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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted December 10, 2016 05:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so, what aspects would you think in a guy's chart can show that he may prefer women to make the first move?

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posted December 10, 2016 06:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Radium     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Every guy in the world

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posted December 10, 2016 06:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Radium:
Every guy in the world

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posted December 10, 2016 06:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the complexity of all hundreds of signs overlapping ina chart, can make a man more femeinine, gay, what race he prefers, however it's like a chemical reaction level where as we can not merely look at the parts and know what will happen, it's something we could only determine in a few thousand years of study. has something to do with polarities and not sure what else.

i think also some men may encounter a gril who they feel is more powerful tahn them, and wants that girl to ask them out, meanwhile there are girls who they want to ask out who are weaker.

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posted December 10, 2016 06:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
also there's 2 types of feminity which can easily become mixed. yoru bodies level of estrogen can make a man have soft skin and smooth looks. But he may be dominant and aggressive (pick fights) depending on his personality (determined from chart).

And then there are energies which can make him feel feminine inside, his identity. This is from the chart's complex make up. polarities of signs and complexness

so a feminine guy inside can be straight easily. And vice versa.

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posted December 10, 2016 07:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Radium:
Every guy in the world

what are your placements, may I ask?

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posted December 10, 2016 07:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by soren:

i think also some men may encounter a gril who they feel is more powerful tahn them, and wants that girl to ask them out, meanwhile there are girls who they want to ask out who are weaker.

I can relate to this

although I suppose you don't mean PHYSICALLY stronger or do you? lol

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posted December 10, 2016 07:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No lol just more powerful in presence, more domineering, but the guy has a crush, the woman just seems so confident

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posted December 10, 2016 07:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Radium:
Every guy in the world

Not true lol I have ONE to prove it!
My ex boyfriend doesn't like that.
I made the first move so he could know I was insterested (I let PRETTY CLEAR) but then HE asked me out. After knowing him better I was glad that I didn't went too far

Leo sun
Gemini venus
Aquarius moon
Don't remember the mars I think is aries

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posted December 10, 2016 07:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have noticed that cardinal dominated men dislike independent/strong personality kind of women.

they have to always be in charge and the one who takes initiatives. one would think that cancer and capricorns would be more soft, but no, they can be surprisingly insecure when it comes to their masculinity and a woman must not threaten it.

lol especially cancer guys can easily freak out and turn into "fake" machos which is kind of funny to watch haha!

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posted December 10, 2016 07:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hum..I think I would love to date a cardinal guy !! I like macho man type of guy cuz I need someone to tame my capricorn sun and mars/uranus opposition.I hate to be on control.

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posted December 10, 2016 08:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by soren:
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i think also some men may encounter a gril who they feel is more powerful tahn them, and wants that girl to ask them out, meanwhile there are girls who they want to ask out who are weaker.

It depends... if the girl is more powerfull and shes a little feisty it can either attract or detract.

..It creates a reason for the guy to invest time in her... sorta like a tought project.

But..it could go the other way and she can turn into a complete liability.

Background, enviroment and culture have something to do with it to.

I had an Aqurian ask me out..I wasn't expecting that...caught me completly off guard and I'm generally pretty good at ancipating things.

I knew she was going thought a rought time and I was just being nice.. in her mind she assumed I was interested.

So she askes me to spend time with her and I'm thinking WTF? When I lived in the big city (Toronto) people where nice like that..don't read into it...jeezz whats wrong with you Ottawa people.

Same thing with a Leo I made mentioned in another thread....only diffrence is she was expecting me to ask her out, which never came.

Personally, I rather just "let things fall into place"...if you want to ask her out..you'll know when the right time is.

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posted December 10, 2016 08:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My s.o is a libra sun/virgo moon/cap asc. I expressed interest and asked if we could talk and get to know each other. He liked that. He doesn't prefer one way over another, he just likes that I was straightforward and enthusiastic (while some people see it as "desperation").

