posted December 02, 2016 07:04 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
This is the only water placement I have in my chart. I feel like it makes me weak sometimes.

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posted December 02, 2016 07:08 PM            

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Originally posted by cottonball:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
[b]I have Venus square Uranus, Neptune and Saturn I'm a Taurus sun.

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posted December 02, 2016 07:24 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
This is the only water placement I have in my chart. I feel like it makes me weak sometimes.

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posted December 02, 2016 07:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Nothing in astrology is a weakness or a strength. Everything depends on what you make of yourself.

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posted December 02, 2016 07:37 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
But the orbs from my Venus to Saturn and Neptune are wide. The closet orb is the Venus square Uranus aspect.

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posted December 02, 2016 07:57 PM            

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Originally posted by cottonball:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
[b]But the orbs from my Venus to Saturn and Neptune are wide. The closet orb is the Venus square Uranus aspect.

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posted December 02, 2016 08:43 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
What is your moon @ChildofVenus? What house is your venus in?

I have venus in pisces, I may have a love-hate with this placement especially when in love.

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posted December 02, 2016 08:45 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Why does it make you feel weak?

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posted December 02, 2016 09:13 PM            

Although I am an Aquarius with mostly Air and Earth placements, I have Venus in Pisces on the 5th/6th house cusp. As a Libra rising, this Venus in Pisces also rules my chart. So, I feel this energy pretty directly and consistently.

In all honesty, it often does feel like a weakness...sometimes even a curse. Sure -- people will find you beautiful/desirable, ethereal, "soulful," and compassionate, but many will assume you're a pushover and treat you accordingly until you correct them. Overall, this placement adds so much "fogginess" (ambiguity/lack of direction/lack of confidence) to relating, which is already a complex undertaking! There's not as much direction here, which honestly drives my more direction-oriented parts crazy and leaves me feeling disadvantaged in this harsh world.

With this placement, I've noticed a few alarming themes. To other peeps who have experience with this placement, let me know if any of this resonates: Vague sense of self. Feeling like others see a warped version of you. Ambiguities in love. Feeling emotionally invaded by others easily. Guilt being a guiding force in some relationships. Desperate need to give the soulful love within to a beloved partner. Attractions that are intense, but fall apart very quickly. People attempting to take advantage.Taken people making propositions and offers to cheat. Countless secret (and not so secret) admirers. Relationships with asymmetrical levels of investment. Forbidden love interests. Predatory suitors. Courtships that involve some elements of sufferings and/or humiliation.

posted December 02, 2016 11:09 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
No, it's a beautiful Venus!

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posted December 03, 2016 02:45 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do you have this placement? If not you wouldn't understand.

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I have Mars in Pisces, and my Dad is Venus in Pisces. I have some understanding. People make comments about Gemini Venus all the time, without actually possessing one.

posted December 03, 2016 09:05 AM            

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Originally posted by RogueReader:
This is such an auspiciously-timed post! I was just feeling sorry for myself about this very thing a few days ago! How stereotypical... HAHA.

Although I am an Aquarius with mostly Air and Earth placements, I have Venus in Pisces on the 5th/6th house cusp. As a Libra rising, this Venus in Pisces also rules my chart. So, I feel this energy pretty directly and consistently.

In all honesty, it often does feel like a weakness...sometimes even a curse. Sure -- people will find you beautiful/desirable, ethereal, "soulful," and compassionate, but many will assume you're a pushover and treat you accordingly until you correct them. Overall, this placement adds so much "fogginess" (ambiguity/lack of direction/lack of confidence) to relating, which is already a complex undertaking! There's not as much direction here, which honestly drives my more direction-oriented parts crazy and leaves me feeling disadvantaged in this harsh world.

With this placement, I've noticed a few alarming themes. To other peeps who have experience with this placement, let me know if any of this resonates: Vague sense of self. Feeling like others see a warped version of you. Ambiguities in love. Feeling emotionally invaded by others easily. Guilt being a guiding force in some relationships. Desperate need to give the soulful love within to a beloved partner. Attractions that are intense, but fall apart very quickly. People attempting to take advantage.Taken people making propositions and offers to cheat. Countless secret (and not so secret) admirers. Relationships with asymmetrical levels of investment. Forbidden love interests. Predatory suitors. Courtships that involve some elements of sufferings and/or humiliation.

I could go on and on. That said, I know this placement also benefits me in a number of ways and I'm generally appreciative. But this is strictly weakness territory .

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posted December 03, 2016 11:26 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do you ever find yourself being infatuated with someone. Even when you're in a relationship with someone else? I do feel like people try to take advantage of my kindness.

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I am definitely the "long-term relationship" type (Capricorn moon), so I haven't been in many relationships to notice a pattern of being infatuated with someone else while in an established bond. However, I have been in countless scenarios where I seem to trigger this dilemma in taken/married men. It may play out this way for me because I am a woman with this venus sign, so what you described is the type of attraction I tend to attract rather than the way I operate. At least, that's how it has manifested in my life so far...

posted December 03, 2016 11:45 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
There's also been times when they have gotten boredline aggressive upon realization that he was just being nice and polite and didn't want to sleep/date them. It's been awkward at times

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THIS. Our friendliness can be mistaken for interest and people do get resentful once the fantasy is ruined. Interestingly, this tendency has often made me second-guess others' supposed interest in me, especially given all of the ambiguity, subtlety, and even secrecy involved. As a result, I feel most comfortable with indisputable statements of intention. Because I know all too well how delusions can lead to misinterpretation.

posted December 03, 2016 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by RogueReader:
I am definitely the "long-term relationship" type (Capricorn moon), so I haven't been in many relationships to notice a pattern of being infatuated with someone else while in an established bond. However, I have been in countless scenarios where I seem to trigger this dilemma in taken/married men. It may play out this way for me because I am a woman with this venus sign, so what you described is the type of attraction I tend to attract rather than the way I operate. At least, that's how it has manifested in my life so far...

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posted December 03, 2016 05:58 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Sometimes I feel like I care about people too much and I put a lot into relationships/friendships when I really like someone. It's hard for me to get over someone when I really like them. But once I'm over them I don't look at them in the same way. Sometimes the person comes back I don't know why they do. But it still doesn't matter because I no longer care for them like I once did. I don't know if that's a Venus in Pisces thing though.

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I can feel you as I feel the same way. "No longer care for them like I once did" usually comes from your fixed sign (my sun is in fixed sign too). Venus in pisces is not known of being hateful, we forgive too easily but somehow it hurts us.

Actually this venus placement can be one of the most beautiful venus you can have IF you try to own it and accept it. This venus is actually a blessed if you learn to set boundaries and constantly in reality check.