posted October 08, 2016 05:42 PM            

1. What 7th House placements do you have?

2. How attracted are you to the traits that these placements represent (like the sign that rules the planet or that the placement is in)? How involved have you been with people with this energy?

3. What do you love the most about your 7th House energy in other people? What do you hate the most about these traits in others?

4. How do you see yourself acting out the energy of your 7th House in your relations with other people? What kind of partner or best friend are you?

5. Do you ever get surprised, confused, or offended if someone points out the traits of your 7th House placement, particularly the negative ones?

6. What are you looking for the most in a close relationship?

I'm a 7th Houser too. So I will be answering shortly.

posted October 08, 2016 06:27 PM            

2. I have always loved Leo energy. I knew that was significant before I even knew the full depths of astrology. There has not been a time in my life where I wasn't close to a Leo. I grew up around two of them. My best friend of nearly a decade now is a Leo Sun.

I feel like it works better friendship wise than romance wise. Maybe it is my South Node at play because being in a romance with another Leo feels like a drama waiting to happen, which I don't need. It has never truly worked out between me and a guy with Leo placements. But the attraction is a very frequent pattern. I have also been involved with someone with a 1st House Sun and with Sun in the 5th and a Leo Midheaven.So it can manifest in many ways. Just as long as the Sun/Leo/5th House is prominent.

3. I used to be Leo's biggest fan. Haha now I still love the sign but not so obsessively. What do I love? The fun loving spirit. The confidence (when it is genuine confidence and not bravado). The playful humor and colorful personality. Being with another Leo person can feel like being two characters in a hilarious comedy movie, improvising a great scene.

The bad? The need for attention or reassurance can be a bit much. Being childish and annoying instead of charmingly childlike. They can have trouble actually hearing you and either interrupt a lot or impose on you. Also, the presumption that their opinion of you or your choices is so effing important. Uh, who asked you, sweetie?

4. I think I am an excellent friend and companion to have. I am very confident in what I have to offer somebody because I have spent so much of my life focusing on being the best partner I can be, on being perfectly available and loyal and understanding. Now, I know that I am being given permission by the Universe to not live for others and live for myself. But I have put a lot of energy into being good at relationships.

I like to feel like I can light up someone's life. I am very lively company and do enjoy entertaining people and keeping things from getting boring. When someone is down or lacking, I know how to provide a lot of "up" energy. I like just laughing with people and joking around and keeping things easy. In terms of romance, in particular, I do have a lot of confidence and can be so strong willed, in terms of wanting to be with someone, that I have had to be more chill and laidback just to stay balanced. I can easily overpower someone with my energy if I am not careful. Without realizing it, I can start to dominate, which is why I need someone who also has a strong personality. Otherwise, the imbalance either bores me or makes me uncomfortable.

5. I have gotten many responses in the past regarding me being arrogant. It does surprise me because I don't see it that way. I just know who I am and have a strong energy. I guess I don't entirely know my strength either, though. My pride can burn people if I go too far. Also, my ability to be a lot of fun without even trying. Even when I think I am not "on", I apparently am. So, people have enthusiastically told me they had a really good time with me, even when I thought it was just average.

And I am also somehow the nicest guy ever, even when I don't intend to be. If I had a nickel for every "you're so sweet". But I am very warm and sincere and genuinely want to make people feel good. Like I greet old friends with a huge HI and a smile and get excited to see them. I don't see it as a big deal. But I guess you don't always run across that.

6. I feel like a relationship should be two individuals meeting in the middle. I never want the other person to forget that I am an individual. But they are too. Like I said, I just need someone who is strong enough in themselves. I get that we all get insecure from time to time. But a ton of recurring insecurity is a big turn off. Also, just loyalty and being truly willing to make it work.

Also, I just cannot be close to someone who is really boring and just doesn't have much oomph. I want the relationship to be entertaining and exciting. I want to feel that special bond, a lively kind of chemistry.

posted October 08, 2016 08:51 PM            

Leo jupiter and cancer chiron.

2. How attracted are you to the traits that these placements represent (like the sign that rules the planet or that the placement is in)? How involved have you been with people with this energy?

I like people with jupiter traits. Warm, personable, larger than life, generous to themselves and others, "go big" and hold nothing back, well-traveled, like to explore religion and spirituality...etc...

