posted November 12, 2016 10:58 AM            

what type of a parent is a Pisces moon?

how were they perceived by you as a child if they have the placement?

do you believe they lack the necessary parental discipline or that they are too much in their own world and don't give their children enough attention?

you can share their sun sign too if you like

would love hearing about your experiences

posted November 12, 2016 01:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Septembergirl:
I didn't have this experience as a child, but I have a Pisces moon and I am a parent of two boys. I think I'm a terrible push over most of the time. I'm too patient, loving and understanding. It's very difficult for me to implement t punishments or consequences for their behavior at times.
I have a Virgo sun as well, so I'm my worst critic. 😬

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Virgo sun and Moon in Pisces. I don't have kids but yes I would probably bombard them with hugs and kisses and not be that great at disciplining. I wouldn't be controlling and give them lots of freedom (Jupiter conjunct Uranus in the 1st). I am at risk of been permissive .

However I would need to know were they are always and they really can talk to me about anything and I will understand and be there for them.

posted November 12, 2016 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
My step dad is a pisces moon (Virgo sun) and it's extremely hard for me to get along with him. He has the tendency to escape. Whether it is by doing drugs, drinking, cheating on my mom or sleeping all day, etc. When he is his virgo self, he is a workaholic, perfectionist, but overly critical. The man cant find any balance. To this day he shifts back and forth between his sun and moon like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

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posted November 12, 2016 02:45 PM            

at least the virgo part can bring some order I believe, but add a sun sign like taurus or libra to the pisces moon and you'll have a person with a very hard time being a typical parent.

posted November 12, 2016 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Uhh that sucks, I have that aspect too but I am not critical or perfectionist at all. Neptune is my strongest planet though. I will probably be lenient and understanding but have certain standards. I will probably be ok with my child getting As, Bs and some Cs while a lot of parents freak out about Cs.

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I'm sure you'll do great. I have lots of Pisces in my chart and my daughter is a Pisces moon. I hate the current education system and told myself long ago I will focus on my children's strengths as opposed to their weaknesses.

posted November 12, 2016 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
I'm sure you'll do great. I have lots of Pisces in my chart and my daughter is a Pisces moon. I hate the current education system and told myself long ago I will focus on my children's strengths as opposed to their weaknesses.

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bananaz may I ask, since I also find the education system very flawed, if you prefer sending your children to special schools (with a more sufficient curriculum and better educated teachers) vs. a normal school where they will be among children from all society groups but can be treated badly by teachers or other students? (of course that danger is everywhere, but way less common in "special schools"). I am not considering this because I want to pressure the child into becoming ambitious or to make them focus on materialistic success, but rather for them to have a more comfortable environment to study in and be able to still be a child. I myself went to normal schools and was heavily bullied. I'm sure nobody wants this for their kids. I'm paranoid about the same thing happening to my kids. if it happens, I will change their school for sure, but it will have a negative impact on them anyway.

some say there's a chance that the kid can become too spoiled or even develop racism by going to a "special" school. I have sure seen it in a few people my own age. again I don't want this to happen either! :-(

posted November 12, 2016 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Hemilla:
btw i think i will be one of those parents that lets their children belive trolls and faries really do exist -Santa and easter bunny are real yall - i make sure children i babysit know every single fairytale and myth i even make up new fantasy creatures and all and i tell them its all true,its reality xD

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posted November 13, 2016 06:08 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
I'm sure you'll do great. I have lots of Pisces in my chart and my daughter is a Pisces moon. I hate the current education system and told myself long ago I will focus on my children's strengths as opposed to their weaknesses.

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posted November 13, 2016 07:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Hemilla:
btw i think i will be one of those parents that lets their children belive trolls and faries really do exist -Santa and easter bunny are real yall - i make sure children i babysit know every single fairytale and myth i even make up new fantasy creatures and all and i tell them its all true,its reality xD

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I'm just sharing as a funny story, IMO...and it's only funny because I didn't act on it (as it would be horrible if I did).

A little girl I was babysitting was terrified of monsters as she went to sleep. To help her feel better I'd check her closet and under her bed. I was SO tempted to pretend something got me, pulled me in or under, and shrieking how I could feel its terrible fangs, but unlike some people I'm related to, I'm not that cruel to a child.

As it was I let her keep her door open (I'd close it later), and I even sang this song for her:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTyiddyIe9k

I have a warped sense of humor, but I at least try to keep it fun rather than traumatizing.

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Btw, just curious, have you ever read or watched the Goosebumps series?

I remember seeing this ep (the book was better, IMO, though the TV version threw in a nice line of the girl trying to bluff the library monster by pretending her parents are home and calling out to ask Mom if Dad was still cleaning his rifle ):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBksgk-W58U

So cheesy to me now, but I still admire the performance of the actor who portrayed the creepy librarian monster and bet he'd be a lot of fun to be around (people who can throw themselves into such roles are usually nicer and more fun than many others). And the twist ending is still fun. But even in my teens (I think I was nearly 14 when I first saw it) it struck a chord with me as I knew the monsters were real, but they lived inside of people rather than under beds and in closets. And, as the monster said, "Maybe there's a little monster in all of us."

