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AwakenSky16
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posted November 30, 2016 08:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to hear your experiences : Thank you for lending me your "glasses"

What are/were your relational stories with people having this moon ?

For example :

- How is/was communication between you?
- What do you know about their emotions and / or how do they show them?
- how do they react to important events in their lives?
- with whom signs/moons do they agree best / least emotionally?
- Do you find these moons is a very personal one and stuck on their ideas (too)?
- How do you have your place in the relationship?
- Does this moon show any interest about you or others (except children) ?
- Are they very materialistic ? Are they only on their personnal realization in working ?
...

No criticism here. I am just trying to understand what I can observe in this moment (Through my aqua moon "glasses", which ones are certainly not the best for a taurus moon…). The communication is a big challenge for me with this one actually. Think I can’t do more, anymore. Maybe we became so differents with the time… Maybe I couldn't see it before ... (TNeptune And relationships that end ?).


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posted November 30, 2016 09:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Am married to one.

He is sensual, likes life when comfortable i.e. He wants what he wants and can get grumpy when he doesn't get it, LOVES food, loves to joke around but that might be his Aries Sun...., has deep emotions but doesn't like to talk about them too much and he HATES emotional outburst that lack logic-he will NOT listen. Last but not least: he is very, very stubborn! He will not entertain new ideas or philosophies unless they are logical and seem reasonable. He likes to talk. A lot.

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posted November 30, 2016 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ charlie:
Thank you charlie

My friend is aries also but with a asc. Cap and a big stelli in taurus (venus / mercury / saturn conj. And moon / mars conj). Maybe heavy thing plays here (saturn)...

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posted November 30, 2016 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AwakenSky16:
No criticism here. I am just trying to understand what I can observe in this moment (Through my aqua moon "glasses", which ones are certainly not the best for a Taurus moon…).

The communication is a big challenge for me with this one actually. Think I can’t do more, anymore. Maybe we became so different with the time… Maybe I couldn't see it before ... (TNeptune And relationships that end ?).


Does you Moon in Taurus friend have Ur/Ju aspects to their Moon?

Or do you have some Venus aspects to your Moon?

The sqaure Moon relationships can be bumpy because of your fundamental differences.

Taurus likes consistency and Aquarius doesn't have much of that.

Taurus likes to get personal and Aquarius doesn't do that.

Taurus likes physical contact(often) and Aquarius avoids it- equally as often

Taurus prefers alone time with the people they love. Aquarius likes group interaction.

Taurus sometimes doesn't need words to feel close. Just a deep sense of satisfaction through being in your presence.

Aquarius feels closer when there is an intellectual discussion between you two. Comparing/contrasting ideals etc. And if other people are there too, then they are happy.

When you challenge Taurus' values, they are not able to detach and see the conversation as "hypothetical". Often they can even get enraged

Aquarius enjoys mind-bending things and contradictions. Often times loving to "shake things up" and make others a lot less comfortable with "what is"

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posted November 30, 2016 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Starry~*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, my longest relationship of 8 years was with a Sag sun who had a Taurus moon.

He's pretty much a mama's boy. Loves mom, can talk for hours with mom and feels very at east with mom. Loves mom's cooking too, so any comfort food that reminds him of home will do the trick for him. He can be somewhat of a homebody..but his sag sun makes it so that when he does go out, he knows how to have a lot of fun.

He is very sensitive but will not wear it on his sleeve. Sometimes he might be a bit too "neutral" with his emotions, HOWEVER, you can count on him that he will not have feelings for anyone else once he does commit to you. It's a very slow and steady energy, when it's on the moon then his emotions are quite kept in check. He can be slow to do things and a bit lazy..but not a total deal breaker for me since I know once he wants something he WILL get it.

He doesn't let outsiders influence him and is very stubborn too. He loves attention and affection. Any physical contact - such as a rub or a nice back massage will do the trick with these ppl. Remember SENSUAL.

I am currently seeing a Scorpio who has a Taurus moon. Some similarities but can't say for sure if it's the moon I'm seeing or something else..

