posted October 24, 2016 08:54 AM              

Yeah, my bf can be like that, too. I totally agree with the part about wanting positive energy around! He said that's one of the reasons he enjoys my company so much, because of my positive energy. I wouldn't say he exhibits it, tho. Cap Sun. :/ However, he needs more space than anyone I've ever been with (conjunction is in Sag), but it might be his Aqua DC and 3 Aqua planets that add to that. He is also pretty unemotional, compared to me. I also have Sag Moon, but conjunct Neptune. Our emotional realities could not be more different!

posted October 24, 2016 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Cold, erratic, detached, unemotional. Am I missing something?

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This is the "new kid who is enrolled at a new school in the middle of the year" aspect.

The result is that they either learn to be less sensitive to already established patterns and bulldoze their way in and make contacts quickly- therefore "disturbing" the already established bonds of kids who came at the beginning of the year.

This can be done by throwing a party and inviting all the kids to your house- thereby opening yourself up faster and quickly establishing bonds-seeing with whom you fit in with and take it from there.

Or you can be sensitive to the already established bonds and leave well enough alone i.e become a loner or be resolved to let other people approach you because you are hesitant of the rejection you may face , if you approach them etc.

There is something about the emotional nature that is retarded/not very well developed even stunted.

I would also look at the 4th house/Chiron or if Saturn is making aspects to it? Also Juno(ideas of marriage/bonding). Basically where Cancer is because Uranus/Moon and Cancer have a intrinsic bind.

Often Uranus interrupted whatever the Moon tried to do. So the result is someone who always felt like they cant attach to anything for long before its taken away from them.

Typically this can manifest in them never being available when you need them.

Dates/schedules to meet being cancelled or postponed.

Them losing stuff all willy nilly or replacing them quickly

Them rarely being sentimental about anything

Sudden moves to another place of dwelling or even outside the state.

There is something about the past that had them get used to the fact that "safety", "continuity" or sameness is non-existent or fragile at best. So they got accustomed to letting things go quickly.

Often in adulthood(if the Moon is the ruler of the 7th/8th/4th or 5th) they may break off from relationships as quickly as they formed them. Or insist on personal freedom when in them.

This can also be characterized by someone who moves around a lot,doesn't keep to a set schedule or ow multiple homes/apartments that allow them to not stay in one place for long.

posted October 24, 2016 09:12 PM            

Moon 0pisces conjunct Uranus 28aqua

He is a cancer sun, Aries rising, placing his moon/Uranus conjunction in the 11th house. His Saturn is conjunct his Mercury in Gemini and Mars/Jupiter are conjunct on his IC in cancer.

I wouldn't say he was "unemotional" in fact, he's VERY emotional and it's taken him a loooong time to learn to control his anger, maybe Aries rising + angular Mars/Jupiter? Plus being a cancer sun.. But his emotions are very unpredictable, it's hard to tell what will set him off. He was like that when he was a baby, very obsessive, stubborn, and particular about things, including what will set him off, it's pretty random. He's extremely private and I don't know how much I can emphasize just how particular and quirky he is with the way he does certain things. Like for example, when he was little he was obsessed with packaged cheese, if I didn't take his cheese out in a perfect square.. He would FLIP OUT!

He's extremely intelligent, in fact he's scary smart, I could be biased but he's a genius to me :P and in school he would get in trouble for doing really random stuff? Like standing on his chair and pretending to balance on tight rope? And getting up to walk into his class wall repeatedly? His sense of humor is goofy and he has a hard time connecting to kids his own age his whole life. He makes friends randomly then they seem to move away, he isn't extremely social, well, he is, he's just awkward and I think he has a hard time talking to people sometimes and they have a hard time understanding him because his sense of humor is so random and goofy (maybe his Mercury conjunct Saturn aspect too?) he's been obsessed with video games thanks to me giving him my frogger consol when he was 3 and then my game boy, he's been hooked since, it's kind of crazy to me just how obsessive/stubborn he is.. I have a Taurus rising with my Venus/Pluto conj in Scorpio on my DC and I'm not even as stubborn as he is.. Ha.

posted February 28, 2019 10:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
This is the "new kid who is enrolled at a new school in the middle of the year" aspect.

The result is that they either learn to be less sensitive to already established patterns and bulldoze their way in and make contacts quickly- therefore "disturbing" the already established bonds of kids who came at the beginning of the year.

