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posted November 03, 2016 05:00 PM            

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I didn't get any love in Personal Readings so I'm trying here.

I have a hugely significant soulmate in my life and he's going through a hell of a time at the moment. It has been on and off in the last year but I've never seen him slipping into darkness so much as I have now. I saw him the other day after a little while and he's struggling so badly with his mind. He feels drawn to the dark side, experiencing many unconscious pulls towards menacing spirits. I can see in his eyes that something is attached to him.

He feels like giving up in everything and can't quite believe the person he is becoming. It's like a dark force has taken over and he hardly has hope for this future.

Can you please tell me if his charts show anything at all? And most importantly, is he likely to come out of this anytime soon? I'm really worried that he's slipping further and further down into a black hole. He doesn't believe in therapy either. I can see severe trauma trapped in his body.

Does he have the WANT to get better? Or is his chart too trine lazy?

I will be so very grateful for anyone's insight here please 🙏❤️

Progressed

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posted November 03, 2016 05:59 PM            

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Hi, I'm really sorry your friend is going though this. I can't write much, but 2 things that stood out to me right away is his Natal Chiron/IC opposite Uranus and transit Neptune, which just entered his 12h

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posted November 04, 2016 03:02 AM            

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Look at all that Cardinal in his charts!! O.O
I know tPluto and tUranus has been wreaking havoc in my life and there's not much one can do but to re-evaluate life.

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posted November 04, 2016 05:53 PM            

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Thank you both for responding.

Yes uranus is about to steamroll over his stellium.

Do you think this could be his saving grace? To wake him up and jolt him out of this place?

There's something deeply disturbing going on. He is actually liking this darkness in a way, being drawn to it.

Neptune transiting his 12th, well I'm hoping it will be good for him in terms of spiritual awareness and growth.

Would love others to take a look too, please?

edit: photobucket is down for maintenance so you can't see the charts, damn.

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posted November 05, 2016 04:18 PM            

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Thinking of and praying for you and for him. I drafted a big reply a couple days ago and then for the first time ever I accidentally pressed "clear Fields"... I say that not.to disappoint but just because.. well I tried! But the thing is that yes he will realize things in his time, in his unfolding, it's basically guaranteed that will happen... whether it will be soon or not it's hard to say. He does have to want to, and circumstances have to converge to make him see why he needs to. No state can last forever. A balance of yin and yang will be brought about, and it will be dramatic if a severe imbalance has come about...

We all do indulge in enjoying suffering and darkness in one way or another... It's an addiction... and learning how to stop doing that sometimes seems to me to be kind of the whole deal. We can't necessarily shake one another out of it, that's a personal and sacred journey, but we can help one another enjoy life whenever we can... Uranus will certainly wake up some stuff. 12th house transits of Neptune can be gentle and revelatory or confusing, clouding the implications of the contents of the unconscious. They will do this and they will also tend to uncover the sacred underlying reality of all things. Neptune is connectedness... the ending of the illusion of separation, as well as the painful results of that illusion when it comes to us that we have been living in the dream of samsara. Yet we can also realize that everything that is happening is part of the web of all being and always has been... that can be enough to change the perspective from one of darkness and lack to one of love and joy and abundance...

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posted November 05, 2016 04:26 PM            

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Transiting Pluto on his Saturn would have been pretty rough. The addictive element of suffering would be highlighted by Neptune transiting his twelfth, you know... and he's unaware of that aspect of himself because of Pisces on the cusp of the twelfth, so it's a huge learning curve for him to own his spiritual nature and not get sidetracked by other addictions. It's often a question with Neptune... Will you be addicted to spiritual well being or... other things? You need as much positive spiritual input as possible with Neptune prominent.

I feel like I'm not quite doing this justice at the moment, I am heading out the door. If you'd like to talk again I would like to also. Let me know I would consider it an extension of our previous session..

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posted November 05, 2016 09:47 PM            

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I'll email you Yun. You're an angel 🙏💖

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