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posted November 30, 2016 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want to emphasize what Starry said too: SENSUAL!! And yes, likes affection and attention. What I've also noticed is that he has a hard time dealing with my Uranus aspects. They unsettle him big time! He needs comfort and a secure and stable home-despite being an Aries Sun. My husband too, doesn't let outsiders affect his "home". NO ONE that is not invited will be able to penetrate that wall. He is also not too fond of my "Capricorn moments"...BUT, since he has a Cap Mars and Taurus Moon in Cap decan and I, a Taurus SN and Cap Moon in Taurus decan, we do understand eachother on a deep level.

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posted November 30, 2016 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I loved my Taurus moon ex. A lot.

- Our communication was often perfect.

- I knew his emotions because he told me everything. He told me everything because I never judged him.

- He was usually level-headed but could get very upset sometimes, almost inconsolable. A mutual friend of ours once observed: "I feel so bad for him. His life is so ridiculously perfect, it's like he's not even entitled to be miserable."

So when something happened that actually did take him down, I think he would "make the most of it" by really harping on it for a while, even obsessing over small things. But we were young and this was just immaturity.

- I don't know which moon signs he liked best, but he considered me his best friend for several years, and I'm a Pisces moon. One of our mutual friends was also a Pisces moon. Those two are still friends.

- Did Taurus moons get stuck on their ideas? I don't know, I think they're all different, in that respect.

- How did I have my place in the relationship? I just go with the flow. So did he. So we ended up in the same streams.

- Do Taurus moons show interest in others? Yes....

- Are they materialistic? I think so, but usually they are just patiently working for things, appreciating what they have, and not really bothering anyone in the process. I think it's a healthy materialism, from what I've seen.

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posted November 30, 2016 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wanna add: I personally think a Taurus Moon works best with someone heavy on the water and I am pretty sure that had it not been for my Cancer stellium and my tendencies to "float off into universe ala Pisces), we wouldn't be together now. Generally, I don't think a Cap Moon + Taurus Moon is the best match. They need warmth. I also don't see Aqua Moon + Taurus Moon as a good match unless there's something else happening in charts.

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posted November 30, 2016 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Love Taurus Moon---kind, warm, authentic--my fave Moon in anyone lol

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posted November 30, 2016 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Aries23Degrees

- "Does you Moon in Taurus friend have Ur/Ju aspects to their Moon?
Yes, he has uranus trine moon (but large : 9°a). None to Jupiter.

- "Or do you have some Venus aspects to your Moon?"
Yes, my venus sextile my moon (-2a)

- "The sqaure Moon relationships can be bumpy because of your fundamental differences."
Yes, it does. In synastry our moon square (8°)

-"Taurus likes consistency and Aquarius doesn't have much of that."
it's depend on the subject...

-"Taurus likes to get personal and Aquarius doesn't do that."
Here is The greatest difficulty, I think...

-"Taurus likes physical contact(often) and Aquarius avoids it- equally as often"
I can't know this with him but I note He likes physical contacts but more like a child with his mother... For aqua, maybe... for me, it is really an important part of the relation because it's also about communication, sharing physical emotions and spiritual fusion in the same time.

- "Taurus prefers alone time with the people they love. Aquarius likes group interaction."
The two things are right for me too, but I need the both and then being alone sometimes.

- "Taurus sometimes doesn't need words to feel close. Just a deep sense of satisfaction through being in your presence."
OK... I observe this.

-"Aquarius feels closer when there is an intellectual discussion between you two. Comparing/contrasting ideals etc. And if other people are there too, then they are happy."
YES and also just hear the other personn and be there around with all our sense.

- "When you challenge Taurus' values, they are not able to detach and see the conversation as "hypothetical". Often they can even get enraged"
See this !

-"Aquarius enjoys mind-bending things and contradictions. Often times loving to "shake things up" and make others a lot less comfortable with "what is""
Yes just to see how interessante is the other personn is and how is he/she alive

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posted November 30, 2016 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Starry~*:
He's pretty much a mama's boy. Loves mom, can talk for hours with mom and feels very at east with mom. Loves mom's cooking too, so any comfort food that reminds him of home will do the trick for him. He can be somewhat of a homebody... (Difficult for an aqua...)