I like dashing, sweep-you-off-your-feet kinda men. Or understated and dedicated, like a humble knight. Courageous and determined.

My s.o has 1st house jupiter.

Not sure about cancer chiron. I often attract people with traumatic past, they see me as a confidant. I don't offer pity or walk on egg shell around them, they find it refreshing.

3. What do you love the most about your 7th House energy in other people? What do you hate the most about these traits in others?

Extravagant, excess, grand/dramatic flair. I love it, although sometimes it makes me feel conflicted. I have saturn in the 1st house, I tend to navigate towards simplicity.

I'm restless. Always wonder what's out there beyond the horizon. I'm sure it also has something to do with uranus.

4. How do you see yourself acting out the energy of your 7th House in your relations with other people? What kind of partner or best friend are you?

I'm generous. Unless there's a reason not to, usually I give people what they ask for, and offer a hand even when they don't ask. Some people think it's weird that I *care so much* about other people and their business. "But why?", they ask. And I'm like "Why not?". It usually doesn't cost an arm and a leg, so why not.

I spoil the ones who are close to me, even though I deny myself sometimes. It's more of a saturn thing, I think. They get the best that I can provide. As for myself, I'm comfortable with a little less.

My restlessness sometimes troubles the ones who are close to me.

Jupiter expands, so I know quite a lot of people now that I think about it. I don't really do "social" stuff, being rather introverted. But I connect with others easily, hence have a wide network. I usually know where to go, what to look for, whom to seek out. People do come to me asking for information.

5. Do you ever get surprised, confused, or offended if someone points out the traits of your 7th House placement, particularly the negative ones?

I get like "Heh, yeah. And???"

6. What are you looking for the most in a close relationship?

Warmth, trust, people who are the wind beneath my wings, rather than the scissors that clip them.

posted October 09, 2016 01:10 AM            

2. I'm pretty attracted to Plutonian personalities, some scorpios I vibe with, I've had a lot of close friends growing up who where Scorpio, plus soo many of my family are scorpios or have Pluto influence. Artistic, moody folk, I can relate obviously ha. I attract really intense and strong personalities, I feel like my calmness is comforting and I'm patient so I am not easily ruffled by domineering types, maybe because I can relate to it myself, or see it in myself. I'm really attracted to relationships that have strong Pluto themes but they're so turbulent and generate such engulfing and intense experiences.. It's a lot to handle psychologically. Friends work out better I think, or maybe I havnt found the right person ha I don't know.

3. I love how unique and bizarre Pluto energy can be, I love talent and art aesthetics in others too. The power games/controls and manipulation is prolly my least favorite theme in relationships as well as suspicion. I wished people didn't have such intense reactions to me sometimes, either ignore me, challenge me or help me/love me.

4. I have really deep feelings/passions towards things and people, my relationships have a lot of ups and downs, some are less turbulent. I can be pretty jealous but I hide it well and I'm pretty hypersensitive to people so I can get paranoid and suspicious easily if I over analyze things. Im definitely an artisan and have had a hard time connecting with others easily my whole life, always resorted to my art to express what was inside. When I was younger I use to be a lot more controlling and intense, but I've learned to talk myself out of it and I'm better at controlling myself. It seems to be something I frequently come on to to work with tho.. I have few close friends but they are soul/spiritual bonds, it's hard for me to take interactions lightly, I care too much. I'm super loyal and protective of the people I love, I love this trait in my relationships too when the people I love protect me.

5. No it doesn't surprise me, it frustrates me when I feel misunderstood and I feel like I know myself pretty well.. I know I can be a bit much when I'm feeling crazy (sun/Mars/merc conj wit Pluto closely parallel by 0 degree orb also)

posted October 09, 2016 01:44 AM            

2. Very drawn to people who are dominant in Leo or the Sun overall. When I was a kid and young teen, only having knowledge of Sun Signs, I'd tell people that I'd probably end up marrying a Leo one day, because even back then I knew I was attracted to others who radiated SUNLIGHT or that royalty vibe lol. I don't have any friends with Leo in them, but romantic interests stem way back.

3. Projecting the Sun onto others makes me think that people are just far more self-expressive than I. OTHERS are warmer, OTHERS are more exuberant, OTHERS are more creative. In lower types, others are self-absorbed, pig-headed, spoilt and whiny. They don't notice anyone else in the room besides themselves...

