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laviecestchouette
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posted November 04, 2016 09:33 AM
  
Hello everyone! Wonder if anybody has this combination or met someone who has it or has any thoughts about it.
He is Cancer with Virgo ascendant, Mercury in Cancer. Saturn in 8th House.
How promiscuous is he? How deep are his feelings? How attached this person can become in relationship? Does he still need this Cancer need to nurture loved ones? How does he demonstrate his affection?Your answers are greatly appreciated! <3 IP: Logged |
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posted November 05, 2016 08:01 AM
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FruityLlama
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posted November 05, 2016 08:33 AM
Hello!First off, with his love planets in the 10th this gives him a capricorn vibe to love which is very serious. Same with saturn in the 8th. I am tempted to say that this person takes love and sex seriously, isn't one to fall head over heels at first sight, they like to do things logically. The gemini planets indicate that he LOVES intelligence more than anything else, combined with status. Hope this helped! IP: Logged |
laviecestchouette
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posted November 05, 2016 03:22 PM
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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
Hello!First off, with his love planets in the 10th this gives him a capricorn vibe to love which is very serious. Same with saturn in the 8th. I am tempted to say that this person takes love and sex seriously, isn't one to fall head over heels at first sight, they like to do things logically. The gemini planets indicate that he LOVES intelligence more than anything else, combined with status. Hope this helped!
Hey! Thanks a lot! Do you think his 10th house Gemini planets will be attracted to Virgo sun conjunct Mercury and Jupiter? IP: Logged |
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posted November 05, 2016 08:03 PM
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laviecestchouette
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posted November 20, 2016 09:08 PM
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colorful butterfly
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posted November 20, 2016 09:55 PM
I have those placements except mars in the 9th. I am very sensitive and love is very serious. I think mostly I would just enjoy someone who I can have intellectual conversation with and can keep things lighthearted, kind, warm and funny, sweet,romantic, loving but not smothering, a little is fine but too much and I got to go, simple and peaceful love life but someone who allows me the freedom to pursue my goals, interest or social obligations without interfering or better yet, able to be apart of it..... I do not care for partners who try to insult me, test me or put me benieth them, who I have to chase . I guess be interested and interesting is the best way to say it. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted November 20, 2016 10:04 PM
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Originally posted by laviecestchouette:
Hello everyone! Wonder if anybody has this combination or met someone who has it or has any thoughts about it.
He is Cancer with Virgo ascendant, Mercury in Cancer. Saturn in 8th House.
How promiscuous is he? How deep are his feelings? How attached this person can become in relationship? Does he still need this Cancer need to nurture loved ones? How does he demonstrate his affection?Your answers are greatly appreciated! <3
Promiscuous, if I think someone is not going to work out then I start to move on. I can be very attached to someone but I can let that person go. Yes, we need it although we don't really know we do or ask for it. I demonstrate my affections by being nice, flirty, and I will tease the other a little. Saturn in the 8th? I'm not sure about but I love to please!!!!! so if I'm not ummm open with myself then there is something that lets me know I don't have security or feel secure with the other person and if I start trying to run like I got to go type thing after we ummm... sometimes during the ummm and thats never good. IP: Logged |
laviecestchouette
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posted November 21, 2016 05:47 AM
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I have those placements except mars in the 9th. I am very sensitive and love is very serious. I think mostly I would just enjoy someone who I can have intellectual conversation with and can keep things lighthearted, kind, warm and funny, sweet,romantic, loving but not smothering, a little is fine but too much and I got to go, simple and peaceful love life but someone who allows me the freedom to pursue my goals, interest or social obligations without interfering or better yet, able to be apart of it..... I do not care for partners who try to insult me, test me or put me benieth them, who I have to chase . I guess be interested and interesting is the best way to say it.
Hey, colourful butterfly, thank you for reply!
Could you answer some questions:
1) what's your ascendant?
2) what about a partner who is kind and respectful to your life at day, but gets kinda needy at night?
3) what level of emotional intimacy is right for you?
4) I've red that you cancer/gem guys have problem when friends sometimes misinterpret your being nice to them as being romantically interested. Taking into account your "love to tease", what is the line between being nice to a friend and showing your interest for you?
5) do you think think a man with your placements would like his woman to work and be fully independent or an intellectual housewife with hobbies?
6) do you like kids and do you plan having them?
7) are you nurturing towards loved ones when they are not in their best mood or sick?
8) what is too smothering for you in relationship? Hope it's not too many questions look forwards to reading your opinion and thanks in advance
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laviecestchouette
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posted November 21, 2016 08:12 PM
Could you also tell your opinion on Virgos and Scorpios (Suns or personal planets placements)? IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted November 21, 2016 11:55 PM
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Originally posted by laviecestchouette:
Hey, colourful butterfly, thank you for reply!
