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posted October 30, 2016 02:02 PM            

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Is there a running theme in the charts of the people you attract? (both romantic and platonic) And does it reflect back to your own chart?

I was killing some time looking at charts and noticed my 3 closets girlfriends all have hard Venus-Uranus aspects. They like weird(Uranus) women(Venus) – and that’s me! I’m super Uranian. Also, I noticed the men who have swept me off my feet and enthralled me have their Uranus hard aspecting my Venus. It’s like ELECTRICITY! Usually very tight within half a degree.

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posted October 30, 2016 02:11 PM            

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Yes, i have Pluto and Uranus on my 7th house and all of them have been either Scorpios or Plutonians, or Aquarian Plutonians

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posted October 30, 2016 02:44 PM            

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Hi, thanks for replying. Orange you did it in reverse but that's cool because you kinda proved it works. The 7th house symbolizes the *other*, the first house symbolizes you. It's more what you're attracted to rather than what you personally attract (unless it ties in with personal planets). The theme you picked up is what you are attracted to. Do you have Pluto and Uranus aspects natally that would attract Plutonians or Uranians?

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posted October 30, 2016 03:12 PM            

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I am a uranian, venusian, neptunian and cancerian mixed woman so i am pretty mixed with both masculine and feminine energy and i can say it definitely shows in the charts of the people i come into the life of too. Their venus and moon usually tend to be in both masculine and feminine signs.

The closest females in my life usually have nep/pluto/uranus aspecting either their moon or venus or they have either their venus or moon in the houses those planets rules and sometimes they have both. And they always have a feminine venus sign but their moon signs tend to be in masculine signs. Its a similar combination in the guys i attract too.

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posted October 30, 2016 03:33 PM            

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For several years now it seems like all my closest friends and connections romantically have been fire signs, mainly Aries, then Leo and sag, with Neptune/Pluto influence.

My best friend is an Aries stellium, sun conj Venus/moon/merc in Aries with Taurus rising with her Pluto conj DC in 6th.

I'm a libra sun conj Mars/merc with Taurus rising and my Venus conj Pluto on DC.

I think Aries act as a 4th leg to my 7 planet t-square which could be where Aries is so harmonious with me? Plus being my opposite sign.. since I'm very sensitive and mystical myself so I attract Neptune/Pluto type folk big time. Either having Pisces moon/or placements with Neptune prominence either conj or personalized or Scorpio placements/personalized Pluto as well as Venus influence now that I think about it (7H Venus + Taurus rising, libra sun/Mars/merc)

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posted October 30, 2016 03:37 PM            

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As far as attraction goes, like who seem to be really magnetically drawn to me.. Are Leo/Scorpio, for whatever reason so many men with Leo moons/risings/Suns are obsessed with me, they like me for so long I don't even really get why. My ex had Leo rising/moon + Venus/Pluto Scorpio like me and we've been broken up for years and he still keeps tabs on me, another guy I've had crazy chemistry with for years has a Scorpio rising with Leo sun conj Jupiter, he's liked me for over 10 years, just crazy to me he's so persistent.

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posted October 30, 2016 03:50 PM            

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Lately nothing.

But when I am, they all seem to have a Venus-Uranus aspect and Sun square Neptune.

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posted October 30, 2016 03:52 PM            

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When I studied abroad (and was a foreigner) one of the first friends I made had Venus in Sagittarius aspecting my Jupiter and natally a Moon-Jupiter square. She befriended a lot of foreign girls and her boyfriend was also an international student. It's really remarkable when you see astrology in action sometimes.

Oh and what I liked about her she was very martian, I have Moon-Mars so I love fiery women.

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posted October 30, 2016 03:54 PM            

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Aries, Pisces, Leo. Usually it's been Pisces Suns with Venus/Merc/Mars in Aries but this time it's an Aries Sun, Merc.

Asc in *i am not sure* conj Mars in 1H
Cancer Sun 11H
Cap Moon 5H

My 8H is empty
My 7H is empty

I have also been around more Scorpio Mooners than I can count on 50 hands..
My own Sun and Moon is sq Pluto.

For females I seem to work best with ONLY Aries or Libra. I somehow need them to be super diplomatic and calm or really aggressive and upfront.