4. I've always been one of those people who never resonated much with their Sun Sign. At least conceptually, I didn't resonate with it. The thing is that its not that its not there, just that its more obvious when I'm around OTHERS. Sun in the 7th house works a little like: I illuminate Self through Others, and Others through Self. Or something like that...I have seen this placement manifest as co-dependency. Not knowing who you are unless you have another to bounce off of. My best friend, a Libra Sun, also has her Sun in the 7th house, and I think she has issues with knowing what she ACTUALLY likes or dislikes, because her light or 'Will' is meshed in with 'what's out there.'
I suspect because she's Libra, she is more susceptible.
So it can manifest like that, or, it can be highly self-immuminating. 'What's out there' can help me to understand facets of myself I never even knew existed. But also I must never let 'Whats out there' define me.
As to how I act it out with others, I can be pretty dramatic whilst entertaining, affectionate, and sometimes a bit showy, I'll admit it. OTHER PEOPLE tend to bring out my ego and pride-issues, any problems with self-esteem and confidence, but also leadership potential.

5. Not with Leo, oh no. I'm very aware of those tendencies My Virgo bits (usually) keep me in line anyway.

6. Romantically I am not looking for a partner in show-biz or the spotlight, like a generically described Sun in 7th houser haha. This might be a strange interpretation, but since my descendant is ruled by the Moon (feminine principle), and I've also got the Sun there (masculine principle) I think this manifests as my wanting a partner who has a good handle on both his masculine and feminine energies. I need equality and balance, above all. I do not tolerate game-playing, controlling or dominating people. I enjoy others who understand the give and take in all things. It's usually as if they have to understand the Libra Principle FIRST, and most other things come second.
Other than that I guess I'm just looking for people with a similar energy to myself. Or complimentary. Aren't we all?

posted October 09, 2016 10:33 AM            

2. I've been very romantically compatible with Libras (because of my Leo Sun, I think), and two of my major relationships were with Libras. I've had many Cancer female friends, but always been unhappy/uncomfortable with Cancer energy in potential romantic partners. I think my 7h Venus has played out more as being attracted to Libra types than to Cancer types.

3. Many of my Cancer friends have been wonderful cooks (several even professional chefs) and loved to cook for me...ALL of my boyfriends (whatever their astrology) were excellent cooks and cooked for me a lot. i like it when Cancer-influenced people are compassionate listeners and go into depth talking about emotional issues and problems. HATE neediness, clinginess, passive-aggression, mixed signals and insecurity in myself and others....HATE is the wrong word, since I have a lot of fond affection and self-compassion for these icky Cancerisn foibles....but the whole oversensitivity to every tiny emotional slight has my Leo Sun and Libra Uranus being like, "Oh, please, just stop your sniveling, you're making things less fun."

4. I'm a mix. When I'm under stress or grieving, I'm like the WORST--needy, feeling sorry for myself about my own hurt feelings, oversensitive. But I can also be loyal, gentle-hearted, caring and emotionally perceptive. While I express my positive 8th house Leo Sun qualities well and easily and consistently, a lot of my negativity comes out in those Cancer areas (because, Moon-Saturn conjunction there. Yuck.)

5. No, I'm pretty aware that I have these problems, and at weak times, ashamed and self-critical about them (did I mention the Moon-Saturn conjunction?)....I'm more hurt and ashamed if someone notices. I care so deeply and WISH I was happy and triumphant in 7th house Cancer Moon/Venus areas of life......whereas in many other areas of life, I'm very confidant. I've thought about this stuff and looked at it a lot.

posted October 09, 2016 01:07 PM            

1. I have Pluto, Saturn and Venus in 7th.

2. Save for Libra/Taurus,I have never been drawn to Scorpio(too suspicious)or Caps(too insensitive and stoic)

I'd say that the 7th house is that part of another that you are drawn to & consistently want to be around in.

3. I can't say that I consistently want to be around Venusian types. But I am attracted to them as they have a temperament that is attractive to me.

4. Those who have an intellectual aptitude and enthusiasm in expression, entice me. I love people with mindful things to say as I also get involved and feel very spirited when in them.

