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Topic: Knowing immediately that you don't like someone
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calliope23 Knowflake Posts: 215 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted November 18, 2016 09:12 PM
Does anyone else ever feel this? Whether you meet someone in-person, or see a picture of someone, or communicate via social and you're just like....ehhhhh, I don't think we will vibe ever, but feel it IMMEDIATELY? And you know with certainty. And you're right in the long run? Like you end up really just genuinely not liking that person from first impression and onward?What house would suggest this? Or an empty house? Voids? A stellium (overpowering someone/wanting to be MORE) in a certain sign? Something in detriment they hit? Many, many other explanations? I have my suspicions about my own distastes in regard to astrology/placements, but would love to know if anyone else has experience with such immediate, adverse reactions to others and what in their charts they think lends to them? IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 9052 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 18, 2016 10:21 PM
I've had that happen. I don't know that stats for one of them, but he was a sociopath. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5791 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted November 18, 2016 10:24 PM
yes, everybody feels thatIP: Logged |
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posted November 18, 2016 10:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: yes, everybody feels that
They do but...some override that instinct within themselves. My Pisces Moon friend is a great example, and I think Moon trine Saturn combined with Moon trine Neptune in a chart would do it too (guilt for perhaps feeling a certain way + the compassion Neptune provides?) IP: Logged |
Pisces Plutonian Knowflake Posts: 185 From: United States Registered: Jan 2016
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posted November 18, 2016 10:42 PM
I don't do this, but people do it to me everyday at school so maybe for me Pluto in the 3rd and Sun square Pluto
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8541 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 18, 2016 10:45 PM
The only time I can recall that happening offhand is where I believe there was a psychic reason rather than astrological. But as I didn't even get to know their names, I can't even tell you their sun sign.A guy had a really interesting story to tell. He was changing in a gym locker room when a guy walked in. He was taking his shirt off but felt a blast of hatred for the guy even without seeing him. Curious, he turned to the guy to see him glaring back hatefully at him...and he never saw him before. He checked at the front desk with a friend there and got his name, and then found out the guy worked at a prison and had been the target of more than one lawsuit over torture of prisoners (like trying to "turn a black man white" with scalding water), which was like the exactly opposite of him who defied cops and participated in underground railroads in defiance to the laws. His theory is that both of them lived their beliefs to such an extreme that their souls were firmly growing one direction or the other, and that the cause of the inexplicable mutual hatred was because their spirits recognized each other even if their bodies didn't. But as far as astrology having an affect, an astro-twin hated me on sight during the freshman year of high school (though my reputation may have been part of it). This was one way, though I certainly didn't mind giving her some crap back (to me it was more of a game, I forgot her as soon as our class was over). I later found out that my 5H Stellium was her 12H stellium, and I believe that my energy was thus perceived as threatening to her. That's my guess anyway. IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 861 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted November 19, 2016 12:10 AM
Water placements are usually very good at sniffing out if they like me, or not!IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1439 From: Plutanus Registered: Jul 2015
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posted November 19, 2016 12:18 AM
Sometimes I have met certain people with really bad vibes that I easily picked up on, making me cautious around them. Lately this hasn't been as prominent as it used to be, but it would make me wary of who I would be around and who I talked to. As for immediately disliking someone, it's usually based on the way their acting rather than a vibe I pick up from them. If they have a bad vibe, I am usually more attentive around them and am more cautious, seeing what happens here and there, but time will prove my dislike for them, or if I don't dislike them. ------------------ Scorpio Ascendant Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Check out my blog ya'll: www.electrodgxtalks.wordpress.com IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 515 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted November 19, 2016 01:36 AM
I've seen air and fire influenced people who are too trusting (getting cheated on, stolen from, lied to, etc). they get into trouble and accidents way more than water/earth people if you ask me.lots of water and earth gives the person a sort of sensitivity antenna to the surroundings. mostly because earth and water are feminine and thus receptive of the energy. and any person with lots of water in their chart, is very often psychic even if they don't know it themselves, and this ability is so intertwined within their lives that they find it surprising that others for instance can't see or feel what they clearly perceive. IP: Logged |
deja293 Newflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted November 19, 2016 01:44 AM
I've had this for someone. He was my friends boyfriend at the time, and the very first time I saw him, I just hated him. He didn't do anything or say anything. He was just walking by and I felt this sense and I immediately thought (and said) "I hate him". They broke up and he became friends with my then boyfriend and they lived together and he was a regular part of my life. We had a love/hate relationship. Where we could talk extensively about cool stuff, and then the day would go on and I end up hating him to my core again. I honestly can't for the life of me figure out what it is about him that makes me hate him. Maybe his 9th house pluto? I have sun, mercury, chiron, and a whole bunch of asteroids there, so maybe that's it? I would like to know about this, cause I haven't spoken to this guy in years and I just saw him on social media and saw red lol------------------ I'm cut in half pretty bad IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 861 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted November 19, 2016 02:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by deja293: I've had this for someone. He was my friends boyfriend at the time, and the very first time I saw him, I just hated him. He didn't do anything or say anything. He was just walking by and I felt this sense and I immediately thought (and said) "I hate him". They broke up and he became friends with my then boyfriend and they lived together and he was a regular part of my life. We had a love/hate relationship. Where we could talk extensively about cool stuff, and then the day would go on and I end up hating him to my core again. I honestly can't for the life of me figure out what it is about him that makes me hate him. Maybe his 9th house pluto? I have sun, mercury, chiron, and a whole bunch of asteroids there, so maybe that's it? I would like to know about this, cause I haven't spoken to this guy in years and I just saw him on social media and saw red lol
Maybe he's good at hiding his shadow side, but you can sense it.
