posted December 08, 2016 11:20 AM            

My Venus is also in Capricorn sextile Pluto. Will I ever find true love? Not just another fling, but a lady who will really like me for me. I am scared of commitment and every friendship/relationship I seem to have is extremely linear. I seem to only be able to show affection through music or distant behavior, I am still very young but I'm realizing that I don't have stability in any of my relationships. People also seem to like me for my talents and looks and not my actual core self. This is beginning to bother me as I am desperately trying to begin my career in music and it has been a very rocky start. I have burnt a lot of bridges pursuing my dream and living life the way I want. I see that my Neptune/Venus aspect makes others (Venus) see me as they WANT to see me. I am often hit on, played with, deceived and idealized. It is very painful and I am truly starting to not trust anyone. Once someone gets to know me (Aqua Moon) it seems they always treat me as I'm "beta". I have to be a dick to get what I want and this is a horrible feeling, but it seems this is the only way to get respect. When I try to actually reach out and be cool I get screwed over or taken advantage of nearly every time. I am the nicest person that I know and I love humanity but not necessarily ,humans, anymore.

posted December 08, 2016 04:25 PM            

It does take time to handle these transcendent energies of the outer trans-personal planets.

Those Venus aspects show you have a lot of Love to give. Tell yourself that often, and most importantly, learn to Love and accept yourself as you are. Its an ongoing process ...

People will appreciate you for being true to yourself and following your dreams.

With Venus-Uranus-Neptune, you have an ability to apply imaginative creativity to setting up and co-creating your relational outcomes far more than you think. With a broader love of humanity (Venus-Uranus) you can take the first step towards accepting people generally. Appreciate the wide variation amongst humanity. In a detached way, noticed what stands out to you in individuals, what you like most.

Then, bring in your nightly dream life to answer questions about this and record it in a notebook you keep bedside (the Neptune part). This way you can keep up the search, but put it out of your mind daytime as taken care of. At night before sleeping take time to clear your mind and ask to be shown clearly so there is no doubt what quality or qualities you should look for in a mate. Keep at it until you have something. Be sure to also ask what quality or qualities are best for you to develop to be ready for this mate.

You know exactly where you are and contain the acorn of wisdom within you with your own answers. Timeframes, however, can be troublesome. So don't let them get you down when they seem to be formed of molasses