Could you answer some questions:
1) what's your ascendant?
2) what about a partner who is kind and respectful to your life at day, but gets kinda needy at night?
3) what level of emotional intimacy is right for you?
4) I've red that you cancer/gem guys have problem when friends sometimes misinterpret your being nice to them as being romantically interested. Taking into account your "love to tease", what is the line between being nice to a friend and showing your interest for you?
5) do you think think a man with your placements would like his woman to work and be fully independent or an intellectual housewife with hobbies?
6) do you like kids and do you plan having them?
7) are you nurturing towards loved ones when they are not in their best mood or sick?
8) what is too smothering for you in relationship?Hope it's not too many questions look forwards to reading your opinion and thanks in advance
1.I am Virgo rising
2.I don't mind someone who is needy, but I am the type to teach you how to fish so I would try to find ways to show you how to overcome your own obstical
3. intamicy is in the mind although I have been through alot in life and learned a few things about myself. I have a rejection button when it comes to love so it makes me very sensitive to rejection real or imagined, I lacked alot of nuturing growing up so I need that even though it feels awkward to ask for it, I get bored easy and my mind is always looking to be intellectually stimulated. The longest relationship Ive been in, the person is kind, makes me laugh, if we have an argument we both can talk things out and is secure. It's when I feel like there is not enough security or things are not going to work out I get flighty.
4.I'm a girl so if he ask me out and is serious by his actions, I've had to learn when he is really interested vs just looking to play
5. yes, I like a guy who is independent but is strong in his masculinity and ego. He doesn't make me feel benieth him or trys to hold something over my head. I feel guilty because I feel that way, not because he told me too. I like someone who says hey you wanna go n do this etc,I'd like to see you blank time and day. I like to go and do . I want the other person yo have thier own life but we do thibgs together and not afraid to show how they feel, to be interested in me and interesting as a person, I take that person seriously until they show that thier playing games then I bail. Also if a person comes on tooo strong so it's nice to be respectful and reserved in some ways.
6. I LOVE kids and I have 3, I am the biggest kid at heart and love for me is playful , being silly, funny, but careing
7. yes, if someone is sick I care very deeply about them but sometimes it may look different such as if you are my friend and cry over something , I will harden because I feel you need that to lean on vs we all fall apart. I guess too depends on hoe sick you are, sounds bad but if he had a headace I would leave and go out so I wouldn't bother him.
8. Too smothering is like crazy jealous or always tring to make me feel bad or chaining me to a bed, I am extremly extroverted so I like to be around people.
9. Logic always out weighs my emotions in making decisions, the longest relationship has been based off logic. He was good with kids although he had none, I had kids and would not have to worry about another woman. It's not that I can't deal with another woman, it's just thats how I saw things at the time since he had none. He made good money and paid his bills, he kept a job. He was nice and romantic, he would always settle my mind because virgo rising means to be nervous about new situations especially chaos, in which I was going threw a divorce at the time. We had good relations in the bedroom and I was able to be understood by him, felt wanted and needed.
The thing that hurt the most in our relationship is that he purposed once and then got mad about when I was trying to figure out what was in his mind,like how soon he was thinking. I had just gotten divorced and wasn't ready to be married soon but he took it as I wanted it then so it hurt he got mad, then felt like he just purposed to be doing it. I quit careing for a long time after that even though we had made up, it stuck with me. Later later, when we did try to get married because he wanted to because I had left, it's like he got depressed so I gave up on the idea. He had said some pretty mean things from time to time, like I won't the sharpest knife in the drawer to my child and once I was having some trouble at work and he didn't want to her about my problems so I found someone who did at that time. It took me along time to understand that love, trust, repect all comes in time. If he has gemini venus just make sure he is in his 30s and maybe 40? I don't think I really was ever ready for a relationship or understood them until then. Its not to say he won't be committed if he is younger than that but he will need to learn alot. Gemini /cancer is the child of the zodiac so we really have a child like approach. I like to learn and to be taught gently with warmth and love. He is sagittarius rising. I looked up lessons for gemini venus and it means to not react but to listen to both sides and that sag is the sign to learn from but I also have virgo nn/ sn pisces . The last part makes him look bad but everyone is human and we all make mistakes in life, the thing I've learned is when you tell someone that this bothers you and not to do that again, if they love you, they won't do it again. That serious is someone who takes you out, introduces you to thier friends and family, talks highly of you, talks things threw and compromises and adjust and doesn't put you down. They make you feel wanted and perfect for them and perfect for who you are. They want to hang out with you, with or without sex and want you as thier girl vs just someone thier seeing. They love you and you make them feel complete ,even though thier not perfect and it's ok if your not either. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted November 22, 2016 12:02 AM
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Originally posted by laviecestchouette:
Could you also tell your opinion on Virgos and Scorpios (Suns or personal planets placements)?