He is very sensitive but will not wear it on his sleeve. Sometimes he might be a bit too "neutral" with his emotions, HOWEVER, you can count on him that he will not have feelings for anyone else once he does commit to you. It's a very slow and steady energy, when it's on the moon then his emotions are quite kept in check. He can be slow to do things and a bit lazy..but not a total deal breaker for me since I know once he wants something he WILL get it.

He doesn't let outsiders influence him and is very stubborn too.


"He loves attention and affection". That right also, but the problem seems to be that He likes receive affection but don't give/show a sign to his, can't remember the importants days or what his friends like. He never seems to be considerate... it is very frustrating. But maybe it's not about Taurus moon...

Thank you starry !

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posted November 30, 2016 04:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ Faith and Charlie

Thank you for sharing your very nice experience about Taurus moon...

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posted December 01, 2016 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@AwakenSky16:

There are of-course many other things that contribute to the friendship between you and the Taurus being less than amicable lately.

Essentially IME Aquarius is an air sign that likes to discover new things and talk about them.

There are few Aquarius people that I have met that do not have their minds colored by possibilities,theories, abstract philosophy etc. Aries is on the 3rd house cusp of Aquarius in the solar zodiac. So it is their passion to do this.

Everyday life and the humdrum existence of "what is" is rarely their interest. In fact, many can find the everyday details of life daunting and yearn for an "other worldly" experience. One that is new and unexplored.

Very much like Pisces, but the difference being that the experience is mentally processed and revelations are filtered through the mind of reasoning.Not through the belief of some supernatural force.

There is a movie by Jodie Foster called "Contact". And to me, her character embodies Aquarius dichotomy in exploring other realms of existence to reconcile them with the subjective view of her own.

Sagittarius is also like this. But with Sagittarius,religion often gets in the way of looking at things from a strictly scientific point of view. And this is where these two often hit a sore point and find much to disagree on.

Taurus on the other hand,is very much in-love with planet earth. Just like a Taurus ex of mine said when i asked if we could go bungee jumping, "I am fine with my feet firmly planted on the ground thank you very much"

Taurus will entertain theory, philosophy etc. So long as it proves USEFUL. Not just to talk and talk and talk. For them that is a waste of energy and Taurus doesn't waste energy.

Even a Taurus with Gemini/Aries placements may seem to easily indulge in superficial excursions and silliness. But rarely are their eyes off the "security" prize. It all comes together for a defined tangible purpose in the end.

So getting Air and Earth to get on,could prove quite problematic.As one likes to explore the realms of the mind(Air) and the other is fine with exploration, so long as there is something useful to be found(Earth).

You want a better relationship with your Taurus friend? Don't change who you are in order to "salvage" what you two have.

Instead expand on the things you agree on and talk more about these.As there is a reason as why you two are friends and have been friends for so long. You have to have felt that you had many things in common.

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posted December 01, 2016 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Aries23Degrees

GREAT informations here. Thank a lot for your time I really like your observation on signs, mostly aquarius and Taurus ! Hope to read you again

