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alludeu
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posted October 18, 2016 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alludeu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you think people with strong aries in their chart prefer to be single?

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hannaramaa
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posted October 18, 2016 11:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
YES

Didn't know this about myself until I was older, but yes yes yes.

Do I like love? Yes. Do I like flirting, sex, all things "date-y"? Yes. But not consistently enough to nurture a relationship to the point of getting married.

I like being able to do what I want when I want to and how I want to, I like possibility, I like freedom.

Aries Sun, Mercury, Venus
Mars conj. ASC and sextile Aries stellium

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Lerena
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posted October 18, 2016 11:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Do you think people with strong aries in their chart prefer to be single?

Define "strong." I have Mercury and Mars in Aries, but I prefer to be in a relationship. Must be all the earth signs in my chart.

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Mergoatsun
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posted October 19, 2016 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My sister is an Aries sun and Moon and she's been with the same person since she was 16, married 12 years so it's possible for them to be in relationships. I dated a Aries stellium he was divorced and afraid of commitment though so I see both ways
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EmGem
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posted October 19, 2016 12:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know an Aries sun/Venus/ASC who has been in a relationship for 10 years.

I didn't say he doesn't cheat on her though.

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Dancing Maenad
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posted October 19, 2016 04:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I prefer to be in a relationship. Taurus Venus, perhaps?

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Aries23Degrees
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posted October 19, 2016 07:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My sister has Aries Venus,ex flate-mate had Aries Moon,ex also has 29 Degrees of Aries conjunct my Asc in 29 Degrees of Aries..

I can honestly say that Aries does not necessarily want to be alone. They just want freedom to express themselves- Even if that means that they go at it "alone". And this is not necessarily the same thing.

I wouldn't say that there is a single person living that likes to be alone. We usually choose to be alone when we feel that there is no-one else that understands or "gets" us.

But when we find that person,the notion of "loneliness" becomes a thing of the past.

Aries in relationships loves the conquest and the initial build up of the relationship :Where they can use their sharp charm to get your attention etc.

Even within the relationship. They love to tease and be teased and still feel like the person they are with is still a "conquest". It keeps things interesting.

Sometimes many come off a little too aggressive /assertive- scaring people off. But it doesn't make them prefer being alone. Its just that they get tired of being "rejected" for being themselves(the only person that Aries knows to be).

With that being said however, Aries placements don't make it easy to be a "desirable" mate for relationships. Mostly because they are so forward,pushy and even aggressive.

Juno-Aries
Venus-Aries
Moon-Aries
Sun-Aries
Mars-Aries
Chiron-Aries

Moon-Mars
Venus-Mars
Sun-Mars
Juno-Mars
Chiron- Mars

Asc in Aries
1st house cusp ruled by Mars
Mars in the 1st
Ruler of the 1st aspecting Mars.

4th house cusp in Aries
Mars ruling the 4th house cusp
Mars in the 4th house cusp
Ruler of the 4th house cusp aspecting Mars.

5th house cusp in Aries
5th house cusp with Mars therein
Ruler of the 5th aspecting Mars
Mars ruling the 5th house

7th house cusp in Aries
7th house cusp with Mars therein
Ruler of the 7th aspecting Mars
Mars ruling the 7th

As you can imagine, these are a lot of people. And these placements can give a tendency to being impetuous,impulsive ,assertive/aggressive or competitive in areas of romance/love.

Aries often wants to "make" things happen in love and treats it like it is something they must wrestle to the ground.It is not easy to just let it "flow" or become patient- unless Libra/Cancer and Taurus placements are a part of the fold.

I personally have Asc in Aries,Juno in Aries,Juno-Mars opposition,Mars/Moon square and the ruler of the 5th(Mercury)squaring Mars.

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Orange
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posted October 19, 2016 08:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^^^^^
Great post!

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hannaramaa
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posted October 19, 2016 08:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's important to note she just asked if they prefer to be single, not alone. The two are different.

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cottonball
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posted October 19, 2016 10:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cottonball     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're thinking of Uranus. Aries/Martians loooove jumping into relationships...then jumping out...then jumping back in.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted October 20, 2016 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
It's important to note she just asked if they prefer to be single, not alone. The two are different.

True.So true.I tend to confuse the two and answered from the "alone" point of view

I think Jupiter/Uranus and Neptune aspects tend to contribute to one being single/unattached

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