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MsLeora Knowflake Posts: 34 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted November 19, 2016 02:24 AM
I have this thing with Taurus and/or Cancer women. It's always the uneasy feeling 'why don't I like you? What's underneath the surface that makes me alarmed?' I mean, I can be civil with them. But we can't get to the point of being friends or bff. The relationship always fails before it even reaches that far. I, at first, have no idea why but when I learn they're a Taurus or Cancer it's funny I'd immediately feel much better, as in a sense of 'aha I knew my instinct was right'. And I let them out of my life without looking back. I have Chiron in Taurus in 4th house. My north node is in Cancer in 6th house. I often wonder if this is the cause. IP: Logged |
deja293 Newflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted November 19, 2016 02:29 AM
Hmm that does make sense, and it's surprising cause I'm not good at feeling/sensing things (water singleton, pluto) lol. It's especially frustrating because everyone absolutely loves him (they think he's very attractive, I don't see it) and I just thought that maybe I'm a weirdo. So maybe it's when someones Pluto hits a very prominent part in your own chart that you get this feeling/sense of someone else? But you don't know why cause it's hidden, but very powerful? I also have that thing with Taurus and Cancer, but I think it's cause those are in my empty houses, and I'm very uncomfortable with/around them. IP: Logged |
Ari-Sco Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted November 19, 2016 03:27 AM
I do all the time .. even some of my friends will ask for my impression about someone they know and they will show me a pic or something and they will return and say to me even after a long time that everything I said is right and for me yes it's always working whenever I see someone.actually I do sniff many things not only that lol about the placements I think causing this hmmmm.. I have moon and pluto in scorpio 1st house mercury and NN in pisces moon in scorpio trine mercury in pisces uranus conjunct neptune neptune sextile pluto jupiter in the 8th neptune in the 3rd correct my if I'm wrong about analyzing my chart.. but about people's charts nothing specific it's mix of all charts
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BeholdAstarte Knowflake Posts: 744 From: astral plane Registered: Dec 2009
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posted November 19, 2016 04:01 AM
Every once in awhile I'll struggle to like someone, something about the person will "turn me off" and it's usually pretty immediate. I'll try to figure it out and find ways to like the person because I really just want to get a long with everyone (libra sun/Mars with Taurus rising and 7H Venus-I just wanna love) but I've learned that typically when I don't vibe with someone it's for a good reason whether I know it or not at the moment. Maybe it's subtle subconscious clues I pick up thru their behaviors and watching body language and such and the overall energy I pick up from the person. There have been plenty of times I didn't get good feelings from a person and later found out I was right about not trusting that person, my dad has his Venus conj Neptune and has a tendency to attract liars and cheats/con artists, so maybe because I grew up around a lot of strange people coming in and out of my life I'm fairly suspicious/skeptical (Venus conj Pluto myself) and I've warned him plenty of times about certain people and ended up being right despite him always having the benifit of the doubt for the person, making me doubt myself and question why I just don't vibe with certain people. Not sure where this could come from tho, I think my Venus/Pluto conj in Scorpio on DC makes me good at sniffing out the core of someone's character, I'm pretty good at seeing or sensing things about people, even if I'm not quit sure what it is exactly I can usually sense when somethings off or just how lost/negative a person is. I keep my distance from negativity big time and the more negative someone is the more I'll distance myself and in a sense, shut them out, at that point they don't exist to me anymore. I've also read before that moon contacts to Uranus can give someone intuitive insights and immediate knowing whether they like someone or not but honestly I don't know if that's true. Sometimes it could be conflicting aspects, perspectives in life, overalls vibrations from a person or maybe it even extends to a past life/karma. It's hard for me to say where my feelings come from really.. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 3997 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 19, 2016 09:27 AM
I can sniff **** from across city. Downfall in this is that I can't even do business with people I don't like and probably miss opportunities that way. I couldn't fake it even if you paid me to! My husband on the other hand can fake it so much it's sometimes hard to distinguish which freakin role he's playing....it's exhausting! IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5791 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted November 19, 2016 11:40 AM
funny that this article just popped up in my feed this morning, so i thought it was appropriate for this thread: http://www.inspireactachieve.com/consciousness/scientists-discover-that-humans-have-a-magnetic-6th-sense/ IP: Logged |
Sonkido Newflake Posts: 10 From: Somewhat over the rainbow. ^^ Registered: Aug 2016
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posted November 19, 2016 11:42 AM
This is interesting. :-DI've always kept these things on an instinctual level, as they happen. It would be interesting to see about how this transpires in astrology. I'm definitely going to follow this thread, thanks for asking this question!! ^^ <3 IP: Logged |
florence Knowflake Posts: 1304 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 19, 2016 12:44 PM
In r/l I have felt myself prickling up like a cat around Aries women. It's not so much hating as being wary and actually we've pushed through and I've liked them very much on a concrete level - it's more that ethereal level where something feels off. I think it's mutual. I've Pluto opposite Aries Mercury. My Mercury trines Neptune, Saturn and Mars so I suppose these explain why we can move through it. Pluto probably the suspicion. My Mars has some heavy squares too. I've some similar thing with Virgo men. I've nothing in Virgo. I do actually like them but feel they don't like me. Maybe I just feel inspected or criticised as i do feel looked down on. Hmm suppose both signs are connected by Mercury so I think it is Pluto. I never have that tension with scorpios - men or women. Mentioning just because they'd be a sign to provoke that reaction generally.