In fact, He is not Taurus... My friend is a Aries 18°... BUT He has ALL his planètes (5) in Taurus (venus/mercure/saturne conj. and mars/moon conj.). I have recently discovered with astrology that I really like Taurus (my last love was and an other friend...) And the most importante persons in my life have also some planets in Taurus...
I ask myself if a large stelli like this one in a sign can change a Aries nature ? Are you Aries ?
I thought that the probleme was Moon in Taurus, but maybe not... I take a look on venus/mercure/SATURN in Taurus. Maybe it's a too heavy for enjoy and communicated together ? I still open because I accept the difference of all my friend, but really, the communication is down with the time because he become so personnal, inattentive, Communication is uninteresting: just based on the very material and He doesn't pay attention to others's feelings... So I can't do it any more.
I feel like I have always guided him, carry him, supported him but He hadn't. Since last year I needed a good friend, at my turn, but he was/is very absent (in his words, encouragement and support) even if he is stay present around.
For him, all is OK and stays being loyal to himself : he just thinks that my frustration will pass, without questioning himself! I hate that!
I spoke with him about my feelings of loneliness and that I prefer to be alone than badly accompanied, that I really wanted to give up being his friendship and he answered me : "if now I have no more support. . ."!!!!!! Really, this is not possible for me, he seems hears nothing except! I feel He always think of him but not the other... Really I don't often get angry but I am in a strong way now and very annoyed!
So I am looking to understand what happen with him in our relationship... But like I said before, maybe he stays the same and it's just my awaken (again !) and TNeptune who taken away my pink glasses and has highlighted my (so differente) aqua nature.
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posted December 01, 2016 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hemilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AwakenSky16:
I would like to hear your experiences : Thank you for lending me your "glasses"

What are/were your relational stories with people having this moon ?

For example :

- How is/was communication between you?
- What do you know about their emotions and / or how do they show them?
- how do they react to important events in their lives?
- with whom signs/moons do they agree best / least emotionally?
- Do you find these moons is a very personal one and stuck on their ideas (too)?
- How do you have your place in the relationship?
- Does this moon show any interest about you or others (except children) ?
- Are they very materialistic ? Are they only on their personnal realization in working ?
...

No criticism here. I am just trying to understand what I can observe in this moment (Through my aqua moon "glasses", which ones are certainly not the best for a taurus moon…). The communication is a big challenge for me with this one actually. Think I can’t do more, anymore. Maybe we became so differents with the time… Maybe I couldn't see it before ... (TNeptune And relationships that end ?).



Guy i know with this moon reaaaally loves money and fooood - big gourman and adores eating meat,allways complains about food and lack of - even though he stuffed himself moments ago - dosent have good relationship with mother - maybe has something to do with pluto opposing it and saturn squaring it


- communication is actually quite poor ,his moon only has one aspect in our synastry and its positive one,but...nada
- dont know much about his emotions,like his inner world , but he is expressive with his anger
- he has lots of ideas he fails to realize - because he lacks ambition
- we ignore each other
- veeeery materialistic

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posted December 01, 2016 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@PixieJane : Thank a lot to share your experience. Your storie is so rich for me
I can learn differently and have a better idea about some difficulties.

@Lerena : Thank you for yours also.
"if you're an Aquarius Moon, I think that the main conflict you would have with a Taurus Moon is not being around enough. As an Aquarius Moon, you may need a certain amount of independence, but this can clash with a Taurus Moon if they want to spend time with you." Hum... Yes... but I don't think so... I am independant but I think I give a lot to my friends, and I am around each time they're need it. With thid friend, I was there for him a lot when he needs me.

@PiscesCancerTaurus : Thank to you : I think I no longer have much questions. I begin to better understand what is or is not... But if you want to share how you feel your moon in its easy and / difficult aspects for you and others, it will be really great

Thank you so much to you all

@Aries23Degrees : I answer you soon

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posted December 01, 2016 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know a boy with this (4H), currently 14. He and I get along well, but it's more complicated with other family. While I do believe there are astrological reasons for it, I think it's more complicated than simply listing the sun and moon signs of us involved, so I won't.

It's worth noting that his Taurus moon squares his 7H Leo sun, Merc, Mars, and Jupiter. (On top of that he has an Aquarius Neptune, and ASC.) Talk about stubborn, fixed energy (the Saturn Gemini doesn't help, but his Sag Pluto does--for now, Sag is adaptable but has a tendency to become dogmatic with age)...but he can adapt, it just takes awhile (but then I've only seen him do it as a kid...).

