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missblyss
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posted November 18, 2016 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sometimes I feel like my energetic patterns with men will never allow me to find love....

I have immediate attractions... but just as soon as I feel like I'm about to develop something good with someone, my attraction turns into repulsion. I am SO hot and cold, but I can't control it.

Probably doesn't help that I have mars in gemini. My feelings defy all logic. I'll have an attractive, caring, kind, dude and we'll hook up and it will be amazing. Then I see him the next day and I just feel over it. It's awful because I don't want to hurt anyone, but I can't help how I feel.

Am I just not meeting the right person??? Is this some sort of thing that will ever mellow out? I feel bad hurting these men but I can't force myself to do something that feels wrong to me...... Anyone else have this placement or experience with it?

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margym0o
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posted November 18, 2016 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by missblyss:
sometimes I feel like my energetic patterns with men will never allow me to find love....

I have immediate attractions... but just as soon as I feel like I'm about to develop something good with someone, my attraction turns into repulsion. I am SO hot and cold, but I can't control it.

Probably doesn't help that I have mars in gemini. My feelings defy all logic. I'll have an attractive, caring, kind, dude and we'll hook up and it will be amazing. Then I see him the next day and I just feel over it. It's awful because I don't want to hurt anyone, but I can't help how I feel.

Am I just not meeting the right person??? Is this some sort of thing that will ever mellow out? I feel bad hurting these men but I can't force myself to do something that feels wrong to me...... Anyone else have this placement or experience with it?


I think I've read that Venus in Aries enjoys the chase, so when you finally "win" so to speak the chase is over. It's an ego thing for Aries - the conquest. Maybe you're progressing too quickly with your suitors? Maybe let the flirting phase drag on a little longer before hooking up with them?

I think you will also require someone unique to hold your interest for very long. Someone exciting who keeps you guessing (to prolong the chase).

Venus sq. Uranus in itself is not a negative aspect when matched with an appropriate person.

I know a married couple who both each have this aspect in their natals (their birthdays are close together) and have it both ways in their synastry, PLUS in their composite! :O But they are one of the most normal, stable, "white picket fence" couples you've ever met. I think there is a high degree of friendship there as a strong base. A relationship based purely on sex or romance will not last with Venus sq. Uranus IMO.

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missblyss
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posted November 18, 2016 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by margym0o:
I think I've read that Venus in Aries enjoys the chase, so when you finally "win" so to speak the chase is over. It's an ego thing for Aries - the conquest. Maybe you're progressing too quickly with your suitors? Maybe let the flirting phase drag on a little longer before hooking up with them?

I think you will also require someone unique to hold your interest for very long. Someone exciting who keeps you guessing (to prolong the chase).

Venus sq. Uranus in itself is not a negative aspect when matched with an appropriate person.

I know a married couple who both each have this aspect in their natals (their birthdays are close together) and have it both ways in their synastry, PLUS in their composite! :O But they are one of the most normal, stable, "white picket fence" couples you've ever met. I think there is a high degree of friendship there as a strong base. A relationship based purely on sex or romance will not last with Venus sq. Uranus IMO.



yes, that is sort of how my relationship with my ex was (until it went bad of course!). He was an aquarian with venus trine uranus. I am a pisces with the square. We were first, BEST FRIENDS, with a low degree of possessiveness. I love and need to feel free. I actually never even minded if he went out all night, because I knew our friendship base was SO solid that no hookup could threaten that, so even the idea didn't threaten me!

When guys only wanna make out all the time, it feels tedious and boring to me. I want someone who I can just comfortably hangout with and not only have to hookup with... I also like someone who is enough in their own world to not become suspicious or prying.

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Ari-Sco
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posted November 19, 2016 02:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ari-Sco     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It seems like we share similar charts ... I have sun conjunct venus in aries and both square uranus in capricorn and I have mars conjuct jupiter in gemini too .

I do like chasing yes I like to choose him myself but it end up afraid they don't desire me and I noticed I'm attracted to people nobody is attracted to or weird somehow also my scorpio moon doesn't help alot because of fear of being hurt or rejected also my venus is in the 6th house not one of the favorites

but I never think that all of this means he is the wrong person or my decision is wrong .. I mean you're attractred to him for a reason just go for it this is what I usually do then the rest you will figure it out

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