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posted October 30, 2016 03:59 PM            

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I've noticed that I attracted Gemini's and Cancers a lot, as well as Scorpios and perhaps Taureans.

Virgo Ascendant with Aquarius Sun in 5th
Gemini Moon in 10th conjunct MC
8th house Scorpio Saturn

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posted October 30, 2016 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by cottonball:
Oh and what I liked about her she was very martian, I have Moon-Mars so I love fiery women.

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Haha i have a fire venus in aspect to jupiter too and a lot of the females i come in contact with have either a fire sun or moon with jupiter aspecting some of their personal planets. And i also have a venus/pluto aspect which might explain why a lot of the women in my life have scorpio/pluto/8th house influence too.

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posted October 30, 2016 06:32 PM            

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Originally posted by cottonball:
Is there a running theme in the charts of the people you attract? (both romantic and platonic) And does it reflect back to your own chart?

I was killing some time looking at charts and noticed my 3 closets girlfriends all have hard Venus-Uranus aspects. They like weird(Uranus) women(Venus) – and that’s me! I’m super Uranian. Also, I noticed the men who have swept me off my feet and enthralled me have their Uranus hard aspecting my Venus. It’s like ELECTRICITY! Usually very tight within half a degree.

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Thats actually interesting, since uranus hard aspects are often linked with "breaking of routine"... so...how long did any of those relationships last lol? Or are they still lasting?

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posted October 30, 2016 06:58 PM            

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Every woman that I attract, I mean every woman, whether romantic or platonic, always have a Mars/Jupiter aspect.

And I mean it when I say EVERY woman.

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posted October 30, 2016 10:23 PM            

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Hmmm.

The only thing that I'm really able to pick up is squares. Usually venus and/or Mars square to something else like moon, Jupiter, Uranus, Pluto.

I have squares to my own venus, Mars, and moon.

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posted October 30, 2016 11:00 PM            

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Scorp/Sag mixes and Virgo/Scorp mixes mostly. I've an 8H stellium & a Venus-Jupiter conjunction. (Also, people with a hard Venus/Jupiter aspect themselves).

Basically, no matter the sun sign, personal planets in :: {Virgo, Scorp or Sag} -- for sure.

Weirdly, Cancers & other Libras! Librans can be persistent as all hell.

Placements I get most often -
1. Scorp mars
2. Virgo anything
3. Sag moon/mars
4. Cancer mars
5. Fixed venuses

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posted October 30, 2016 11:07 PM            

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Interesting enough, I have an above average number of Aquarius suns and Gemini ASC that gravitate toward me and who I become close with.

One of those Aquarius suns WITH Gemini ASC is my current BFF (and she also has a Pisces moon which seems to have a special place in my life). I was just thinking today how she also has planets that connect to my 5H stellium and 3H sun + stellium. Note my 3H, that may have something to do with why I like Gemini ASC (for some reason Gemini never features prominently in any other way), and I have a 7H Aquarius which might help explain why I connect with some, at least when other aspects of the chart plus circumstances are right.

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posted October 31, 2016 02:54 AM            

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~~Pluto conjunct, square, or opposite Mars in people.
I do have the semi-square natally, but I think it's because I have a tight Pluto square to Venus. I find them impressive and they seem to like pursuing me. Harmonious aspects do not have the same effect.

~Uranians. I'm Uranian, they're Uranian...no mystery here.

*Sign placements that won't quit repeating themselves:
- Libra Suns (which conjunct my Mars, in 10th)
- Aquarius Moons, or folk who have their moon in the 11th.
- Scorpio anything +1st decan Sags. (my 11th house)
-Capricorns. Capricorns. Capricorns. (my ascendant)

Above anything else though, I've noticed I attract and am attracted to people who have some of their planets in the same houses as me irregardless of the signs.
E.g. I have Virgo Venus in 9th house. 3 of my closest friends have different Venus signs (Scorpio, Sag, and Cappy respectively) but all have their natal Venus's in their own 9th house.
I have Sun in the 7th natally and can always tell when someone else has this position. Even if our suns are incompatible by sign or aspect, there is a resonance.

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