posted October 01, 2016 11:27 PM            

In my experience, people with Aquarius moons are not cold. They are actually emotional and passive people (well, until you try getting them to do something on any other timetable than their own...) and they like to help. Their emotional responses will probably be more random and not as consistent as their fellow fixed signs given that they're ruled by Uranus.

Aqua moons are observant, and keep their cool meaning they won't react immediately like an Aries moon would. In fact, you may not even know they picked up what they did. On top of that? They're intuitive. AF. Visionaries, clairvoyant. It's spooky.

That's about all I have. I was an acquaintance with a guy who was a Scorpio, and had Moon in Aquarius. He was tatted head to toe, did body piercing, and an expressive person. Here is how I saw his Sun / Moon come into play: I was a regular at the shop he worked at, and one day I came in to get work done, he flirted with me, but I didn't pick up on it. I came off very opposite of what I normally am (maybe that's another affect of someone's Aquarius moon - bringing out different sides in people than what's "normal") but was still friendly. Anyway, so later I realized he was flirting with me from multiple people explaining it and I tried adding him to Facebook. He's not a dude who seems very picky about his friend's list with 3,000+ people on there. He added people... but not me. It was a weird, unexpected reaction from someone.

I never figured out why or really cared that much but I wanted to share that so you got an idea of what I meant by "surprise" reactions.

posted October 02, 2016 02:29 AM            

Anywhozelbee, I know someone (not close) with Sag Sun/Moon in Aqua.

What i have noticed is that he is very friendly from far. But kind of impersonal when you get close to him.

The same is true of someone i am closer to with Asc in Aqua. He is people oriented but not personal either.....weirdly enough.

The Aqua Moon may cool a lot of the inherent Scorpio nature by injecting a lot of intellectual reason and logic into the manner of expression.

posted October 02, 2016 04:01 PM            

He also has a very high IQ but his emotional IQ has a lot of room for growth.

posted October 02, 2016 04:13 PM            

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Originally posted by scorpiogirl:
Well, Aqua Moon is awesome so there's a clue for you
He might have interesting/unorthodox/pick whatever word you want daily habits. Self-contained with his emotions (wrongly perceived as cold). Potential to be a very loyal, entertaining friend. As for boyfriend material, my guess is that he would be self-contained (again) with his emotions with maybe the occasional surprising outburst.
In my experience Aqua Moons are deceptively friendy and welcoming but in reality they need to take their time to get to know you, get used to you and if all goes well, allow you to enter their world (corny, I know). Until that happens you'll only be to them someone they can chat up for a bit and that's it.

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posted October 02, 2016 04:59 PM            

First time he was gone for 3 weeks and then we met a week later. He kinda explained himself he said it had been what 3 weeks and I said slightly more. I said I never expected to hear from him again. He said that he was so sorry. He said that he was happy to see me again and we should keep doing it as we get on so well and are really compatible.

He said that he was coming off tinder, he wasn't going to date anymore as he didnt like it. He really liked me is what he was trying to say.

He said he wanted to date but didnt want to get involved in something heavy very quickly and just enjoy. He'd been single for 3-4 years...well same for me in a way. My last serious relationship was a long while ago. Hence not wanting to get involved.

He said I dont have to come off dating if I don't want to but he has deleted the whole thing. He said we were very compatible but I might find someone moreso.....really?!

he said we really should meet again now he is off online dating. Well ok. But now he has gone after saying he would call me.

Has been weeks.

posted October 02, 2016 05:25 PM            

You're both right... I kinda feel like making an Aqua moon thread, and adding your insights to the compilation. It's a rather misunderstood placement. Not feeling up to making a thread today, but I might someday.

posted October 02, 2016 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Why are people increasingly defensive about being qouted all of a Sunday?

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It's been going on for a long time imo lol...I find it a little irritating but hey to each it's own.

posted October 02, 2016 06:09 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
It's been going on for a long time imo lol...I find it a little irritating but hey to each it's own.

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I dont get that. The poster who asked not to be quoted, quoted another, not extending the courtesy.

posted October 02, 2016 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
@hannaramaa & scorpiogirl,

You're both right... I kinda feel like making an Aqua moon thread, and adding your insights to the compilation. It's a rather misunderstood placement. Not feeling up to making a thread today, but I might someday.

@AmelieRose81,
Yeah we may seem friendly, but getting over that barrier into the "inner world" is a whole different ball game. Don't be fooled by the apparent lack of interest. Hannaramaa & scorpiogirl are right, it takes time.

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The thing is, he talked to me alot and asked me things about myself and made me feel at ease. he seemed intersted and encouraged me.

Then the next time I saw him he seemed put off. he said I told him alot about myself and he seemed put off. But he asked me all this stuff.....

Then he said he wanted to see me again and then vanished.

posted October 02, 2016 08:21 PM            

But based on my personal experience, with an Aqua Moon is better to not read too much into their apparent behavior. Sometimes they are just so caught up in what they are doing on their own and on their world. They live a lot in their head. And they don't let just anyone inside their world. It takes time and certainty for them.

They like to observe and if they act uninterested, then they could be interested and usually that is shown with some random, out of the blue and obvious demonstration of their interest which happens only in a moment, because then they go back to their inner world (the usual misinterpretation of "behaves on/off").

