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saadsarah8
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posted December 09, 2016 10:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saadsarah8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello!

so I've been studying astrology for quite some time now (going on three years) and it's really changed my life in terms of how I view relationships, attraction, and compatibility.
However, there's this guy in one of my classes at university and ever since our first class, I noticed myself.. well not exactly attracted to him but definitely infatuated (I adore him even though we've never actually talked). He looks exactly like my brother, who is the centre of my universe, which is probably why I feel this tremendous amount of love towards him despite our lack of interaction.

anyway, I found out his birthday yesterday and obviously looked up his natal chart and was completely and utterly shocked!!
We have sun conjunct venus double whammy (exact!!) his mars conjuncts my sun (1.5 degrees), and my mars squares his sun.
I mean, his natal chart would be my dream pick if I ever had the chance to choose the love of my life's natal aspects and chart.

I thought I couldn't keep my eyes off of him because he resembled my brother perfectly but it turns out we have this 'perfect' synastry (I know there's no such thing, please don't go off on me haha).. but the thing is he barely notices me. I am certain he has no feelings towards me whatsoever. Not that I have any legitimate feelings or attraction towards him but the potential is DEFINITELY there for me, especially now that I know of our beautiful synastry.

so I came back here to an old post that was titled: why doesn't he notice me despite our amazing synastry'.. and most people commented that synsatry is only activated or is only important if there's already physical attraction between two people. this really confuses me because I thought that synastry was the CAUSE behind the physical attraction in the first place, it'as what brings 12 people together out of allll the possible attractions one could have with others.

what do you think? :/

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FruityLlama
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posted December 09, 2016 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruityLlama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess it would only be activated if you did interact though.
Did you also compare house overlays? Actually, did you get the birth time? I guess not if you've not interacted but anyway, house overlays are very important I've noticed in whether affection is returned or not.

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Nine
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posted December 09, 2016 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're right...The synastry will put you in the same room. Personal preference, personality and such will make magic happen.

Attraction, btw, is made between the Sun/Moon/Asc. These are the planets that must conjunct to get a person's attention.

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Randall
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posted December 09, 2016 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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