He is affectionate, but I think that comes more from his Leo energy (just like his occasional fit which comes off as something of a roar to me, which are probably rare in part because I'm not impressed by them and will almost surely end any hope of getting whatever he wants, but it's probably more about Leonine dignity). He is generally supportive to his family and teams (from school sports to multiplayer video games), though from a somewhat self-absorbed way (in how this affects him and his image with these people). Keep in mind he's 14. I also would not call him "fake" though he worries about these things as most people do (and instinctively his survival is tied up in making the right connections and finding his place in the Tribe).

He has a tendency for enviousness. For example, I threw a theme party for his older sister, and he demanded an even bigger, more impressive one (probably his Leo at work), though this was in his pre-teen years (I expect that quality is still in him, though more restrained now).

He is very loyal, but is also very demanding of loyalty, and this is a boy who definitely sees himself as the alpha. Sometimes I think his 4H Taurus moon is about the only reason he grudgingly accepts my authority over him, though I'm reasonably sure he defied me at one point that I can't prove, and there are probably other incidents I don't know about. My helping him with what he needs to become alpha--with some strict guidelines in what I won't accept in his behavior to other people--and being supportive overall no doubt helps, and it's possible that in his mind he figures he just has to "assert my authority over the woman delicately, letting her THINK she's in charge."

I wouldn't call him overly materialistic, though he does see money as a means to an end (from status to the things he likes). He is materialistic, but not as much as many others are.

Overall, he's a good, affectionate boy, though he has his flaws and shortcomings, just as every single one of us do. It remains to be seen what kind of adult he'll be, but Linda Goodman did believe that upbringing was important (and that the stars served as a guide, not a destiny, which is why she gave plenty of advice on how to raise kids depending on their sun sign and other placements).

I fear his 8H Venus, and thinking he's going to be drawn to the wrong kind of female (and may bring out the worst in him)...and he with his fixed, stubborn energy at that. So far, so good, but I'm nervous. Assuming he masters this energy (rather than becoming a slave to it), however, he should (one day) be a very loyal and dedicated lover and husband.

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My best friend is a Taurus Moon. I'm a progressed Moon in Taurus.

How is/was communication between you? Excellent, but her Moon is conjunct my Taurus Sun.

What do you know about their emotions and / or how do they show them?
Well, she's not a robot. She definitely expresses her emotions. I think she does it in a healthy way. However, many people step all over her, and when she tries to stand up for herself because of how she feels, she just gets hated on for it.

How do they react to important events in their lives?
Depends on the event. From what I've seen, she is capable of being very happy when something good happens to her.

With whom signs/moons do they agree best / least emotionally?
I don't know.

Do you find these moons is a very personal one and stuck on their ideas (too)?
Very personal, yes. Stuck on their ideas? No.

How do you have your place in the relationship?
We're best friends. I don't know how she is romantically, but she is a Scorpio Sun.

Does this moon show any interest about you or others (except children)?
She has shown interest in others.

Are they very materialistic?
No.

And another of my friends is a Taurus Moon too. Contrary to my best friend, he has shown romantic interest in me, but I turned him down 2 times, because he isn't my type and I can tell it wouldn't work. I'd drive him nuts. Anyway, I don't know how to answer the questions based on what he's like.

We do communicate very well though. He's a very honest person. If he feels a certain way, he doesn't hide it, though I think he's able to wait until it's appropriate to display his emotions. Between the two of us, we have a Moon-Venus double whammy, but I think his Moon on my Venus wasn't tight enough for me to feel anything romantic back (the orb is 2).

Overall, from what I've noticed, they are very loyal moons.

Based on how I experience Taurus energy, they can be very stubborn, and depending on the Taurus Moon, your views might clash with theirs.

I'm not close to enough Taurus Moons to say much about what you need to know though. Still, if you're an Aquarius Moon, I think that the main conflict you would have with a Taurus Moon is not being around enough. As an Aquarius Moon, you may need a certain amount of independence, but this can clash with a Taurus Moon if they want to spend time with you.

From my experience, I seem to get along really well with Taurus Moons. This may not be the case for you. Perhaps you need a different Moon.

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posted December 01, 2016 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PiscesCancerTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Taurus moon.....you can ask me any questions you want.