5. I don't get offended when people say that I am opinionated. I kind alike it actually.

6. In a close relationship, I look for expression and rapport. Have something to say please....

posted October 24, 2016 10:56 AM            

2. How attracted are you to the traits that these placements represent (like the sign that rules the planet or that the placement is in)? How involved have you been with people with this energy? Very attracted. I have no idea how involved I've been with people that possess this kind of energy, because my emotional needs are often ignored by others.

3. What do you love the most about your 7th House energy in other people? What do you hate the most about these traits in others?
I like talking to people about things I like and did I mention I like mental stimulation and just communicating in general?

4. How do you see yourself acting out the energy of your 7th House in your relations with other people? What kind of partner or best friend are you?
I'm the kind of partner that can't get enough time with you. I need to talk to you a lot if we're dating. As a best friend I'm loyal and protective. I will defend my friends to the end of time, especially if we're really close friends (late-degree Taurus descendant).

5. Do you ever get surprised, confused, or offended if someone points out the traits of your 7th House placement, particularly the negative ones?
An ex called me clingy once because of my need for constant communication, but overall I'm not that offended when people complain about my moon's flaws. I know I get bored easily and I know this tendency can be kind of irritating to moons with the ability to entertain themselves. What are the Gemini Moon's other flaws? I must not be paying attention to my emotions again. Excuse me for a minute.

posted October 24, 2016 11:14 AM            

Basically is a push-pull.I crave close relationships but at the same time I avoid them.Is very difficult to get an intimate relationship cuz SN is the comfort zone and my moon and sun are in discordance.

-I have libra traits.(Don't know if is my jupiter in libra or the sun in 7H)

-My ex boyfriend is a Leo but other than that I never got close to them.

posted October 24, 2016 11:34 AM            

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What 7th House placements do you have?
My Moon in Gemini is really close to the 8th house cusp, but if we get technical it's in 7th house. I relate to descriptions of both Moon in 7th and Moon in 8th though.

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posted October 24, 2016 11:49 AM            

Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune in the 7th

2. How attracted are you to the traits that these placements represent (like the sign that rules the planet or that the placement is in)? How involved have you been with people with this energy?

Always love Capricorns, always. I get the feeling I don't meet their needs though. I've been very involved!!!! I actually meet a lot of people with 5 Capricorn placements in their personal planets. It's odd. Meet a lot of Cap moons. They're not at all what the boss or people say.

I also can see the effect of all the planets in my relationships usually. There's always a hard and difficult lesson. They move slow. They appear suddenly. There's always a level of sacrifice or forgiveness, or confusion.

3. What do you love the most about your 7th House energy in other people? What do you hate the most about these traits in others?

The Saturn placement. I think it adds stability and the possibility of commitment at each opportunity. I can say I've never been dumped.

4. How do you see yourself acting out the energy of your 7th House in your relations with other people? What kind of partner or best friend are you?

I think I'm actually very Uranian honestly. I need breaks and independence or I start getting VERY anxious and feel claustrophobic when things start getting too serious too soon, or formal. I just want to get to know someone without having to explain our intentions. I really like connections I have where things are unspoken and its all underlying. Maybe thats my 12 Mars?

5. Do you ever get surprised, confused, or offended if someone points out the traits of your 7th House placement, particularly the negative ones?

No.

6. What are you looking for the most in a close relationship?

When I was younger i wasn't really in tune with what I wanted personally. I just saw my friends and other ppl together and really romanticized it thus it hurt a lot knowing I didn't have that. I've always felt it was harder for me to have what comes easily to so many other ppl. Now that I'm almost 30 I want a relationship with a strong friendship first. Someone I'm familiar with on a friendly basis where the attraction can build vs. meeting someone online where that's kind of taken away.

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posted October 26, 2016 11:41 PM            

2. I have a habit of attracting people who are either Cancer sun or have heavy Cancer/moon/4th house energy. We become deeply involved where ever my Jupiter falls, because that Cancer influence will inevitably oppose my Capricorn stellium . end result can be either good or terrible

I myself am not particularly attracted to Cancer, Sag or Libra energy

3. It's that "community" feeling I get from them. I didn't grow up in a very friendly home (again, cap stellium in 1st), so it really fascinates me when this person displays family-ness and caregiving. For example, one of my longtime friends is like an honest and true brother to me

4. I make sure people are taken care of

5. Surprised sure ... For example, I have a soft spot for babies and having a family of my own, even though I SAY I will probably never have kids

posted October 27, 2016 10:39 AM            

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planets.