Virgo rising is nervous energy, I get wound up easy and cancer sun just makes that emotional about it.
Scorpio seems to be intense to me. I have moon conjunct pluto in the first and I know it makes my emotions intense , wheather I show them or not and also a need to feel is something that I read and told? I also have a libra moon so that makes feeling somewhat detached I guess, like I rationalize alot. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted November 22, 2016 12:30 AM
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Originally posted by laviecestchouette:
Hey, colourful butterfly, thank you for reply!
Could you answer some questions:
1) what's your ascendant?
2) what about a partner who is kind and respectful to your life at day, but gets kinda needy at night?
3) what level of emotional intimacy is right for you?
4) I've red that you cancer/gem guys have problem when friends sometimes misinterpret your being nice to them as being romantically interested. Taking into account your "love to tease", what is the line between being nice to a friend and showing your interest for you?
5) do you think think a man with your placements would like his woman to work and be fully independent or an intellectual housewife with hobbies?
6) do you like kids and do you plan having them?
7) are you nurturing towards loved ones when they are not in their best mood or sick?
8) what is too smothering for you in relationship?Hope it's not too many questions look forwards to reading your opinion and thanks in advance
Also look up secret language of relationships, his falls in marriage part. Although my first husband fell into my friend section. My chart says I marry a foriegner or different culture and am happy till the day I die , from my friends circle or work, a friend of a friend but idk . Ive come to the conclusion life will do what it's going to do and to just be happy. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted November 22, 2016 01:44 AM
Whats his jupiter in? Mine is in leo and conjunct my mercuryIP: Logged |
laviecestchouette
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posted November 22, 2016 06:07 PM
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Also look up secret language of relationships, his falls in marriage part. Although my first husband fell into my friend section. My chart says I marry a foriegner or different culture and am happy till the day I die , from my friends circle or work, a friend of a friend but idk . Ive come to the conclusion life will do what it's going to do and to just be happy.
Hey thanks a lot! You really helped me understand the whole picture <3
Where do I look this falls in marriage thing? His desc actually falls right on my Asc and he is Virgo ASC too, like you but then probably, because you've been married before, you know that being married to a person does not always signify peachy and satisfying love life. So I'm looking more for clues for conpatibility. IP: Logged |
laviecestchouette
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posted November 22, 2016 06:24 PM
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Whats his jupiter in? Mine is in leo and conjunct my mercury
His Jupiter is in Capricorn opposing his sun conk eeemercury and squaring Saturn. What does it influence? May I also ask you several intimate questions?
1)Is bedroom life very important to you?
2)How soon are you ready to get intimate with a person when you start relationship?
3)What is that you find most pleasant in sex, is it physical things like warmth and sensual things or intimacy and emotional bond or closeness (do you experience them when having sex at all?) I ask because some say that Venus in Gemini is quite detached emotionally.
4) what is most important for you in sexual relationship? What feeling you usually experience? This guy with the same placement as you he is very young (20), he is my classmate at the uni, we see each other everyday, spent a lot of time together. He recently broke up with his girlfriend and I separated from my husband. I confessed his feelings towards him, but he just made a joke back. At the same time he is always around me, cooks for me, does everything with me. But I wonder maybe he is just being friendly..... I really show that I care about him, but still nothing from his side....
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laviecestchouette
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posted November 25, 2016 05:34 PM
Hey colourful butterfly,happy Thanksgiving and still hope to hear from you soon
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colorful butterfly
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posted November 26, 2016 11:40 PM
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Originally posted by laviecestchouette:
Hey thanks a lot! You really helped me understand the whole picture <3
Where do I look this falls in marriage thing? His desc actually falls right on my Asc and he is Virgo ASC too, like you but then probably, because you've been married before, you know that being married to a person does not always signify peachy and satisfying love life. So I'm looking more for clues for conpatibility.
It will tell you works best at .... worst at ....., some say friends, some say work etc. Jupiter in capricorn, do you have Capricorn placements in your chart?
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colorful butterfly
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posted November 27, 2016 12:20 AM
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Originally posted by laviecestchouette:
His Jupiter is in Capricorn opposing his sun conk eeemercury and squaring Saturn. What does it influence?May I also ask you several intimate questions?
1)Is bedroom life very important to you?
2)How soon are you ready to get intimate with a person when you start relationship?
3)What is that you find most pleasant in sex, is it physical things like warmth and sensual things or intimacy and emotional bond or closeness (do you experience them when having sex at all?) I ask because some say that Venus in Gemini is quite detached emotionally.
4) what is most important for you in sexual relationship? What feeling you usually experience? This guy with the same placement as you he is very young (20), he is my classmate at the uni, we see each other everyday, spent a lot of time together. He recently broke up with his girlfriend and I separated from my husband. I confessed his feelings towards him, but he just made a joke back. At the same time he is always around me, cooks for me, does everything with me. But I wonder maybe he is just being friendly..... I really show that I care about him, but still nothing from his side....