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posted December 02, 2016 02:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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@Aries23Degrees

GREAT information here. Thank a lot for your time I really like your observation on signs, mostly Aquarius and Taurus ! Hope to read you again

In fact, He is not Taurus... My friend is a Aries 18°... BUT He has ALL his planets (5) in Taurus (Venus/Mercury/Saturn conj. and Mars/Moon conj.). I have recently discovered with astrology that I really like Taurus (my last love was and an other friend...) And the most important persons in my life have also some planets in Taurus...
I ask myself if a large stelli like this one in a sign can change a Aries nature ? Are you Aries ?
I thought that the problem was Moon in Taurus, but maybe not... I take a look on Venus/Mercury/Saturn in Taurus. Maybe it's a too heavy for enjoy and communicated together ? I still open because I accept the difference of all my friend, but really, the communication is down with the time because he become so personal, inattentive, Communication is uninteresting: just based on the very material and He doesn't pay attention to others feelings... So I can't do it any more.

I feel like I have always guided him, carry him, supported him but He hadn't. Since last year I needed a good friend, at my turn, but he was/is very absent (in his words, encouragement and support) even if he is stay present around.

For him, all is OK and stays being loyal to himself : he just thinks that my frustration will pass, without questioning himself! I hate that!

I spoke with him about my feelings of loneliness and that I prefer to be alone than badly accompanied, that I really wanted to give up being his friendship and he answered me : "if now I have no more support. . ."!!!!!! Really, this is not possible for me, he seems hears nothing except! I feel He always think of him but not the other... Really I don't often get angry but I am in a strong way now and very annoyed!

So I am looking to understand what happen with him in our relationship... But like I said before, maybe he stays the same and it's just my awaken (again !) and TNeptune who taken away my pink glasses and has highlighted my (so differente) aqua nature.
(soupirs)


Sun in Ari and Sun in Tau may seem the same.But are NOT really:One wants to MOVE uninterrupted(Ari) & the other wants to STAY uninterrupted (Tau).

When you talk to your Aries friend about how they make you feel,to them it translates to; "You are getting in the way of my pure self expression".

This may not be your intention at all, you just want them to gain a perspective on how they come across or what their relative relationship to you is. But that is not how Aries sees it.

Aries above all else wants and breathes personal freedom. Having Libra on the solar 7th means that they really don't understand that relationships are a two way thing. That it is as much about the other as it is about YOU. That's it is a give and take dynamic.

Some Aries learn that the freedom of expression that they treasure so much is not necessarily incompatible with the benefits they receive from being in a partnership.

The real trick with most Aries is being able to discern when the need for personal freedom and expression is best vs when the sensitivity to the interests of the other is required.

Don't talk to your Aries friend about how things make YOU feel.They will not listen

With so many Taurus placements, it is likely that this Aries will feel 'I will be who i am am. Come hell or high waters'

But if you talk to him about what he may "lose" i.e the benefits of being with you when he doesn't meet you halfway.And he sees it. Then he will make a concerted effort to develop the more relational side of him.

This is not because he is a "nice" person and genuinely cares. But because he realizes that there are certain irreplaceable gains that HE receives within the dynamic of the friendship that he just cannot live without (Taurus on the solar 2nd house cusp and the 7th house cups of Libra are both ruled by Venus which is 'gains' and 'benefits').

Aries can be very nice, very persuasive, incredibly charming and accommodating (7th)when they want to gain something from the other(2nd).

So if you you go out with your other friends one day and catch up on him with;

Aqua: "Man I had such a good time there. You should have been there friend. There is this particular spectacular scene that I know YOU would have loved so much"

Aries:"But why wasn't I invited to come along?" (concerned)

Aqua:Well, the last time you talked to Senzo, you called him a "mouse face". And he was the one who paid for the trip (Always give it to them straight.Don't mince words)

Aries: Oh come on. He took offense to that? (diverting)

Aqua: (go back to the convo)Yeah,but in any event we are going off to a dirt bike miniature riding tournament this week-end. Its sure to be awesome friend. Wish you could come.

