posted October 16, 2016 04:03 PM            

Iīm Sag Sun, Cancer Moon, Libra rising. However, my Libra rising is on the 29th degree and is con. with Venus, Pluto, Vesta and Lilith 1181, all in Scorpio. All of those planets are interconnected between themselves.

Men come up to me with things and offers they wouldnīt normally approach with to anyone else. Not just the creeps, but also men for whom I know to be extremely gallant and proper normally. Colleagues, bosses, married men, even a cousin.

They see me as this sex thing or whatever, I donīt know. It prevents them for seeing me as a person behind this sexual aura and I always get my hopes up and end up hurting due to this.

Itīs haunting me. What can I do about this? How to deal?

posted October 16, 2016 08:50 PM            

It might take months or years to see the full results, but you can work with your own energy/consciousness patterns to change them, because that is all it is -- a pattern. You can change any such thing that you do not like.

Do a psychic filtering exercise when you are in a peaceful meditative state of mind. Picture and verbally reinforce that you attract people who respect you and your boundaries, and set a filter that you imagine blocks those who won't/can't respect you. Use this and renew it as needed to filter out unwanted attention.

posted October 16, 2016 09:10 PM              

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Right off the back, your Venus conjunct Pluto is the culprit.

Venus/Pluto brings out the Creeps.

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posted October 17, 2016 06:16 PM            

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Originally posted by misslani:

Itīs haunting me. What can I do about this? How to deal?

Does anyone have similar aspects and experiences? How do you handle this?

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I can totally understand how draining this is. the worst thing that can happen is when you're involved with people at a job and they start behaving this way, and if you cut them off (as hard as it is) your job is threatened.

I have learned about astrology only for a year, but two years ago something came over me (which I believe must have been a transit, am too lazy right now to check which though!) and all of a sudden I was feeling and relating more maturely and structured towards others, and this helped me immensely in attracting less and less sexual situations (they may never stop completely though, I am afraid, but they can get WAY toned down!). as I have learned recently, what's happened is that I have been expressing my Saturn qualities much more than before. You may come across as cold or icy, but this feels good and convinient!

posted October 18, 2016 01:24 PM              

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
You are not helpless before this natural tendency, regardless of your birth chart factors. If people can change their ability to get noticed by others (as I did), then it can be used the other way as in your situation.

It might take months or years to see the full results, but you can work with your own energy/consciousness patterns to change them, because that is all it is -- a pattern. You can change any such thing that you do not like.

Do a psychic filtering exercise when you are in a peaceful meditative state of mind. Picture and verbally reinforce that you attract people who respect you and your boundaries, and set a filter that you imagine blocks those who won't/can't respect you. Use this and renew it as needed to filter out unwanted attention.

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posted October 20, 2016 04:42 PM              

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Originally posted by Radium:
Let's see a pic

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posted October 20, 2016 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Let's stop denying women's experiences based on your subjective attraction to them.

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posted October 20, 2016 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Let's stop denying women's experiences based on your subjective attraction to them.

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posted October 20, 2016 05:04 PM              

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Let's stop denying women's experiences based on your subjective attraction to them.

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posted October 20, 2016 10:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
If people can change their ability to get noticed by others (as I did), then it can be used the other way as in your situation.

It might take months or years to see the full results, but you can work with your own energy/consciousness patterns to change them, because that is all it is -- a pattern. You can change any such thing that you do not like.

Do a psychic filtering exercise when you are in a peaceful meditative state of mind. Picture and verbally reinforce that you attract people who respect you and your boundaries, and set a filter that you imagine blocks those who won't/can't respect you. Use this and renew it as needed to filter out unwanted attention.

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I agree with Kannon, I actually think it is a mindset.

I'm a sun/pluto, mars/venus, lilith, juno, pluto in scorpio 1st house, scorpio asc too and I don't get any of those vibes, or at least I don't really care at all, cause actually I don't focus my energy on that, I like to pay all my attention to other things.
If you start focusing in other things further than just the people who want something sexual from you, you will notice that there are also people who actually want to know you.

posted October 20, 2016 11:24 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Let's stop denying women's experiences based on your subjective attraction to them.

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