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posted December 10, 2016 08:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I got the answer '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''Aries Venus

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posted December 10, 2016 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
My s.o is a libra sun/virgo moon/cap asc. I expressed interest and asked if we could talk and get to know each other. He liked that. He doesn't prefer one way over another, he just likes that I was straightforward and enthusiastic (while some people see it as "desperation").


Very similar for me.
To me it doesn't matter if it's me or them. I've been on both sides.
Maybe it's the Virgo..?

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posted December 10, 2016 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DualGemV2:

So she askes me to spend time with her and I'm thinking WTF? When I lived in the big city (Toronto) people where nice like that..don't read into it...jeezz whats wrong with you Ottawa people.

looool

I don't know toronto or ottawa people but I find this ROFL funny


although I agree that the way a woman does this is also important. like she should first make sure that the guy is also interested, maybe chat a bit and tell him about herself and then give him her number or ask for his. not the direct "would you come to chambers" way hehe


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posted December 10, 2016 08:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I got the answer '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''Aries Venus


interesting!

my cousin is aries venus (conjunct sun and mercury) and physically kind of pretty male and I've seen women come on to him quite often. he's cancer AC and and capricon moon (conjunct saturn, uranus and neptune and square the aries stellium). he really liked my aqua sun and moon best friend who is also a cancer AC, but when she started talking about her job (which is a masculine one) I saw clearly that he lost interest. he later told me that he liked her but found her too confident?!

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posted December 10, 2016 08:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
.....continued

The Leo was something else...she likes the attention I gave her to her personaly problems.

I find out latter she had a tought time with her dad and somehow..I'm a nicer version of him.

@girlwiththerainysoul.

Was Mr. Gemini as described from my first post?

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posted December 10, 2016 08:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Aries Venus is a reversed Venus. The girls are aggressive and the guys are passive

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posted December 10, 2016 08:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
The Aries Venus is a reversed Venus. The girls are aggressive and the guys are passive


interesting! had never thought of it that way! would you say the same for scorpio venus (opposite taurus as aries is opposite libra)?

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posted December 10, 2016 08:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@dualgem

so I'm guessing you don't like to be asked out or you like certain ways to be asked out?

Mr. Gemini as you know has the scorp ac, and very few people could get close to him, but when he decided he liked someone, he made sure he could manipulate them into making the first move hehe

I have noticed the same thing (to different degrees) in pisces and cancer AC men as well.

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posted December 10, 2016 08:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DopGang:
Very similar for me.
To me it doesn't matter if it's me or them. I've been on both sides.
Maybe it's the Virgo..?

He has virgo venus/mars as well. It may very well be the Virgo. Practical, pretty flexible and in general doesn't often seek to "make a point", at least not with trivial things. I'm all like "I can ask him out if I want to, yada yada ya" - making a point. Pretty trivial, but I do it. The virgos influenced people I know are all like "Yeah man whatever works".

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posted December 10, 2016 08:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
He has virgo venus/mars as well. It may very well be the Virgo. Practical, pretty flexible and in general doesn't often seek to "make a point", at least not with trivial things. I'm all like "I can ask him out if I want to, yada yada ya" - making a point. Pretty trivial, but I do it. The virgos influenced people I know are all like "Yeah man whatever works".

Exactly!

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posted December 10, 2016 09:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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@dualgem

so I'm guessing you don't like to be asked out or you like certain ways to be asked out?

Mr. Gemini as you know has the scorp ac, and very few people could get close to him, but when he decided he liked someone, he made sure he could manipulate them into making the first move hehe

I have noticed the same thing (to different degrees) in pisces and cancer AC men as well.


Interesting...Somewhat Similar. But not exactly the same.

Not many can get under my skin either.

I try to "test" the person see how they react. I don't think i'm as manipulative as him but I generally know my odds and if the odds are more in my favour.

I wish you could get this chart one day and I will put mind up and let lindalanders spot the differences..that whould be an interesting experiment.

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posted December 10, 2016 09:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@dual

actually I thought about putting up his chart a few times but I have this strange phobia that he might secretly be into astrology (this phobia strengthened when I saw you on this forum!) and that he's somewhere reading this post about him so he'll come after me to make me pay for exposing him

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