Aries: Uhmmm (gutted)

Aqua: (nonchalant) Well, in any event I don't think he would let you call him "mouse face" again. So I think its best you stay here by yourself. I'll send you pics ...bye

Aries: Bye(sad)

When these types of conversations happen a lot and Aries starts to see the benefits of being with others and how much fun they can have. They will start working on their relating skills.Only because they want to "gain" that experience . Not that they are inherently diplomatic people

Don't feel obligated to be "there" for him.Only do it when it feels good for you to do it at your utmost convenience.

Let them know that there are other friends and other things that you are doing that don't involve them.

Go on with you life and Aries will catch up. And if they don't, it just wasn't your responsibility to keep the friendship going


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posted December 02, 2016 09:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@PixieJane : Thank a lot to share your experience. Your storie is so rich for me
I can learn differently and have a better idea about some difficulties.

@Lerena : Thank you for yours also.
"if you're an Aquarius Moon, I think that the main conflict you would have with a Taurus Moon is not being around enough. As an Aquarius Moon, you may need a certain amount of independence, but this can clash with a Taurus Moon if they want to spend time with you."
Hum... Yes... but I don't think so... I am independant but I think I give a lot to my friends, and I am around each time they're need it. With thid friend, I was there for him a lot when he needs me. Other aspect I think...

@PiscesCancerTaurus : Thank to you : I think I no longer have much questions. I begin to better understand what is or is not... But if you want to share how you feel your moon in its easy and / difficult aspects for you and others, it will be really great

Thank you so much to you all

@Aries23Degrees : I answer you soon

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posted December 02, 2016 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just know one taurus moon guy. his sun is in libra and his moon conjunct my sun. he was very easy going and we got along pretty well.

I personally don't like it when my sun aspects a guy's moon (conjunct, square, opposite, trine, any of those easily felt aspects) because somehow I feel that they project this mother image on me and demand lots of support or nurturing from me.

anyway, to answer your question, he was quite a simple guy and took life quite easy. looked for comfort (although he sometimes seemed to be acting weird about life in general, later I learned that he has moon opposite pluto and venus square pluto, a T-square of venus (leo) at the apex, square taurus moon and scorpio pluto). but with all these supposedly hard placements, he was one of the nicest guys I ever met. pretty sure he has AC in virgo. his family are very rich (not sure if old money?) and he has sun in the 2nd most probably, and moon in the 9th.

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posted December 03, 2016 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ Aries23degrees : I REALLY like your contribution !!! You seem to know so well about signs. Your interpretations are so incredibles !

Sun in Ari and Sun in Tau may seem the same.But are NOT really: One wants to MOVE uninterrupted(Ari) & the other wants to STAY uninterrupted (Tau).
- OK, good to know

When you talk to your Aries friend about how they make you feel,to them it translates to; "You are getting in the way of my pure self expression".
- Arrrrh !!!

This may not be your intention at all, you just want them to gain a perspective on how they come across or what their relative relationship to you is. But that is not how Aries sees it.
- No it’s really not. On the other hand, to say nothing to him makes me endure his actions as if everything was alright and normal and it can’t. To change things together, for my part, it is necessary to speak and if there is no answer halfway, nothing more can happen ...

Aries above all else wants and breathes personal freedom. Having Libra on the solar 7th means that they really don't understand that relationships are a two way thing. That it is as much about the other as it is about YOU. That's it is a give and take dynamic.
- Yes, that is the first major problem. I also enjoy my freedom and I am very independent, but I can put aside this to be with those I appreciate and love. I can negotiate with myself easily when I do not feel stifled and my individuality is respected, as I respect others. On the other hand, if I am disappointed, I resume my rights firmly!