Heh, a little girl does a live reaction to the ending of this episode:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R9oqYf7YJlw

posted November 13, 2016 07:51 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
bananaz may I ask, since I also find the education system very flawed, if you prefer sending your children to special schools (with a more sufficient curriculum and better educated teachers) vs. a normal school where they will be among children from all society groups but can be treated badly by teachers or other students?

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My daughter isn't school age yet, but the plan is to send either to private (if I'm able to afford) or a charter school.

posted November 14, 2016 04:48 AM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:

I think as long as you spend time teaching your child at home as well it doesn't matter. Quality time is everything. I plan on teaching useful things too, like how to garden, how to cook, ASTROLOGY LOL. Things they don't teach in school.

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posted November 14, 2016 04:54 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I'm just sharing as a funny story, IMO...and it's only funny because I didn't act on it (as it would be horrible if I did).

A little girl I was babysitting was terrified of monsters as she went to sleep. To help her feel better I'd check her closet and under her bed. I was SO tempted to pretend something got me, pulled me in or under, and shrieking how I could feel its terrible fangs, but unlike some people I'm related to, I'm not that cruel to a child.

As it was I let her keep her door open (I'd close it later), and I even sang this song for her:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTyiddyIe9k

I have a warped sense of humor, but I at least try to keep it fun rather than traumatizing.

x

Btw, just curious, have you ever read or watched the Goosebumps series?

I remember seeing this ep (the book was better, IMO, though the TV version threw in a nice line of the girl trying to bluff the library monster by pretending her parents are home and calling out to ask Mom if Dad was still cleaning his rifle ):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBksgk-W58U

So cheesy to me now, but I still admire the performance of the actor who portrayed the creepy librarian monster and bet he'd be a lot of fun to be around (people who can throw themselves into such roles are usually nicer and more fun than many others). And the twist ending is still fun. But even in my teens (I think I was nearly 14 when I first saw it) it struck a chord with me as I knew the monsters were real, but they lived inside of people rather than under beds and in closets. And, as the monster said, "Maybe there's a little monster in all of us."

Heh, a little girl does a live reaction to the ending of this episode:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R9oqYf7YJlw

I also loved Eerie, Indiana when I was a kid as well, which was sort of like the X-Files for kids. The intro:
http://youtu.be/ciwcBk3hgsU?t=30s

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Ahahha lol that reminds me of how many times i let children i babysit watch horror movies and after tryed to make them belive it was made after real life story.

posted November 14, 2016 11:52 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Beautiful approach, I like .I am not a big fan of the education system either, actually just this morning I saw this brief but informative video about it:
http://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1017477254961797&id=127225910653607

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posted November 14, 2016 12:21 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
Sorry just saw this. Great Vid! It reminded me how when I was in college, I had to drop a course on slavery, (something I was extremely interested in) because of something similar happening between me and the professor. When I went to admin about it, they pretty much said if I pursued my complaint, it would be a long, not so pretty road ahead of me. So instead I simply dropped the class. Something I'll never forget where my voice was stamped down for being different from hers.

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posted November 14, 2016 05:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Hemilla:
ahaha lol i figured if they get scared enough they will not nag me to play them horrors....buuuuut,no,kids are savages xD

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posted November 15, 2016 01:55 AM            

For those who don't know, Halloween 4 ended with her apparently being the new Michael Meyers (when it came out that would be how it would appear). And she'd keep the costume and use it that Halloween while Halloween 4 was still playing at the cinema, so the little show off went door to door like this:

It apparently disturbed some who answered their doors.

posted December 07, 2016 11:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Hemilla:
btw i think i will be one of those parents that lets their children belive trolls and faries really do exist -Santa and easter bunny are real yall - i make sure children i babysit know every single fairytale and myth i even make up new fantasy creatures and all and i tell them its all true,its reality xD

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A little boy was excited over Santa coming, but his mischievous uncle said something along the lines of Christmas being cancelled as terrorists seized Santa's sleigh and crashed it into a building. Santa did not survive.

The little boy ran crying to his mother (the uncle's sister). The man was able to run, but not hide from his sister's wrath.

posted December 08, 2016 11:51 AM            

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My daughter was just trying to convince me last night that I'm such a great mom, that I make everyone happy, that I sacrifice. All I ever say is "not enough" and I'm serious about that. Well I know my deficiencies or limitations.

However I know that if I died, I would be missed. My little son told me last night that he loves me because I'm funny. He said that after asking for his teddy bear and I instructed him to use The Force. So he held out his hand and closed his eyes while I grabbed the bear and made a whooshing sound as I quickly put it in his hand. He opened his eyes and said, "I'm such a Jedi. "

I try to make the kids understand that they cannot take life as seriously as people insist, otherwise they will just crack up or be depressed. I tell them that our mission is to find sneaky secret pathways through the jungle of life...we are trying to stick on the trail of happiness.