1. yes, the bedroom is where I like to please my so and show my feelings for them and like to be showed the same back.
2. Oh wow, depends on the person. If I feel an immediate bond then usually very soon but if not it'll be whenever I feel on the same wavelength as that person
3. My sun conjuncts my venus in the 10th so sex is bonding to me, it's weird I guess but it's about how connected I feel to the person I'm with. I think it can come off detached because of the gemini add thing. For me the greatest sex is when I am close to the person, know they love and care for me, have my back so to speak and I feel mentally connected to them in that they get me. I've never met anyone I couldn't move on from though. It's like in love doesn't resinate with me. It's more of , this or we work type of thing. We get along, sex is good and we work together to make things happen in our relationship. It's when things don't work or the person has alot of problems with me or doesn't seem interested I move on. Boredom and lack of communication is usually a turn off.
4.In a sexual relation it's knowing they care for me and I'm not just some chick, that it's going somewhere as in I'm not waisting my time if I'm into you. Keeping things changed up is exciting like public places , bed, floor, couch, roof top lol
I can be a freak in the sheets and a lady in the streets. What joke did he make back yo you? I think this is where people think we are detached, it's not that we don't care and can't tell you how we feel, it's just for me I'm lighthearted in love. If I'm teasing you , it means I really like you especially if I'm doing for you. I use to never really say I love you unless I felt pressured to say so and in love is far fetched idea for me. I've learned words really do mean alot to people and it's ok to tell another how you feel or to say my feelings vs assuming you just know what I'm feeling. Anyway love is like your infatuated for some years,then the person gets on your nerves, then you just love them warts and all. I think the best thing is that if he is with you and doing things for you he must think highly of you. Be careful if your critical of him even though he may be blunt, just sandwich whatever you have to tell him gently. I'm very sensitive when it comes to guys, if thier playing games I usually see threw it even though I want to deny my own common sense since I don't think I know everything. Love for me is what you do so that might be why he does alot vs telling you everything. He may also be trying to feel things out if he thinks it's going to work for him or not. I hope.your Thanksgiving went well too and I hope this helps. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted November 27, 2016 12:24 AM
What's his bday and yours? Also feeling secure is a big issue for me without it I am gone like the wind.IP: Logged |
laviecestchouette
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posted November 27, 2016 09:01 AM
Hey colorful butterfly!!!! Once again thanks for the insightful response <3So secret language of relationship says it can work for work and it is problematic for love.
As for Capricorn placements, I have Neptune and Uranus there.
What about your placements? As far as I understood you have Cancer Sun in last degrees and than Moon. Venus and Mercury in Gemini? My Bday is 18th September 1992, 18:01 Kharkiv, Ukraine.
His 13th July 1996, around 9 am, Berlin, Germany. IP: Logged |
laviecestchouette
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posted November 27, 2016 09:19 AM
So you say love for you is very close but lighthearted and playful at the same time?Can you somehow relate to the following? I have Mars in Cancer and Pluto in Scorpio in 8th house, so things between the sheets can get pretty intense to me and not so lighthearted... It's like i get so close to my feelings that I am also in close contact to my pain and needs, and I need the other person to feel that too in me and kind of take me to the edge so i could completely loose myself in him.
It's like I can be so brilliant and bubbly and cheerful at day and that at night I maybe a complete needy mess and I need the other person to love me and embrace me even in that mess state. If he does, I'm his forever and will make him the centre of my life.
So from the point of "the other person" can you resonate with the written above? Or you find it somehow dragging and too heavy? IP: Logged |
laviecestchouette
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posted November 27, 2016 09:28 AM
I actually tried to corner him and asked him bluntly if its a friendship thing to which he responded "yes it is". but then started being provocative and i backed off cause i felt hurt....And also he is very caring and asks me if I'm fine all the time, but then one time i was not fine and i told him that. he responded "but what i can do about it?" i told him "dunno, cheer me up" and he didn't and never came back to this convo.... Not nice for a Cancer Mars, Pisces Asc girl like me 
What do you think? I know its ridiculous but its not lol... IP: Logged |
laviecestchouette
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posted November 27, 2016 09:31 AM
Oh hey! Another thing...Are you prone to this secretive, passive aggressive behaviour? When you are hurt, but you never admit it and show it. IP: Logged |
laviecestchouette
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posted November 27, 2016 09:38 AM
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
What joke did he make back yo you?
He walked me to the subway on my way home and i told him i had a crush on him. And he said "Everybody has a crush on me, I'm the most handsome guy in class". And than he become so funny and lively and was so courteous opening doors and stuff. Thank you so much for your help, colorful butterfly!!! <3
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