1. What 7th House placements do you have?

neptune

2. How attracted are you to the traits that these placements represent (like the sign that rules the planet or that the placement is in)? How involved have you been with people with this energy?

well very much attracted to neptunian energy. either they have important pisces placement (sun-moon-venus) and on top they have venus-neptune, sun-neptune, mars-neptune. definetely someone without neptunian traits is a total NO GO...

3. What do you love the most about your 7th House energy in other people? What do you hate the most about these traits in others?

love more the refinement, the delicacy, the romanticism

hate more the lack of directness, the changeable mind, you never can figure them out totally. that is part of the fascination but it drives me insane

4. How do you see yourself acting out the energy of your 7th House in your relations with other people? What kind of partner or best friend are you?

I had two days ago a long job interview with several people. one of the feedback i received was about my lack of strenght in putting my point accross and how "flexible" or too not the point I was. while I have a neptune quincunx to my mercury in gemini, I also has pluto and uranus in that mix.. however, i have had that critic before, that I fail to give a straight answer. i am always keep all the options hanging around. I just realized that I hate that in my partners...

5. Do you ever get surprised, confused, or offended if someone points out the traits of your 7th House placement, particularly the negative ones?

surprised yes, very much. angry no. even the positive ones are surprising to me. however i have started to incorporate the positive one. i was very unaware i had them. the negatives, I am becoming aware..

6. What are you looking for the most in a close relationship?
romance, romance, romance. beauty of manners, beauty of feelings. merging, support for each other, unconditional surrender..

I'm a 7th Houser too. So I will be answering shortly.

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posted October 27, 2016 10:56 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
1. What 7th House placements do you have?

Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune in the 7th

2. How attracted are you to the traits that these placements represent (like the sign that rules the planet or that the placement is in)? How involved have you been with people with this energy?

Always love Capricorns, always. I get the feeling I don't meet their needs though. I've been very involved!!!! I actually meet a lot of people with 5 Capricorn placements in their personal planets. It's odd. Meet a lot of Cap moons. They're not at all what the boss or people say.

I also can see the effect of all the planets in my relationships usually. There's always a hard and difficult lesson. They move slow. They appear suddenly. There's always a level of sacrifice or forgiveness, or confusion.

3. What do you love the most about your 7th House energy in other people? What do you hate the most about these traits in others?

The Saturn placement. I think it adds stability and the possibility of commitment at each opportunity. I can say I've never been dumped.

4. How do you see yourself acting out the energy of your 7th House in your relations with other people? What kind of partner or best friend are you?

I think I'm actually very Uranian honestly. I need breaks and independence or I start getting VERY anxious and feel claustrophobic when things start getting too serious too soon, or formal. I just want to get to know someone without having to explain our intentions. I really like connections I have where things are unspoken and its all underlying. Maybe thats my 12 Mars?

5. Do you ever get surprised, confused, or offended if someone points out the traits of your 7th House placement, particularly the negative ones?

No.

6. What are you looking for the most in a close relationship?

When I was younger i wasn't really in tune with what I wanted personally. I just saw my friends and other ppl together and really romanticized it thus it hurt a lot knowing I didn't have that. I've always felt it was harder for me to have what comes easily to so many other ppl. Now that I'm almost 30 I want a relationship with a strong friendship first. Someone I'm familiar with on a friendly basis where the attraction can build vs. meeting someone online where that's kind of taken away.

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posted October 27, 2016 11:34 AM            

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Hanna, it seems to me that you project saturn energy (all these cappi placements you attract) and own the neptunian-uranian energy.

If I'm projecting does that mean I'm not Saturnian? I'm super tired but curious.

you attract people who are commited, but you enjoy the development of a relationship without too many rules (things uspoken-very neptunian this part) and very uranian according to your own description.

Sometimes they're actually committed. They're definitely more consistent than I expect them to be, but today when I think of it many of them were serious and trying to take it slow but I didn't understand that. Something just switched in me this year and I've very much come to own the Uranian - Neptunian energy, yes.

[QUOTE].... my side with some of the planets (probably uranus and neptune share the non-rule structure of saturn, then it is easy to have them together)

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I'm assuming 'my side' is a typo of dome sort but I can't intuit it. Help? Lol

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but saturn with all these structures oppose both planets..