Hope this can be helpful in some way.
Relax, take care of you and be your authentic self always dear. I hope all goes well for you, good luck!!

posted October 02, 2016 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Sunnya:
@Amelie This will be just my two cents. Keep always in mind that I don't know your guy and things could be different because of many things.

But based on my personal experience, with an Aqua Moon is better to not read too much into their apparent behavior. Sometimes they are just so caught up in what they are doing on their own and on their world. They live a lot in their head. And they don't let just anyone inside their world. It takes time and certainty for them.

They like to observe and if they act uninterested, then they could be interested and usually that is shown with some random, out of the blue and obvious demonstration of their interest which happens only in a moment, because then they go back to their inner world (the usual misinterpretation of "behaves on/off").

Hope this can be helpful in some way.
Relax, take care of you and be your authentic self always dear. I hope all goes well for you, good luck!!

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posted October 03, 2016 06:51 AM            

It is so rude just to vanish though.

posted October 03, 2016 07:06 AM            

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
I am a Taurus moon.

It is so rude just to vanish though.

he vanisehd once, apologised for it and then vanished again.

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It is rude, and vanishing isn't an "Aquarius" or sign-related thing. That's a specific personality.

Better you know to keep it moving now than a year later!

posted October 03, 2016 07:41 AM            

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
he has done it twice after saying we really should meet up again.

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posted October 03, 2016 09:18 AM            

If you're new on the scene they will be the friendliest/kindest/warmest person in the room. Once your novelty wears off, it wears off quick with Aquas, this same sign will do a 180 and chill you to the bone.

posted October 03, 2016 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Nah, Aqua energy is cold. Sorry.

If you're new on the scene they will be the friendliest/kindest/warmest person in the room. Once your novelty wears off, it wears off quick with Aquas, this same sign will do a 180 and chill you to the bone.

Mirror their behavior and listen to them complain how you never call, or come around, or reach out anymore. Don't fall for it, they're cold fish by design. Keep it up!! What you will get is respect, and they will cut down on the mind games they love playing.

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I don't know... I'm not one for mind games. My Aqua behavior isn't a vamped up version of playing hard to get - that type of calculated desire for power dynamics is often found more in Scorpio or Capricorn types.

I will say I respect it when people aren't needy and don't see me simply being "me" as some kind of game to win me over. One can feel that cloying need for validation and it's a turn off. That feels very overbearing. When someone is chill and never wavers in a soft type of affection, that's what melts me over time. The best relationship of my life was with a Scorpio Venus/Pisces Moon which says it all..

Trust me when someone never calls, never compliments me, and never shows interest.. I take a hint! Aqua energy can be hypocritical in that way, but when we "do it", it's not a question of purposefully refusing to show interest.. it's just our personality to always be this way!! Circumstances be damned. So when not-Aqua-types mirror this behavior we can feel the insincerity and the hostility - I personally am not into that.

An Aqua in love is "hesitance" embodied. Obvious signs of adoration doesn't flow naturally through this sign like it does through all others. There is warmth beneath the perceived iciness. If one still feels Aqua is cold, they've just never actually penetrated beneath that surface despite thinking they have.

posted October 03, 2016 09:35 AM            

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I don't know... I'm not one for mind games. My Aqua behavior isn't a vamped up version of playing hard to get - that type of calculated desire for power dynamics is often found more in Scorpio or Capricorn types.

I will say I respect it when people aren't needy and don't see me simply being "me" as some kind of game to win me over. One can feel that cloying need for validation and it's a turn off. That feels very overbearing. When someone is chill and never wavers in a soft type of affection, that's what melts me over time. The best relationship of my life was with a Scorpio Venus/Pisces Moon which says it all..

Trust me when someone never calls, never compliments me, and never shows interest.. I take a hint! Aqua energy can be hypocritical in that way, but when we do it, it doesn't a question of not purposefully showing interest it's just our personality to perpetually be this way!! So when not Aqua-types mirror this behavior we can feel the insincerity and I personally am not into that.

An Aqua in love is "hesitance" embodied. Obvious signs of adoration doesn't flow naturally through this sign like it does through all others. There is warmth beneath the perceived iciness. If one still feels Aqua is cold, they've just never actually penetrated beneath that surface despite thinking they have.

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posted October 03, 2016 09:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
WOW!! That was very insightful.

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posted October 03, 2016 05:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Nah, Aqua energy is cold. Sorry.

If you're new on the scene they will be the friendliest/kindest/warmest person in the room. Once your novelty wears off, it wears off quick with Aquas, this same sign will do a 180 and chill you to the bone.

Mirror their behavior and listen to them complain how you never call, or come around, or reach out anymore. Don't fall for it, they're cold fish by design. Keep it up!! What you will get is respect, and they will cut down on the mind games they love playing.

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Well that is exactly what happened. it went from him chasing me down to spending a few days with me, toasting our next date. To backing off for 3 weeks.

To coming back to me and asking me out again with none of the intensity and then saying he doesnt want anything serious right now: ok fine, I'm not bothered about commitment right now, to saying he really liked me, we should meet again and that I was "cool".

Well I have been chill with him, not demanded anything as I am really laid back. I just enjoy that persons company.

Why say he was gonig to call and how we really should meet again to a total vansihing act.