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florence Knowflake Posts: 1304 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 19, 2016 12:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: funny that this article just popped up in my feed this morning, so i thought it was appropriate for this thread: http://www.inspireactachieve.com/consciousness/scientists-discover-th at-humans-have-a-magnetic-6th-sense/
It's interesting about the magnetic poles which I think are supposed to have shifted and since 2012. Some say this is when some began to access another reality IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2736 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted November 19, 2016 02:24 PM
The first time I saw Glynnis McCants - the Numerologist, I thought to myself, "ohh, I don't like that woman!" Glynnis is a 3 birthday number, with a 3 lifepath. According to her, when you get that felling she guarantees it has to do with numbers.In the house I grew up there were two 3 lifepaths, two 6 lifepaths, a 9 lifepath, and me, a 5 lifepath. The 3 lifepaths were the meanest people I've ever lived with, mean to the point of cruelty. I don't know if this is the origins, or whether it's natural chemistry, but persons with the 3 lifepath (and most 3 birthdays) make me apprehensive. I could never relax and trust them completely. Glynnis was permanently dismissed after I heard her say, "I was reading an astrology description, it sounded accurate, then I realized I was reading the wrong page, kekekeke. So I don't know about that." Lies!! Funny because 3/6/9 are suppose to be compatible according to her. I blend effortlessly with 6, I'm 9. I clash with 3. So yea, the #3 in people as birthday or lifepath numbers gives me #mean #stayaway undertones. I heed those messages.
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 861 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted November 19, 2016 03:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: The first time I saw Glynnis McCants - the Numerologist, I thought to myself, "ohh, I don't like that woman!" Glynnis is a 3 birthday number, with a 3 lifepath. According to her, when you get that felling she guarantees it has to do with numbers.In the house I grew up there were two 3 lifepaths, two 6 lifepaths, a 9 lifepath, and me, a 5 lifepath. The 3 lifepaths were the meanest people I've ever lived with, mean to the point of cruelty. I don't know if this is the origins, or whether it's natural chemistry, but persons with the 3 lifepath (and most 3 birthdays) make me apprehensive. I could never relax and trust them completely. Glynnis was permanently dismissed after I heard her say, "I was reading an astrology description, it sounded accurate, then I realized I was reading the wrong page, kekekeke. So I don't know about that." Lies!! Funny because 3/6/9 are suppose to be compatible according to her. I blend effortlessly with 6, I'm 9. I clash with 3. So yea, the #3 in people as birthday or lifepath numbers gives me #mean #stayaway undertones. I heed those messages.
I find her a little aggressive for my taste.
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Nine Moderator Posts: 2736 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted November 19, 2016 04:01 PM
^^Exactly. IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 861 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted November 19, 2016 04:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: ^^Exactly.
I think I should refrain. I do like her, but I do have to turn her off, if she's on the radio, after awhile, because she can come off a little strong sometimes. I would say that I do like her, but at times I can see why someone wouldn't like her. She's an Aquarius Sun, perhaps you're not astrologically compatible with her. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2736 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted November 19, 2016 05:45 PM
I don't like her.First encounter was in the aftermath of Princess Diana's car crash. She was on some talk show crying crocodile tears saying, "her phone rang in the "British style" and she knew it was Diana trying to reach out to her. I like Diana, but I thought was bs. Second, she's a numerologist, not a psychic or medium. In my personal life I struggle with Aquarius energy, but it's never instant. I took an instant disliking to her upon seeing her face. Her lifepath number explained to me why. Wiki says, she Sagittarius. That's one of my favorite signs. IP: Logged |