posted November 10, 2016 04:12 PM            

I can also see the sextile to the other stellium also having an affect, and being somewhat philosophic and nonstandard about it.

I seem to lack the obsession with betrayal that this placement is supposed to bring, but I do have strong fears of death or similar tragedies occurring, perhaps because I've been exposed to that and it's something I can't vet against.

I'm big on truth in close relationships, be it romantic or friendship (not acquaintances and the like). Many say this, but few mean it as I get the impression most people say this mean "tell me a pretty lie and make me believe it (while I also hide who I am to keep you)." As for me, I actually prefer plain speaking, and that seems the best way to keep a relationship alive that was meant to be, rather than keeping a dead relationship that never was going.

posted November 10, 2016 08:50 PM            

i'm very aware of how pluto affects my sun, but i'd be interested to hear how it is for venus.

posted November 11, 2016 01:40 AM            

Relationships have been a turbulent road my whole life, especially when I was younger. I feel like I was an open wound ha, very sensitive and got really extreme/intense reactions from people, then and now. When I was really young I would get picked on a lot, I had an earring ripped out of my ear onetime and when I was about 3 a little girl pushed me into the deep end of the pool and I almost drowned, it wasn't until I starting getting older that I would lash back but I honestly don't remember what I did to get such extreme reactions from people. It took a long time to "toughen" up, any kind of harshness or anger/negativity would instantly make me cry ha and I was scared pretty easily. My parentsdivorced when I was really young and I was in daycare by a few months, so I was around a lot of unfamiliar places/people all the time and frequently moved. I can be pretty suspicious of people and I spent a lot of time alone, so betrayal use to be a deep rooted pain I would be paranoid about, I've gotten a lot better about the past hurts, def not a problem anymore so much. It took quit a bit of healing and such and shedding of layers. But it took trial and error mistakes in relationships and how I felt with myself and how that reflected in my relationships, all interelated I suppose.

I'm intense and extremely passionate, so it reflects in a lot of things I do I guess, my art is a bit dark and mystical, I've always been fascinated by the unknown and I like really dramatic and soulful music, anything wicked too and strange. Also pretty secretive, for whatever reason when it comes to my money/possessions and of course personal life/love life. i like to hang out with people in secret? I've had secret relationships for sure and I'm told frequently how mysterious I am. I feel like Pluto on the DC can make me more of a loner despite venus's love for people. I just feel so deeply into others.. I don't ever quit feel like I fully fit in, but the connections I do make are deep and spiritual, those soulful bonds, it's what I live for. I feel like I can read into people pretty accurately, and have a strong pulling/attraction type theme with relationships.

My relationships tend to end pretty stormy with the other person drastically changing or altering themselves to try to win me back. My exes still keep tabs on me, I make such deep connections it's hard to break them off fully, it seems like the Pluto relationships stick around in some way, they just linger on for years. Usually possessiveness and jealousy are common.. Arguments and the likes, ugh blah, it's easier just to say single because the pain that comes along with relationships can be too much.

posted November 11, 2016 09:08 AM            

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posted November 12, 2016 04:58 AM            

Itīs intense, consuming and terrifying, not just for the other people, because they most usually donīt get to see it since Iīm overprotective of myself and my emotions, but for me, as well, because Iīm afraid of losing control.

I can be burning from the passion on the inside, but I wonīt show it on the outside because I keep thinking Iīm so obvious and thatīs why theyīre going to lose interest and hurt me, yet they always end up hurting me because Iīm "cold and can handle it".