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MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 809 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015	posted September 28, 2016 11:27 PM I want to know because this is what happens to me. I always find more attractive an older or younger person and not so much a person of my age (or one year of difference). Example: When I was 15 I was dating a 12 years old kid. And when I was 16 I was with someone who was 12. 21 with someone of 18. And I feel comfortable with older and younger people but it doesn't happens the same with those who are my age. I hope I explained well. EDIT: Thanks for your replies! I have Saturn in Pisces 11th house conjunct Sun in 11th house, square Jupiter in Sagittarius 8th house. And this aspect, I don't know what it means, lol. What do you think? IP: Logged
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1294 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015	posted September 28, 2016 11:44 PM I am typically like this. I used to have a really tough time relating to people my age and often would hang out with older people because they were more understanding of what I was seeking. As of now, I can better understand the people in my age group and can relate to them a bit more, but only slightly. I still feel like I don't fit in with the age group at times and enjoy the company of people who are older. I just seek out deep-seated connections with people and most people in my age group can't do that. This is mostly a Saturn issue, at least for me it was. I have my Saturn on my DSC in Aries (Saturn conjunct Vertex fixed star)(out of sign conjunction with Taurus DSC), and so this naturally makes me attracted to older people. I heard that Saturn square the Midheaven can do the same thing. Check out what Saturn is doing in your chart, and it may clear some things up. ------------------ Scorpio Ascendant Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Check out my blog ya'll: www.electrodgxtalks.wordpress.com IP: Logged
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1485 From: Registered: Jan 2015	posted September 28, 2016 11:45 PM Yep. Same happens to me! Always younger than me though. I'm not attracted to people the same age as me. Not even as friends mostly. IP: Logged
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1485 From: Registered: Jan 2015	posted September 28, 2016 11:46 PM quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: I am typically like this. I used to have a really tough time relating to people my age and often would hang out with older people because they were more understanding of what I was seeking. As of now, I can better understand the people in my age group and can relate to them a bit more, but only slightly. I still feel like I don't fit in with the age group at times and enjoy the company of people who are older. I just seek out deep-seated connections with people and most people in my age group can't do that. This is mostly a Saturn issue, at least for me it was. I have my Saturn on my DSC in Aries (Saturn conjunct Vertex fixed star)(out of sign conjunction with Taurus DSC), and so this naturally makes me attracted to older people. I heard that Saturn square the Midheaven can do the same thing. Check out what Saturn is doing in your chart, and it may clear some things up. Good point. That might explain things is my case. I have moon/mars/Saturn conjunction natally. Therefore anyone my age is going to hit that stellium with their Saturn. Talk about heavy. No thanks. IP: Logged
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1294 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015	posted September 28, 2016 11:55 PM quote: Originally posted by EmGem: Good point. That might explain things is my case. I have moon/mars/Saturn conjunction natally. Therefore anyone my age is going to hit that stellium with their Saturn. Talk about heavy. No thanks. Makes sense. In my age group their Saturn would oppose my Mars and square my Aquarius Stellium (Merc, Neptune, Sun, and Uranus), and that's something I don't want to deal with. Nope nope nope... ------------------ Scorpio Ascendant Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Check out my blog ya'll: www.electrodgxtalks.wordpress.com IP: Logged
MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 809 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015	posted September 29, 2016 12:13 AM quote: Originally posted by EmGem: Good point. That might explain things is my case. I have moon/mars/Saturn conjunction natally. Therefore anyone my age is going to hit that stellium with their Saturn. Talk about heavy. No thanks. quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: Makes sense. In my age group their Saturn would oppose my Mars and square my Aquarius Stellium (Merc, Neptune, Sun, and Uranus), and that's something I don't want to deal with. Nope nope nope... The people of my age have their Saturn conjunct my Sun and Saturn. But I've been friend with people who have their Saturn square my Moon and Venus. I don't know what to think. IP: Logged
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 6143 From: us Registered: May 2012	posted September 29, 2016 12:17 AM Saturn in the 11th Aries 4th House Cusp Gemini 8th House Cusp Those are the ones I remember right off hand. I think the Gemini 8th House Cusp belonged to a reading for a composite chart I'd seen. I think there are others too... If I notice them, I'll add to your thread. IP: Logged
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 6143 From: us Registered: May 2012	posted September 29, 2016 12:37 AM ..... IP: Logged
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8373 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010	posted September 29, 2016 12:47 AM quote: Originally posted by MilaBirkin: when I was 16 I was with someone who was 12 Just out of curiosity, what was this like? (That is, where did you two go on dates, what did you talk about, etc.) Also, what did his family think of this? Did he have any older siblings? And how did you know each other and how did you start dating. Again, this is only curiosity. It's teasing my mind on how this came about and what it was like, and it could be very interesting. IP: Logged
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 450 From: Registered: Jan 2015	posted September 29, 2016 01:04 AM quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: .... I heard that Saturn square the Midheaven can do the same thing. Check out what Saturn is doing in your chart, and it may clear some things up. Yes. I'm always attracted to older people, not so much to young people or the same age as me. I prefer two years to five years older men. Sometimes up to ten years older if they have some young at heart quality. I currently involve with a man who is six months older but we are at different year and.. yeah.. I would love much older people. IP: Logged