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I actually had the same thought more or less recently!!! Difficult planet to blend with those two, indeed. And therein lies the Neptunian "sacrifice" at some point.

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i wonder if there are other aspects in your chart that reinforce or hinder the expression of these planets.

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I've always tabbed that my Moon in Taurus is trine my 7H planets while my Sun squares at least Saturn and Neptune, and I figure that's part of why i have more difficulty connecting with men than women. Saturn is sextile my 5H Pluto too but I thought that was less personal bc they're outer planets. Ironic I have Gemini ASC and Jupiter in Gemini 12H. I may like unspoken things but perhaps my karma is learning how to communicate or find a communicative partner. Juno is in Leo in my 3H too. I have ADD and Mercury in Aries that makes it torture, lol!

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for instance i have AC taurus, that may be the reason i do not like the unspoken words of neptunian (although I am starting liking it) so i react strongly toward these neptunian traits. instead, you have mars in 12 and that may support the neptunian energy..

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But Taurus is in its element when using it's senses right? So it's i teresting you wouldn't be comfortable w the Neptunian stuff, unless you mean you just don't like vagueness which I understand. If that's the instance it is different from what I mean...for lack of putting it into words it's like I worked with a guy and I knew he liked me from his nonverbal behavior and actions towards me and vice versa, but we never actually brought it to the forefront to discuss. Does that clarify what I mean a it?

posted November 02, 2016 06:08 AM            

yes, that is what I mean. vagueness drives me nuts. I like things clearly spelled without mist. but neptunians will like things unsaid.. and I am getting into it as I am enjoying a 12house venus composite... i can see why... but normally I would like clarity or intention, and all clear... at least i have thought of myself being clear...except when people tell me "be clear" ... LOL.. projecting my neptune.. i guess my taurus AC do not like it..

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If that's the instance it is different from what I mean...for lack of putting it into words it's like I worked with a guy and I knew he liked me from his nonverbal behavior and actions towards me and vice versa, but we never actually brought it to the forefront to discuss. Does that clarify what I mean a it?
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Yes, it does

posted November 02, 2016 06:26 AM            

If I'm projecting does that mean I'm not Saturnian? I'm super tired but curious.
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I guess from what you said that you side more with uranus-neptune and project saturn. in other words, you would behave as non saturnian, but would bring saturnians to your life. the side of you that is being UNLIVED

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Sometimes they're actually committed. They're definitely more consistent than I expect them to be, but today when I think of it many of them were serious and trying to take it slow but I didn't understand that. Something just switched in me this year and I've very much come to own the Uranian - Neptunian energy, yes.
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exactly!!!

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I'm assuming 'my side' is a typo of dome sort but I can't intuit it. Help? Lol
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yes.. you MAY side.. LOL

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I actually had the same thought more or less recently!!! Difficult planet to blend with those two, indeed. And therein lies the Neptunian "sacrifice" at some point.
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I believe it is not easy to OWN saturnian and neptunian energies simultaneusly. as one needs structures, rules and the other disolves them... my take is that first you develop and feel comfortable with one, then when a transit hit, you get a flavor of the other... then at one point you accept the paradox of having inside two opposing personas if that make sense.
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I've always tabbed that my Moon in Taurus is trine my 7H planets while my Sun squares at least Saturn and Neptune,
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is the aspect sun-neptune more exact than the saturn-sun? in anycase, normally we cannot take all the package of ourselves in one take. you may have been disconnecting from saturn just to give space to neptune and this may reflect the saturnian guys coming to your life..taurus is more saturnian than neptunian i would say..
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I have Gemini ASC and Jupiter in Gemini 12H. I may like unspoken things but perhaps my karma is learning how to communicate or find a communicative partner. Juno is in Leo in my 3H too. I have ADD and Mercury in Aries that makes it torture, lol!
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not sure how mercury in Aries, AC gemini may enjoy the unspoken, but the AC ruler jupiter and mars in 12 may contribute to that. In anycase, I tend to look in a chart factors that blend together and factors that fight against other factors... some aspect and placement are lets say neptunian friendly while others are saturnian friendly. from what you have said, you have both influences in your chart, but you are more leaned toward the neptunian-uranian at this point of your life. if may be different in one year from now or if might have been different in the past...