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Topic: 7th Houe Pluto-- Bring out hurtful past out of partner?
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deptic
Knowflake Posts: 416
From: Earth, Raised on Pluto
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 24, 2016 10:09 PM
  
Is it true that people with this placement tend to force their partner to talk about/bring up past hurts/traumas/anything negative from the past that hurts to the surface? Even if the person doesn't wanna talk about it, they'll dig until they get you to spill the beans and then make peace with it?They don't do it to make you feel bad or judge you, but to "heal" you so to speak? This true? IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 524
From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted October 25, 2016 12:13 AM
I would like to know this too. I had this recently with a fella who just kept hitting on all my buttons. I think that saturn is in scorpio (vedic astrology) western astrology could chalk it up to saturn conjunct mars that recently ended? What I have noticed world wide is that things related to scorpio seemed to pop up such as death, rebirth, transformation , fears , lies, decption, hidden taboo things, etc. Anyway duringthis conjunction is when the relation took place and ended after the transit ended. Scorpio is mars as well so alot of action vs non action, fears bringing out misplaced anger etc. Seems to be the theme. The biggest thing I noticed with this guy is how much I feared getting hurt or just hidden things being drug up from my subconscious. The actual synastry showed this . I guess it is supose to heal but in the end just understood what I deal with subconsciously which I already knew those things that I dealt with. I did discover more things I never really worked on such as loss and abandonment issues but I figured I had them, just never acknowledged it before if that makes sense. Ive been learning alot about the higher self and things that hold me back. I think astrology does alot for someone psycology wise if someone is willing to do thier own self doscovery. I also figured out what my purpose is or what I feel called to do in my life , thinking positive and how negative thinking has an imapct on my actions and overall wellbeing. I hope this helps? IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte
Knowflake Posts: 714
From: astral plane
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 25, 2016 12:20 AM
I don't force my partners to talk about them, but I've had feelings about traumas from people and asked and was right, usually people tell me without me forcing them to but I have asked questions like those before but if the person gets upset I won't force it out of them. I feel like the way I bring it out of people is more subtle than forceful and people usually are comfortable enough to talk to me about it. I guess for me it's more like.. Being able to see so clearly into someone, that when you can see where there flaws/traumas come from and you make them clear or brought to the surface then they are able to be healed which is a painful and not a very easy process. So I guess in a way your right, and maybe I don't feel like I force it out but in a way I do by me pointing it out and talking about it with the person though I feel like I am able to word it so it's not so interrogating. My Pluto is conjunct Venus in Scorpio on my DC and along with my Venus being dignified by house, I have Venus ruled rising and sun which I feel helps with Pluto intensity I usually form such close bonds with my partners that they end up telling me everything about themselves, even things they've never told anyone before, traumas and all, I don't feel like I forced it out of them though, they tell me because they know I'll understand and not judge them and I share about my past as well.. This happens a lot, even with complete strangers. I've had random people I barely know tell me their secrets, sometimes I'll accidentally bring it up by saying something that correlates with their trauma or they just tell me. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
Knowflake Posts: 1534
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 25, 2016 08:01 AM
I have Pluto on the 7th conjunct my Sun and mars, opposite my ASC and I would say definitely. Aside from my Scorpio stellium in the 6th, I believe Pluto in the 7th, whether by actual placement or house ruler ship, releases all things Scorpio in the romance department. Our constant need for analysis and investigation stems from a deep mistrust of humanity because we know humans are ultimately flawed because we feel everything so deeply. Our emotions allow us to see pain and happiness at its most extreme on both ends of the spectrum. IP: Logged |
deptic
Knowflake Posts: 416
From: Earth, Raised on Pluto
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 25, 2016 09:39 AM
Interesting reads!Would Pluto oppo Asc play a role in this as well? I guess 7th house pluto do it to heal, but i read they're prepared for you to hate them/be mad at them for it if it heals them. and they're good with that, lol. Like removing a piece of shard they're telling you not to remove cuz it's gonna hurt but you know by it staying there's it's only gonna get worse. I guess it depends on the chart would determine if they're gonna be forceful about it or more sensitive m patient? But in the end, all have the same goal "get it out n make peace"? IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
Knowflake Posts: 1873
From: Portland, OR - USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 25, 2016 05:03 PM
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Originally posted by deptic:
Is it true that people with this placement tend to force their partner to talk about/bring up past hurts/traumas/anything negative from the past that hurts to the surface? Even if the person doesn't wanna talk about it, they'll dig until they get you to spill the beans and then make peace with it?They don't do it to make you feel bad or judge you, but to "heal" you so to speak? This true?
That's too specific a characterization for this placement alone. It may be that a person with that placement behaves that way, but that many others do not. Pluto in your 7th house generally indicates seeking/attracting persons partnerships that have some kind of transformative, profound effect on you. Yes, you might look for what is deeper, under the surface in them, but it does not necessitate badgering others. ------------------
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deptic
Knowflake Posts: 416
From: Earth, Raised on Pluto
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 25, 2016 05:50 PM
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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
That's too specific a characterization for this placement alone. It may be that a person with that placement behaves that way, but that many others do not.Pluto in your 7th house generally indicates seeking/attracting persons partnerships that have some kind of transformative, profound effect on you. Yes, you might look for what is deeper, under the surface in them, but it does not necessitate badgering others.
Hmmmm, good point! But saying "Badgering others" make it sound so bad lol. I know what you're saying, though. Anyone had personal experience with someone with this placement? IP: Logged |
headintheclouds91
Knowflake Posts: 473
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Registered: Mar 2016
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posted October 26, 2016 02:45 PM
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deptic
Knowflake Posts: 416
From: Earth, Raised on Pluto
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 26, 2016 05:48 PM
Thanks! @headintheclouds91Tried bumping up myself but threw my back out. IP: Logged | |
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