posted October 22, 2016 10:11 PM            

I just don't understand why is it I like her when our Astro is as bad as it is.

I'll post up a chart in a few.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted October 22, 2016 10:33 PM            

She has a horrible mouth which can be quite off-putting sometimes but once you get past that, shes, kind, considerate, thoughtful, funny, and a softy on the inside. Thing is, I can't figure out the attraction astrologically.

The horrible synastry,
[img]https://s16.postimg.org/gkng94hxh/astro_61gw_01_684_anonymous_anonymous_8515_39104.gif[/img] click

And the even worse composite:
[img]https://i.imgsafe.org/c230833393.png[/img]

I don't know why the charts won't show. Just click on the links or copy and paste in a new tab to see the charts.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted October 22, 2016 11:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I know you are asking about romance, but got to mention that there are two girls/friends on this forum that I am very close with for a long time now, and we have horrible synastry. Grand crosses (with both) between our Saturns and Mars and Pluto and Chiron, yuck....
I dont feel any of those squares but then again, it would have shown if it was a romantic relationship, I guess...friendship is easier.

Horrible synastry! I am still perplexed

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I see this woman has a lot of planets in my 5th house. However, the connections are all pretty bad. Yet, we get along great. When I first met her, I couldn't stand her. Now i like her and am wondering why. Once I got to know her, her personality just pulled me in. But there is no astro-justification for it lol.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted October 22, 2016 11:33 PM            

but i had unaspected venus for 10 years! never again lol.

BUT

posted October 22, 2016 11:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
I see this woman has a lot of planets in my 5th house. However, the connections are all pretty bad. Yet, we get along great. When I first met her, I couldn't stand her. Now i like her and am wondering why. Once I got to know her, her personality just pulled me in. But there is no astro-justification for it lol.

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I'm kind of going through this right now. It's strange, I've never really liked someone who didn't have at least one of their planets falling into my 8th house, and then I met this guy who puts all of his personal planets in my 5th, and none in my 8th house... and I'm just as smitten.

posted October 22, 2016 11:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
unaspected sun is no bueno. She doesnt see u!!

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posted October 23, 2016 04:13 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
I'm kind of going through this right now. It's strange, I've never really liked someone who didn't have at least one of their planets falling into my 8th house, and then I met this guy who puts all of his personal planets in my 5th, and none in my 8th house... and I'm just as smitten.

Anyway, on top of the 5th house placements, I see that her Neptune squares your Moon. Are you sure you're not living in a dream world when it comes to her? You might be blowing up her good qualities and slowly pushing her bad qualities to the side.

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You might be right about the Moon/Neptune. I haven't looked at astrology for a long time. I forgot about that one. It kind of explains much. Rose colored glasses. Right now on a scale of 1-10 with 1 being first feeling of like and 10 being right before falling in love, I'd probably say I'm close to a 1 or 1.5 on the like scale.

My attraction to her has me more curious than anything. She really does have a treacherous mouth lol. She even says she needs to change it lol. She describes herself as "blunt and unfiltered." Which along with hearing her mouth I'm action and hearing her say that, I'd make an educated guess and say she's a Sag rising.

I'm usually "allergic" to women who have mouths like hers but I guess that moon/Neptune is aiding in getting me to see right past that. Ironically, she is quite kind and considerate though, which are traits I really like in a woman.

So on the flipside, now that I think about it, hearing her mouth in action but then seeing her be kind, considerate, and thoughtful two seconds later really piqued my interest of her.

Like I said, I thought she was an a##hole when I first met her but once I got to know her and see how she was outside of work, and see that dynamic about her, she grew on me lol. However, I'd never tell her I like her in that way lol!

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Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
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Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted October 23, 2016 04:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
The composite is actually not that bad! Not bad at all, actually. Oppositions are similar to conjunctions in the composite, because it's a midpoint-based chart. The only worrisome aspect is the Sun square Neptune.

I was thinking the same thing, about me and my current boyfriend. We have such horrible charts, but we get along sooooo well. *dreamy eyes* That's until we started to argue. Yeah, I am feeling the bad aspects alright. Ouch!!!

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Makes you wonder right lol? I didn't know that about the composite, about the opps acting as conjunctions. Does that mean I should read the Venus opp Saturn and Pluto as Venus Conjunct Saturn and Pluto?

In going over the synastry, I just noticed my Virgo Asc is trine her Sun less than 2 degrees. Maybe that has something to do with it as well?

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posted October 23, 2016 09:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Yes, I would read them as conjunctions.

I didn't look very carefully at the synastry, but I am sure you have some nice aspects too. Usually we feel those in a superficial relationship, but as we get closer to that person and as time passes by, we get to feel the nasty ones too. You're not out of the woods yet, just like I wasn't. It doesn't mean it's doomed, it just means you'll probably face some challenges in this connection.

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Lol, the synastry is mostly bad lol. Maybe one or two decent aspects. Asc (mine) trine her sun, super wide moon trine Venus, another super wide sun (hers) trine my mars.

The good aspects are wide except for the Asc sun. Other than that, it's all squares, opps, and inconjuncts lol and yet, I like her lol. And for the record, its not about her looks. Shes actually pretty average looking so it's def not physical infatuation. However, I do find her to be pretty and physically attractive though.

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Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted October 23, 2016 11:29 AM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
This fatalistic tilted view of astrology drives me nuts sometimes.

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Drives me nuts sometimes too lol. It's why I took a break from it for a loooooooooong time. I was curious about the astrological reasoning of the attraction. Of course there is free will going on here, which in all honesty explains why I like her.

Shes pretty, kind, considerate, funny, she likes to keep a clean home, she likes the same food I do, etc. We actually have a lot in common. Despite Astro, we get along really well in and outside of work. I just don't think I'll ever tell her I like her.

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Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted October 23, 2016 11:37 AM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
This fatalistic tilted view of astrology drives me nuts sometimes.

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posted October 23, 2016 12:05 PM            

not to mention horizon synastry. it's a fact that there is always 180 degrees of ecliptic above the horizon. its a ring. the earth is the most powerful thing in the chart despite it not being talked about. it is sensed largely just as we sense all the objects in the solar system. it would prove to be a much more powerful reference plain to work off of in synastry with others

also there is the houses, which are most likely the signs. which is another you with "human interpretation" might not see why you have strong synastry. you might be an aquarius. they might have an 11th house sun. they are the same thing. thats the highest marriage statistic is same sign marriages. thats another thing you might miss is their house placements. not to mention there may be a few more zodiacs which i discovred.