incognito Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Dec 2013	posted September 29, 2016 01:23 AM I am like this. I've dated 12 years older, currently dating 12 years younger. I didn't know their ages first, I just go by who I feel comfortable with Ive only dated one person who was 1 1/2 years younger (complete disaster) Mostly because my sun conjuncts pluto and squares my moon and anyone in my age range has their pluto also on my sun squaring moon and they end up being really controlling freaks!!! Dating anyone in my age range is just way too intense to be comfortable. Cannot be sustained. IP: Logged
MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 809 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015	posted September 29, 2016 01:46 AM Thank you! Everything is interesting. IP: Logged
MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 809 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015	posted September 29, 2016 01:51 AM quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: Just out of curiosity, what was this like? (That is, where did you two go on dates, what did you talk about, etc.) Also, what did his family think of this? Did he have any older siblings? And how did you know each other and how did you start dating. Again, this is only curiosity. It's teasing my mind on how this came about and what it was like, and it could be very interesting. It's ok! Well, I only dated guys but that 12 years old person I dated when I was 16 was a girl. We only were on school. A friend in common and then everything started. I don't remember our conversations. I only remember we had so much fun and I was very happy. She was very popular, everyone was talking about her because nobody was sure if she was a girl or a boy. I only met her mom but I've never spoke to her in person. I think. Oh, I want to remember her birthday. I guess it was on January and her Sun conj. my Venus in Aquarius. I'm sorry, my memory sucks . And I'm sorry for my english too. IP: Logged
ScarlettO'Hara Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Dec 2013	posted September 29, 2016 01:53 AM Hi, Same case... I have venus in aqua in 11th which is co ruled by saturn!!! So I have always been attracted to older people or younger but never my own age group. Also look for saturn and moon aspect. My saturn aspects moon in 7th with scorpio energy! Or pluto in 7th with saturn aspecting it. IP: Logged
MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 809 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015	posted September 29, 2016 01:55 AM quote: Originally posted by ScarlettO'Hara: Hi, Same case... I have venus in aqua in 11th which is co ruled by saturn!!! So I have always been attracted to older people or younger but never my own age group. Also look for saturn and moon aspect. My saturn aspects moon in 7th with scorpio energy! Or pluto in 7th with saturn aspecting it. Woah! I have Venus in Aquarius too! In 10th house. And Pluto in 7th house. IP: Logged
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8373 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010	posted September 29, 2016 02:12 AM quote: Originally posted by MilaBirkin: I'm sorry, my memory sucks . And I'm sorry for my english too. Thanks for sharing what you could recall. IP: Logged
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 1086 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015	posted September 29, 2016 03:39 AM I think Venus/Saturn aspects can cause this. I have this aspect and I've always been attracted to older men. IP: Logged
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1205 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted September 29, 2016 04:05 AM venus-saturn IP: Logged
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 3367 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012	posted September 29, 2016 05:50 AM Venus-Saturn conjunct Moon-Saturn trine Ruler of the 7th conjunct Saturn Saturn in the 7th Sun semi-square Saturn I attract younger people.I think older people are a little controlling for me and so i don't really get on with them and am not comfortable being in a relationship with one. IP: Logged
Lerena Knowflake Posts: 438 From: Registered: May 2015	posted September 29, 2016 12:09 PM I think there's something about Capricorn placements that tends to attract older people. Capricorn energy can make someone seem more mature when they're younger and it takes a while for their own age group to develop the same amount of maturity. Saturn rules my North Node and squares my Sun. I've often been attracted to men older than me because in the past my own age group fell short of being able to connect with me. A lot of my friends are older than me. The tables are turning, however, as I'm finding myself being older in more cases than before. I'm actually dating someone with a Capricorn Ascendant and he's a year younger than me. I think his Ascendant makes him seem a bit more mature, plus our ages aren't that far apart. Still, I am older than him and that seems to be a trend for Capricorn Ascendants. IP: Logged
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 11564 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted September 29, 2016 12:17 PM quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Venus-Saturn conjunct Moon-Saturn trine Ruler of the 7th conjunct Saturn Saturn in the 7th Sun semi-square Saturn I attract younger people.I think older people are a little controlling for me and so i don't really get on with them and am not comfortable being in a relationship with one. I have Sun square Saturn, the Moon trine, Venus sq. Saturn and Saturn in the 7th but I'm not attracted to older people (unless you count 2 years older as that) on the contrary a lot of younger guys are attracted to me. I have Gem ASC / Sag DSC. IP: Logged
MermaidDreamz Knowflake Posts: 459 From: In the clouds Registered: Sep 2015	posted September 29, 2016 04:03 PM . . IP: Logged
Kiimberly Knowflake Posts: 53 From: the desert, the moon Registered: Aug 2015	posted September 29, 2016 04:07 PM My Saturn is conjunct my sun, which would mean natally most people my age have their saturn stationed right there as well. I don't really get along well with people my age or older, unless they are MUCH older (at least double my age), and I don't appeal to those younger but I'm only 25 and I didn't like 25 year olds when I was younger either lol IP: Logged
SoStellarOne Knowflake Posts: 103 From: Charleston,SC, US Registered: Feb 2012	posted September 29, 2016 09:28 PM Me too. I have Saturn in Libra conjunct my 7th House and I have a very hard time really connecting or relating to people in my generation between 1980 through 1988. Its mainly because the Saturn in Scorpio squares my Mercury making communication very difficult. Saturn in Sagittarius makes bonding and intimacy extremely difficult because it squares all of my personal planets. Uranus and Neptune in Sagittarius squares my personal planets, making deception and betrayal more prevalent in relationships to where longevity isn't easily acheived. I'm more drawn to much older and younger people; With the younger people, I really like the comfortable outer planets in Capricorn and Scorpio.Those hard aspects with Uranus and Neptune can be frustrating and confusing. IP: Logged
leo_moon Newflake Posts: 8 From: neptune Registered: Oct 2016	posted October 02, 2016 03:10 PM I'm like this too. Venus-Saturn, and Venus squares Pluto of my age group. IP: Logged

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