posted October 21, 2016 11:34 PM            

Planet/Angle sign placements:
AC - Scorpio 23 degrees 17 minutes
MC - Virgo 3 degrees 59 minutes
Sun - Scorpio 25 degrees 56 minutes
Moon - Taurus 8 degrees 36 mintues
Mercury - Scorpio 28 degrees 26 minutes
Venus - Scorpio 0 degrees 13 minutes
Mars - Libra 21 degrees 35 minutes
Jupiter - Leo 17 degrees 41 minutes
Saturn - Gemini 27 degrees 49 minutes
Uranus - Aquarius 25 degrees 0 minutes
Neptune - Aquarius 8 degrees 26 minutes
Pluto Sagittarius 16 degrees 39 minutes

Aspects to my Venus, Mars, and Uranus:
Venus conjunct Mars (8 orb)
Venus trine Saturn
Venus trine Uranus
Mars trine Saturn
Mars trine Urnaus
Mars sextile Jupiter
Sun/Mercury/AC square Uranus
Saturn trine Uranus

posted October 22, 2016 12:07 AM            

Hope you can just remember that you don't owe anyone any answers. You don't have to feel one way or another. It's fine to take your time, go at your own pace. You're young.

Perhaps this resonates with you, for now anyway?

http://demisexuality.org/articles/what-is-demisexuality/

posted October 22, 2016 12:33 AM            

I myself can understand how you may be confused. I honestly didn't really start to understand my sexuality until just recently and I'm 21. Some people it takes even longer, and I can say that I myself still may not 100% understand it. I think for a time when I was younger I may have kind of denied my feelings. I consider myself pansexual now, though, because I have found that to me, gender isn't something I really "see" when it comes to my feelings for others.. however, I do tend to be drawn to certain traits.

I wish you the best my friend. I know sometimes having a sexuality that is seen to be outside of the "norm" it can be a little scary.

Also, going along with some of what Faith said, your sexuality is not EVERYONE else's business. As long as you aren't harming anyone you do not owe anyone a label or definition of what your sexuality is.

Also, coming from a kid who was bullied quite a bit at your age, I understand your desire to come up with an answer. Kids are just relentless at your age. There's so much pressure and so much change everyone is going through. I feel there's a lot of tension and unease that everyone pushes onto each other. And honestly, there is just a lot that a majority of kids just don't really quite understand at that age. I know it's hard. Please understand that you are cared for and that other people's opinions of you do not bind you to what it is they think you to be. Everyone sees things differently and appreciates different things. The problem is, a lot of kids when they are younger are afraid to be the odd one out so they tend to try to assimilate and keep those things hidden, or try to appeal to the largest group around them.. generally this only lasts so long, but of course some people never really show themselves for who they are.. which generally leads to a lot of internal conflict and blockages.

The thing within that though is that those differences within you.. those things that are different within all of us is what brings growth and change. Think about it, if we were all exactly the same nothing would ever change.. why would they need to? Change can be negative or positive but in the end it's the single only thing that can ever bring growth.

You are capable of things that only you are truly capable of. That may sound odd but, essentially, only you can be you. With the uniqueness, if you work with it, can help you accomplish tremendous things.

Sorry, didn't mean to go on a speech or something lmao.. that went in kind of an unexpected direction.

posted October 22, 2016 04:55 AM            

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Originally posted by XzaultaX:
I know i made a post about sexuality a few months ago but i just have to get this off my chest again.
Today at school, some guy was jokingly shipping me with a girl in my class. Then some guy butted in and said, "Oh I thought Zaulta was gay am i right?". I just stared at him with my Scorpio eyes and shrugged. I was still trying to find my sexuality, but him saying this made me think. Every since i started middle school people has always called me gay, i didn't know why, until i asked on of my bi friends, she said I "looked" and "acted" gay and it caused me to have an "anxiety attack". I'm still questioning myself today, maybe it's because I have Saturn in 8th house. Anyone willing to spend their time helping me find insight on my self or helping or listing more "homosexual" aspects in their opinion. I thank everyone who responds from the bottom of my heart <3.

Planet/Angle sign placements:
AC - Scorpio 23 degrees 17 minutes
MC - Virgo 3 degrees 59 minutes
Sun - Scorpio 25 degrees 56 minutes
Moon - Taurus 8 degrees 36 mintues
Mercury - Scorpio 28 degrees 26 minutes
Venus - Scorpio 0 degrees 13 minutes
Mars - Libra 21 degrees 35 minutes
Jupiter - Leo 17 degrees 41 minutes
Saturn - Gemini 27 degrees 49 minutes
Uranus - Aquarius 25 degrees 0 minutes
Neptune - Aquarius 8 degrees 26 minutes
Pluto Sagittarius 16 degrees 39 minutes