Some Aries learn that the freedom of expression that they treasure so much is not necessarily incompatible with the benefits they receive from being in a partnership.
- Wait and see…

The real trick with most Aries is being able to discern when the need for personal freedom and expression is best vs when the sensitivity to the interests of the other is required.
- I think maybe he treats my emotions like his ... He once said, "When you aren’t feeling good you have to keep smiling and make an effort for others, that's what I do." I think he doesn’t like when emotions come out. It’s represent too much subjectivity for him and it’s lack objectivity. He very often has an implacable discourse of objectivity as : “if we have A + A then so we have 2A” ... Feelings and emotions are not simple like that and it speaks of a reality, strong internal belief from which Is important to consider ... We are not robots ...

Don't talk to your Aries friend about how things make YOU feel. They will not listen
- In fact, I think I have done this before, but I wasn’t in a such pain yet and now it likes to push me to support an other sort of violence : “Be kind/beautifull and shut up !”. Like I am an aqua moon, if a talk about of my emotions with a friend that because it seems really important to me, if not I don’t do this and keep it for me before to tell goodbye definitively.

With so many Taurus placements, it is likely that this Aries will feel 'I will be who i am. Come hell or high waters'
- Double layer so here ... I don’t feel to be Don Quixot here…

But if you talk to him about what he may "lose" ie the benefits of being with you when he doesn't meet you halfway And he sees it. Then he will make a concerted effort to develop the more relational side of him.
- Are Aries so basic without intuitions ?

This is not because he is a "nice" person and genuinely cares. But because he realizes that there are certain irreplaceable gains that HE receives within the dynamic of the friendship that he just cannot live without (Taurus on the solar 2nd house cusp and the 7th house cups of Libra are both ruled by Venus which is 'gains' and 'benefits').
- OK… Better to know this also… (I really like your demonstration !)

Aries can be very nice, very persuasive, incredibly charming and accommodating (7th)when they want to gain something from the other(2nd).
- He is, but I am surprised to learn that everything is about his own interest ... I should not however since I observed what it is now

So if you you go out with your other friends one day and catch up on him with;
[Your example of dialogue was here]
When these types of conversations happen a lot and Aries starts to see the benefits of being with others and how much fun they can have. They will start working on their relating skills.Only because they want to "gain" that experience . Not that they are inherently diplomatic people
Don't feel obligated to be "there" for him. Only do it when it feels good for you to do it at your utmost convenience.
- I think this is a very good example, the problem is that it seems too cruel to me ... I don’t like hurting, I would like as long as he learns without being pushed like this ... But if he continues to annoy me so, I will end up running this ... (However, if I do this, it will probably be with an end point).

Let them know that there are other friends and other things that you are doing that don't involve them.
Go on with your life and Aries will catch up. And if they don't, it just wasn't your responsibility to keep the friendship going
- Thank you very much for the time you give to me here, I really appreciate your interpretations an help

@girlwiththerainysoul : "I personally don't like it when my sun aspects a guy's moon (conjunct, square, opposite, trine, any of those easily felt aspects) because somehow I feel that they project this mother image on me and demand lots of support or nurturing from me."
- Yes I think you're right. I know I liked that before but that it can be a trap for me, I see it better now ... Have a shoulder from time to time maybe nice too ... just accept this with confidence ... I'm working on it.
I really think it's not the fault of this moon (I thought it because of moon = emotion, but it seems to be something else).
Always delighted to read you!

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posted December 03, 2016 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mztiny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Taurus moon here!

Yes, I love water people....it's a lovely place to land for me....it's safe. Yet sadly....sadly I only attract fire and air...

It's my leo Rising and Gem Sun.

oh well....maybe love will come my way.

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posted December 04, 2016 02:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mztiny:
Taurus moon here!

Yes, I love water people....it's a lovely place to land for me....it's safe. Yet sadly....sadly I only attract fire and air...

It's my leo Rising and Gem Sun.

oh well....maybe love will come my way.


Sorry to hear this Mztiny...
I have leo asc and aqua sun ... and I also have some deceptions (love or friendships with aries and gem) but don't do generalization on it, Trust in meetings and just see. As it's often said on the forum, things can be more complex than a simple placement ... How do you think the fire and air signs are not so good for your moon?
I hope you will find a little sweetness for your nice moon, maybe in the coming year ...

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