticed but they do like a strong woman. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted September 25, 2016 08:16 AM
My ex was an Aries and I'm pretty sure he's the most loyal person I've ever met. Granted, we weren't together for very long so I can't be absolute in my opinion about him... But I am rather certain he'd never cheat. He also didn't seem to need a lot of excitement to be happy...But he had a Taurus Venus with a Cancer Moon and a Leo asc (so very fixed / grounded / stable). In fact I've heard a lot of people say the exact opposite - Aries people (men and women) can be very loyal and devoted. So don't be too quick to put them all in the same basket.  IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted September 25, 2016 08:34 AM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I don't really have to work so hard in the excitement-department because I'm seriously nuanced by Uranus and all what that entails :-/ I never sit still. I never not blurt out something random. I can say some pretty off the chart crazy stuff, and believe it. I am a non-conformist! I also have Mars conj ASC..
I will speak my mind when I feel like it-take it or don't. Much like an Aries.
My mother is a Aries Asc with a Scorpio Stellium so I have FIRE in my blood.The only advice I can give with Aries men, and women, is: Don't be boring
Be upfront
Don't be a crybaby
Speak your mind
Don't be a "rug"-don't let people walk all over you
Do your own thing whether Aries likes it or not
Also, they don't really like vulgarity I've noticed but they do like a strong woman.
Ha! My next question was going to be "do you have lots of Uranus energy going on.". Thought that might be the case. Uranian types would most certainly keep them on their toes.
I know you have mars on the ascendant, but do you have any Aries placements? @doux, I know I'm trying not to generalise. This is just what I've noticed happening around me.
I believe when they have found the right woman for them, yes they can be very loyal. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted September 25, 2016 09:37 AM
Yes, I understand, but I just wanted to add that as a little reminder that "they're not all the same". IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted September 25, 2016 11:09 AM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
Ha! My next question was going to be "do you have lots of Uranus energy going on.". Thought that might be the case. Uranian types would most certainly keep them on their toes.
I know you have mars on the ascendant, but do you have any Aries placements?@doux, I know I'm trying not to generalise. This is just what I've noticed happening around me.
I believe when they have found the right woman for them, yes they can be very loyal.
No planets in Aries except Lilith 8H. I am almost purely Cardinal though and things need to move forward, fast, for me. IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted September 25, 2016 06:07 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
In fact I've heard a lot of people say the exact opposite - Aries people (men and women) can be very loyal and devoted.
Yeah, a lot depends on where they're at in their life, at the moment. It takes a serious relationship to shake them up and make them commit for real. But when they do, they do with complete clarity and honesty bordering on naivete. Yes they can be a bit like a bat out of hell in their impulsive moments - but they'll usually strive to keep things "above board" and be honest with you about their past, and present. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted September 25, 2016 06:31 PM
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Originally posted by Elysia:
Yeah, a lot depends on where they're at in their life, at the moment. It takes a serious relationship to shake them up and make them commit for real. But when they do, they do with complete clarity and honesty bordering on naivete. Yes they can be a bit like a bat out of hell in their impulsive moments - but they'll usually strive to keep things "above board" and be honest with you about their past, and present.
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polkadotstars
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posted September 27, 2016 03:58 PM
Aries men? Or men in general. Or women in general for that matter. People are going to cheat (or not) regardless of their sun sign. I've been cheated on by all but one guy. Only one of them was an Aries. So, meh. It's not just an Aries thing. IP: Logged |
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