This can be done by throwing a party and inviting all the kids to your house- thereby opening yourself up faster and quickly establishing bonds-seeing with whom you fit in with and take it from there.

Or you can be sensitive to the already established bonds and leave well enough alone i.e become a loner or be resolved to let other people approach you because you are hesitant of the rejection you may face , if you approach them etc.

There is something about the emotional nature that is retarded/not very well developed even stunted.

I would also look at the 4th house/Chiron or if Saturn is making aspects to it? Also Juno(ideas of marriage/bonding). Basically where Cancer is because Uranus/Moon and Cancer have a intrinsic bind.

Often Uranus interrupted whatever the Moon tried to do. So the result is someone who always felt like they cant attach to anything for long before its taken away from them.

Typically this can manifest in them never being available when you need them.

Dates/schedules to meet being cancelled or postponed.

Them losing stuff all willy nilly or replacing them quickly

Them rarely being sentimental about anything

Sudden moves to another place of dwelling or even outside the state.

There is something about the past that had them get used to the fact that "safety", "continuity" or sameness is non-existent or fragile at best. So they got accustomed to letting things go quickly.

Often in adulthood(if the Moon is the ruler of the 7th/8th/4th or 5th) they may break off from relationships as quickly as they formed them. Or insist on personal freedom when in them.

This can also be characterized by someone who moves around a lot,doesn't keep to a set schedule or ow multiple homes/apartments that allow them to not stay in one place for long.

The only constant(Moon) is change(Uranus) is what the Moon-Uranus is really all about.

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My sister has that to the degree (both moon and Uranus are in 4degrees Sagittarius) and she is very consistent with most things in life. She never moved around and she is quite stuck in her rut. The most stuck of all us three sisters, me being the least stuck.
She does have mood swings though and gets irritated suddenly, seemingly without a reason. Like something comes over her and she gets all pissy.

posted March 01, 2019 02:54 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
A great love of my life has this conjunction in Scorpio, along with Venus and Mars conjunct Uranus too.
You need to be very gentle with them. He SEEMS to be cut off and unemotional at times but I’ve learnt that it’s a defense mechanism they use to protect themselves from being hurt which they fear will happen if they get too close to someone. His mother died some years back and it sounds to me like she was tumultuous. His brother’s ex gf accused her of sexually abusing her boys when they were children. Which she denied, but I wonder if there’s some truth to that. Either way, these natives grew up with an unstable mother, hence their own inner instability. That’s what they know, not safety. But deep down they crave stability. So yes they need LOTS of space to do their own thing. They can change moods at the drop of a hat. You either accept them. Uranus needs you to accept otherwise the cut off can happen. Accept them or walk away. It’s a bit of a rollercoaster 🎢 but I also find that these people are electrifying and have this amazing capacity to be completely in the moment of whatever is happening for them this very second. Completely immersed. Everything else just falls away. Because this guy has it in Scorpio, he’s intensely passionate about so many aspects of his life, he just gets caught up in the moment and all his senses are heightened to that very thing.
IMPULSIVE is another word that comes to mind for these people.
And as he says himself he’s never in one place for too long. Moving countries comes naturally for him. The only constant IS change.

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posted March 09, 2019 04:29 PM            

Yes, I'm dettached, I don't like dramas or romaticism. Have had ups and downs with my mother and also with my sisters (moon opp 3rd house Chiron).

A lot fo resentmen comming from my family background. I prefer be appart from them, I do not go to family gatherings except of those mandtory (Christmas or something like that) and I avoid their companionship, absolutely annoying. The only relatives I truly love and I visit very regularly and love to be with are my Aqua nephew and my Gemini niece. Independent just like me.

posted March 09, 2019 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Mariamne Mara:
I'm not a man but I'm a Sadge woman with natal Scorpio Moon conjunct Sadge Uranus, MC both and both conjunct Jupiter as well.

Yes, I'm dettached, I don't like dramas or romaticism. Have had ups and downs with my mother and also with my sisters (moon opp 3rd house Chiron).

A lot fo resentmen comming from my family background. I prefer be appart from them, I do not go to family gatherings except of those mandtory (Christmas or something like that) and I avoid their companionship, absolutely annoying. The only relatives I truly love and I visit very regularly and love to be with are my Aqua nephew and my Gemini niece. Independent just like me.

People like us with this moon Uranus position love to be independent and dettached. Just give us some space.

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