posted November 21, 2016 02:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
[b]@LionFish
You too, have a distance between your "cube" and yourself in the image - that's admirable. You believe in focusing on the positives in any situation, and reflecting those back into the universe, letting them steer your perspective to brighter times.
Your friends can get close enough to witness your inner self - at the same time, revealing too much makes you uncomfortable. You'd rather be your fun, playful self than have them suspect something is wrong.
Your ideal partner is someone you feel safe with. Someone who'll support you and be patient with you.
You seem to be the fun parent, the one who'll happily join in their games. And let them roam hither n yonder if the fancy strikes. Probably makes you popular with kids, regardless of whether they're your own or not.
Every seemingly "bad" situation, in your view, gives way to something new. i.e. Though it looks intimidating and potentially destructive at first, when it manifests, it morphs into something that helps you grow.

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I have definitely been accused of being over optimistic, but I tend to feel that it just helps to have a positive attitude. If you think everything is terrible, it will be.

And yes, I am afraid of letting people too close. Even my closest friends say they don't really know who I am. I'm okay with them thinking that.

A stable, dependable partner may sound boring to some, but I think that sounds just marvelous. I've played with fire one too many times And yes, I could easily see myself as the fun parent. My nieces and nephews adore me and I them. No babies of my own yet, though.

I think the way I viewed the storm has to do with my optimism again. Obstacles in life are opportunities to turn what may seem disastrous into something miraculous. Who wouldn't want to be responsible for seeming miracles? Lol

Thank you Elysia! This was great fun to read through. I can't imagine all the time you put into all your analysis of people's responses.