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Topic: Do you say "I love you " easily and fast?
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Ceridwen
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posted November 01, 2016 07:51 AM
  
I don`t. I`ve become more open to say and mean it in a friendly sense, but even then I REALLY mean it (or I would not say it, and I would not call someone my friend, if I did not mean it, except when I am teasing my colleague about something. then I often end sentences with "...my friend" usually in a stern parental tone, while he frequently refers to me as "...honey" and no neither of us really means it this way, it`s just the fun exchange between a Sag and Libra. lol)
But no I donīt say "I love you" easily or often or in a superficial way. If I say it, I mean it.
In a romantic sense even less, and I do make a difference between "love" and "in love".
For some reason it`s easier for me to "love" a person than to be "in love" with them.
just for the record: I guess I should say it more often. 
Moon in Aqua
Venus in cap
go figure 
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erickaf
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posted November 01, 2016 10:57 AM
This is interesting topic.
I am always the first one to say it, but I haven't had many boyfriends. I gave Venus conjunction to Neptune in Sagittarius. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted November 01, 2016 11:09 AM
Y'all who never say it...you put this song in my headNo More I Love Yous "The language is leaving me in silence." Ok then. Well at least she used to say it. Annie Lennox:
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10 Cap moon Venus conjunct Saturn in Scorpio Hey now if SHE can say it, you other people have no excuse...   IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted November 01, 2016 11:17 AM
@muddy   @Ceri Love you! *eats popcorn and watches your Aqua moon squirm* It's okay you don't have to say it back. Your Mars is conjunct my Venus. I had you from hello. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted November 01, 2016 11:22 AM
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Empty Spaces
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posted November 01, 2016 09:26 PM
Thank you guys
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Learning about emotions/moon that kind of stuff in astrology is the best part for me.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted November 01, 2016 10:47 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
@muddy @Ceri Love you! *eats popcorn and watches your Aqua moon squirm* It's okay you don't have to say it back. Your Mars is conjunct my Venus. I had you from hello.
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EmGem
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posted November 01, 2016 10:57 PM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
^ yeah, 12th house venus here too
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BeholdAstarte
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posted November 02, 2016 12:45 AM
i say "I love you" all the time to people in my life and I don't feel like it has any sort of "emptiness" to its means no matter how many times I choose to say it.
When I feel it I just tell the person I love them and with working with kids I tell them all the time I love them too, I feel really deeply into people, I say it from a place that makes me feel connected to everyone and I also say it to share the love! Everyone needs to know they are loved.. Even the ones who act out and are hard to loveRelationship wise I usually hold myself back and wait until the other person says it first though it'll be so hard!!! I do that because my feels are so intense I don't know if they would understand.. And once I'm at the point where I'm open about my love I tell that person all the time how much I love them. 5H Virgo moon
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Ceridwen
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posted November 02, 2016 12:53 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Love you!
We love you, too.
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Ceridwen
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posted November 02, 2016 12:55 AM
And my ASC is conjunct your Venus, so I guess we`ve had each other from hello. Interesting song choice btw. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted November 02, 2016 01:01 AM
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Originally posted by BeholdAstarte:
i say "I love you" all the time to people in my life and I don't feel like it has any sort of "emptiness" to its means no matter how many times I choose to say it.
When I feel it I just tell the person I love them and with working with kids I tell them all the time I love them too, I feel really deeply into people, I say it from a place that makes me feel connected to everyone and I also say it to share the love! Everyone needs to know they are loved.. Even the ones who act out and are hard to loveRelationship wise I usually hold myself back and wait until the other person says it first though it'll be so hard!!! I do that because my feels are so intense I don't know if they would understand.. And once I'm at the point where I'm open about my love I tell that person all the time how much I love them. 5H Virgo moon
Venus conj Pluto on DC 7H
Awwwweeeeeeeeeeeeee you sound so sweet. Give me some loveee  IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted November 02, 2016 03:36 AM
I have never said I love you or I'm in love with you. I usually say things like "you affect me deeply" or "you've made me change for the better"..these sorts of things..moon in pisces
venus in cancer when I'm in a good mood, I feel in love with the whole universe..I know it might seem too poetical or cliche, but it's really how I feel...so in relationships I feel weird to say "love", because I know that love is universal and not really something personal...too many people mistake co-dependency for love, and I believe that's why they say "love" too easy and fast..it's actually an expression of their need for that person to satisfy some of their desires, and it's often unconscious. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted November 02, 2016 07:53 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
We love you, too.
I know the secret meaning of this!!!  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted November 02, 2016 08:54 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
I know the secret meaning of this!!!
I was pretty sure you would get it. Hoped so at least. IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte
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posted November 02, 2016 11:07 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Awwwweeeeeeeeeeeeee you sound so sweet. Give me some loveee
Hehe ok!! If I saws u I'd give u a big hug! Sending love vibes your way via frequencies :P
Haha I'm a total love bug!! It's that 7H Venus plus Pluto like magnifies all the love! Can't ever have enough love showered on ha
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Lerena
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posted November 02, 2016 11:49 AM
Moon in Gemini.I don't say "I love you" easily. It takes me a long time to fall in love, but once I am in love I can be expressive about my feelings for the other person. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted November 02, 2016 12:46 PM
quote:
Originally posted by BeholdAstarte:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by hypatia238:
[b] Awwwweeeeeeeeeeeeee you sound so sweet. Give me some loveee
Hehe ok!! If I saws u I'd give u a big hug! Sending love vibes your way via frequencies :P
Haha I'm a total love bug!! It's that 7H Venus plus Pluto like magnifies all the love! Can't ever have enough love showered on ha [/B][/QUOTE]Awww you put a huge smile on my face, thanks for the long distance love vibes. IP: Logged |
LunarRose
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posted November 02, 2016 12:55 PM
I agree with Lerena. Although I think this has more to do with my Saturn in the 8th instead of my 2nd house Cancer Moon.IP: Logged |
Hemilla
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posted November 02, 2016 02:31 PM
no,its not easy for me to express my emotions that easy i also tend to be hard on physical contacts tooGem vvenus moon in pisc IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted November 03, 2016 05:31 AM
I've become more open about telling someone I love you but it's more of I love you as a person whereas in love. Ive only said it once and even then I wasn't sure if that was what I was feeling. In love to me means that one person and Ive never been so wrapped up in one person that I couldn't move on with my life. Life might be difficult for awhile and I may greave the loss of the relationship but eventually I will move on. Love to me is more about what you do than saying it although I do love to hear it. I'm more receptive to say it once I do hear it. IP: Logged |
Gracha
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posted November 04, 2016 05:42 PM
Yikes, no way. Gemini moon in 12th house. It takes a long time for me to fall in love but I can have intense infatuations. I told one man that I loved him and I truly meant it, I would have moved heaven and earth for him. I don't fall in love fast, I like being infatuated though something about that energy.IP: Logged |
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