Aspects to my Venus, Mars, and Uranus:
Venus conjunct Mars (8 orb)
Venus trine Saturn
Venus trine Uranus
Mars trine Saturn
Mars trine Urnaus
Mars sextile Jupiter
Sun/Mercury/AC square Uranus
Saturn trine Uranus

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Just remember that people perception are different from others. A lot of people will say things that does not really fit that true you. You could be just a little feminine and they will call a male "gay". This is not a bad thing if you are its okay, but stop overthinking everything. That scorpio is over analyzing everything.

posted October 22, 2016 08:51 AM            

I believe Neptune in square aspect to your Sun & Asc puts the blinders on your self-image. Modern society won't accept this, but with this aspect others can see you clearer than you can see yourself.

posted October 22, 2016 09:26 AM              

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Originally posted by Nine:
You're probably Bi.

I believe Neptune in square aspect to your Sun & Asc puts the blinders on your self-image. Modern society won't accept this, but with this aspect others can see you clearer than you can see yourself.

Observe your friends for the answer (don't ask them). If more than one are gay or bi, that would describe you as well.

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I know they asked, but literally so inappropriate to make assumptions when they are clearly impressionable.

posted October 22, 2016 11:04 AM            

You might be bi or predominantly straight or gay..you can't let society decide for you bc you look a certain way.

You have to pay attention closely to your body and what is asking for and craving, pay attention to how your body reacts when you are close to either gender or when either gender touches you and what gender you find yourself fantasizing about more and filling a desire to kiss..

posted October 22, 2016 12:20 PM              

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:

To the OP - relax and just follow your attractions and explore. Find security in the unknown. Wishing you the best of luck.

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posted October 22, 2016 02:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:

But what do YOU think?

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Exactly you tell us! or don't. The question is how do you feel? What is your body telling you? What are you thinking?

posted October 22, 2016 03:35 PM            

Like who you like.

posted October 22, 2016 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
You have the right to ask everybody in the whole world, on earth. And everyone in the Milky Way and Andromeda galaxies.

But what do YOU think?

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It's an impolite question, in my opinion.

Private/sensitive information and not everyone's business.

posted October 22, 2016 06:12 PM            

1. Venus conjunct Mercury
2. New Moon
3. Moon in hard aspect with Pluto
4. Mars in hard aspect with Pluto

There are usually 2-3 of these markers in their charts.

posted October 24, 2016 01:11 AM              

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Exactly you tell us! or don't. The question is how do you feel? What is your body telling you? What are you thinking?

Your emotional mind is telling you one thing, your reasonable mind is telling you another and your wise mind tries to link the two and it's what will help you figure this out. The wise mind are your instincts and that 'ahaaa moment.' The wise mind involves paying close attention to your body.

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posted October 24, 2016 01:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
@Faith,

yes high school gossip. The OP doesn't have to say anything to anyone! Oh, I remember high school too well!

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I'm sure the op is well aware on who to ask and who to keep quiet from.

That's why the op asked the question here on lindaland on the Astrology thread were most users whould answer the question with open hearts.

If she posted the question on the the Global Unity thread. Jwhop or the more "extreme" users whould judge her to no tomorrow!!!!!

I think the op should just ride it out....

If your gay..great. If your not..that's also great.

Who cares what people think, as long as you know who you are and understand morality thats all that matters.

Karma is very true and those who judge or who aren't moral enough end up destroying themselves.

I don't mean moral in the sense that I follow all the rules, I mean it in the sense you take into account the bigger picture on how everything fits together.

I hope you find out who you are soon, as
mentioned you shouldn't give a sh*t to what people think.

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

posted October 24, 2016 01:35 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I think anything you want to remain private you can keep to yourself but is up to each individual what they want to keep private or not. If they want to be open about something and ask for guidance that is fine too .

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Yes, but finding the right source matters too and knowing who to keep quit from makes a diffrence.

Obviously, if I asked Saddam Hussein about Human Rights and Human Sexuality he whould give negative advice. Depending on how sensitive the person is they may become more depresed and confused.

Contrast to Pope Francis who is the first Roman Catholic pope to be openly accepting.

Knowing who to trust and keep quiet from makes a diffence.

posted October 24, 2016 01:53 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I'm sure the op is well aware on who to ask and who to keep quiet from.

That's why the op asked the question here on lindaland on the Astrology thread were most users whould answer the question with open hearts.

If she posted the question on the the Global Unity thread. Jwhop or the more "extreme" users whould judge her to no tomorrow!!!!!

I think the op should just ride it out....

If your gay..great. If your not..that's also great.

Who cares what people think, as long as you know who you are and understand morality thats all that matters.

Karma is very true and those who judge or who aren't moral enough end up destroying themselves.

I don't mean moral in the sense that I follow all the rules, I mean it in the sense you take into account the bigger picture on how everything fits together.

I hope you find out who you are soon, as
mentioned you shouldn't give a sh*t to what people think.

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