posted December 04, 2016 10:16 AM
this last year has been transformative like you wouldn't believe. frankly i don't think i would recognise myself if i looked at jan me in the mirror.beginning:
so my year kinda started last november with the saturn-neptune square with neptune exactly conjunct my natal saturn
it was hard, i started slipping into depression and i thought i hit rock bottom but turns out there was a sub basement and i found it at the end of jan/beginning of feb. my stockholm syndrome shattered and all the PTSD came out, my mind just broke and i was a marathon runner from all my problem and just everything so long but i guess even marathon runners get tired. cue about 2 months of holding myself together during the day and at night fetal position on the shower floor sobbing till my whole body ached and i was dehydrated.
during that time as well, i was frivolous with money and drink and cigarettes to try and treat the pain and guilt and just everything. i decided to get into therapy when i started covering the mirrors because i was scared i'd see the devil if i saw myself.
in march i started looking for a therapist and i started early april. it was the best decision i've ever made in my life, i reckon ill still be in therapy for the whole of 2017 and i look forward to it. worth it. but the healing i was able to get with it with EDMR and all the techniques to work through past trauma has been amazing.
i actually feel authentic.
summer:
didn't do as well with uni as i would have liked to but considering ^ i'm not beating myself up about it. the depression by now nearly gone though it had it's moments once or twice. i moved in with a flatmate which is something old me would've never been able to do because of how little she trusted anyone, i got a job, started going out. jupiter is transiting my 5th house so i've been painting and dancing and feeling like singing and just trying to express myself in more different ways that i use to do as a kid but .. well it was beaten out of me.
i read that jupiter has been getting 'cockblocked' by saturn so it's effects in virgo hasn't been that great, and i agree. it's a degree away from enter my 6th house and i've been feeling that already.
but even with the muted effects of jupiter in the 5th and saturn transiting my 7th house i met someone who is so far a great match for me. i say so far because it's still early days. i can't help but be romantic about it but they say the 5th house is the house of 'true love' so we'll see how it goes. and saturn transiting the 7th house can being either a break up or it can being a long serious relationship. its looking like these two are coming true.
fall/winter:
i got myself a steadier side hustle tutoring which is a bit on and off and i'm hoping jupiter in my 6th will help me out with that. my studies are going fine, i finally travelled out my country! and i will be doing the same for xmas this year. i'm still in therapy and i'm making progress. i tried out a martial art that i want to continue when i can and i started at the gym in november though my health has been keeping me away from it unfortunately.
there was 9th house troubles in september
money troubles in october but they worked out okay i guess
in november health problems started up and there was a cancer scare. now theres a thing about possible surgery i may have to get.
i have an exam coming up soon that i should be studying for but i'm finding it hard to focus because of how on and off sick i've been the whole of november. i'm exhausted health wise.
emotionally and mentally - fall has been rough since most of the issues that cropped up were linked to old old old stuff that i thought id be done with. so much bad information given by other people causing problems and it wasn't even during a merc retrograde!
but generally fall/winter tends to be hard on me emotionally and mentally. i basically go back into mourning but now i'm handling it a bit better.
i hope my exam will go well, i've been working really hard and my mind has been clearer than ever.
i'm looking forward to holidays but i'm nervous as well.. with my background chistmas as never been easy and last xmas i sat in my room drunk off my face sobbing.
overall:
that saturn square neptune ruled my life since it started. and during the breaks it was jupiter and mars for sure.
another key player was definately chiron in my 5th house and i reckon with jupiter expanding anything it touches it may have had an play on why i fell so fast.
other things - i had a small group of friends but as time went on during the year they started disappearing, i hope it's just saturn thats cutting out ******** , but a few that stuck on i'm happy they did.
i look forward to 2017... sorta. i guess i just hope i continue to get better.