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Enneline Knowflake Posts: 6485 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 12, 2016 06:10 PM
nordicsoul,all your stuff would be appropriate- addressed to the right person, defending the right person, placed at the right place and time. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 69823 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2016 06:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Enneline: nordicsoul,all your stuff would be appropriate- addressed to the right person, defending the right person, placed at the right place and time.
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Enneline Knowflake Posts: 6485 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 12, 2016 06:44 PM
I am allowed to have a mind on my own as every human being on this earth is allowed to have a mind on his own  I am not going to change my opinion lol IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 69823 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2016 06:45 PM
Nordic SoulDon't let the turkeys get you down. You rock  ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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FatedCinderella Knowflake Posts: 260 From: Registered: Mar 2016
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posted December 12, 2016 06:50 PM
quote: We are not mocking people, we are not even a "team", just people who happen to agree on things (and like each a lot, usually!) You make it sound like we're a mafia.
Since you have been tagging me a lot,I even forgot how many times lol when I wasn't talking to you I feel the right to do it too. You were asking if you are a bully today or yesterday and I don't think you are,not yet but you mock people, you just don't realize it.Usually you are super nice and gentle but when you think you have to "support" someone you are ironic,you keep posting applauses to things and "supporting" them,doing thibgs a bully do.That why I said "predictable" to you today.I saw you on fights here before not so much as some others. Of course your friends wouldn't tell you that.Especially if they mock people too.Anyway when I was talking about a group that keep kicking people I was not talking about YOU but other people here who did that a million times. I think you going to dislike me even more after this but I think you were concerned about being seen as a bully and that is the proof that you CARE.About people and their feelings and that is great. IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 6485 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 12, 2016 06:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Nordic SoulDon't let the turkeys get you down. You rock 
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 20334 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 12, 2016 07:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by FatedCinderella: Since you have been tagging me a lot,I even forgot how many times lol when I wasn't talking to you I feel the right to do it too.
I asked you questions, because I don't understand you. quote: Originally posted by FatedCinderella: You were asking if you are a bully today or yesterday and I don't think you are,not yet but you mock people, you just don't realize it.
Huh?
quote: Originally posted by FatedCinderella: Of course your friends wouldn't tell you that.Especially if they mock people too.Anyway when I was talking about a group that keep kicking people I was not talking about YOU but other people here who did that a million times.
My friends and I are nice. No idea who these kickers are. You're new here aren't you? Who are the kickers? IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 20334 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 12, 2016 07:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I don't think so 
Wrong person, wrong place and time would be better? LOL IP: Logged |
FatedCinderella Knowflake Posts: 260 From: Registered: Mar 2016
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posted December 12, 2016 07:21 PM
No I'm not new.Not exactly at least.What do you call new?Ive been here since january 2015 and I enter- dd register - march 2016.Any problem to be NEW anyway?The old threads keeps here to everyone see and to study too which is great.IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 20334 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 12, 2016 07:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by FatedCinderella: No I'm not new.Not exactly at least.What do you call new?Ive been here since january 2015 and I enter- dd register - march 2016.Any problem to be NEW anyway?The old threads keeps here to everyone see.
It was a question. I cannot understand who you are talking about, what you are talking about, why you are talking about it....nothing.  I genuinely am confused by you. IP: Logged |
FatedCinderella Knowflake Posts: 260 From: Registered: Mar 2016
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posted December 12, 2016 07:31 PM
I'm sorry Faith you asked people if you are a bully today or yesterday which proves that you care about people and their feelings and you don't want to be seeing as one bully which differs you from others who mock people without shame.I wanted to tell you what I see from a different perspective since we not friends and I would not sugarcoat.That's all.I'm not going to say anything anymore. I don't need to say who are the kickers Faith.They know exactly who they are! Goodnight.I will take a break.
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UrsusBlack Knowflake Posts: 232 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 12, 2016 07:38 PM
I thought we were going to shy away from unproductive threads. I thought that the original post was regretted. Ami, you have quoted me out of context and therefore my post has lost its meaning. I was in no way supporting an attack on Faith or any others who share her view. My issue has been with the methods employed. Yours included. You have been kind to me, but that does not mean I support you in this. I'm sorry. Do not twist my meaning and rope me into this game. It's embarrassing. I'm going to go back to posting in the actual astrology threads, so if you address this I won't see. ------------------ AC: Sagittarius Sun: Scorpio in the 11th Moon: Scorpio in the 11th IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1313 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 13, 2016 05:51 AM
Faith, This mock was not toward you!!! I am going to write one more time in the hope that this help to solve the issue. I hope you can perceive the energy through this post and realize that my intentions are sincere. I want to go over the chronology of events as I perceive them and wish you read it entirely before reacting to it.1. There is a history with Ami for several reasons. Some people are upset because she put wrong information in the chart. It seems she had done that a couple of times and this situation is enraging some people. On top, her political views are controversial. For these reason and many other that scape my understanding, some people have decided that they will be checking her post for accuracy. Since some other people are deeply offended by her political views which seems to be extremist right wing, some others joined the protest. a. To this background scenario I would say the in my opinion (respect the right to dissent) there are more professional ways to address the issue. A good example was the recent thread about the quality of the discussion material and how to make Lindaland more professional. Some may argue that without the fight this would have never happened. It may be, as people are tired of fighting and are eager for solutions. With regards to Ami political views, I also think that the issue should be addressed in a similar professional way. The netiquette or any other professional mechanism. Some have argue that this won’t happen because Randal won’t do anything. If this is a problem with the website itself, then I don’t know. In any case I would try the formals channels and if they do not work, then to bring an open discussion like in the thread I referring. Or something similar. b. In my view thread that discuss astrological content should keep on doing that. I understand if someone come to question the false charts, it is part of the astrological discussion. It seems that people get annoyed because they point that the charts are false and Ami does not apologize. Again, if that avenue does not work, it should be another creative way to solve it. Making fun of her is not one and if you want someone to apologize and make fun of them, then you trigger the defense in a person. So I have never seen this method work. c. Bottom line with this background, I do see the reasons people get upset, but I criticize the method to solve the problem. 2. When I saw in several threads the discussion with Ami was personal, I noticed that some people were making fun of Ami. I found this horrible and made my comments in that long thread about the ascendant. Everything would have died there if I would have observed any respect for dissenting opinions. Instead, people were accused of not liking the truth, to be friends of Ami and worst words can be found in LeeLo comments. So not only Ami was being mocked, but people who dare to dissent with the METHOD were dismissed. Because there were so many people supporting that method, I decided to create my own thread with my view. You may think but why to mock? Well, probably because I was angry at the way I see dissenting opinions were treated. Then I thought, if they cannot respect discent, then lets show them in a mock how they look from an outsider (me). They look like an inquisitor and that explains the mock thread. 3. If you follow the timeline of comments you may realize that after I noticed you linked my thread into that discussion, I realized that you thought I was attacking you. I wrote here that I would not address any non-astrological content and promise to ignore any thread or comments not related to astrology. I apologized to those I have offended and for me was the end. This thread have died there. And I was not making comments to any of the other threads going on about the issue. 4. Then I realized a comment from Violet bringing information about Ami, and I felt the need to let her know that it was not about Ami, but about any person being humiliated that I was defending. And wanted to make clear that even if all the claims against Ami were correct, I did not find appropriate to make fun of her. If you look carefully to that replay you will notice that I said that with my mocking post I was part of what I was criticizing. I acknowledge that I did the same I was criticizing. So you are correct in pointing this out. I did do exactly as the group of people I was criticizing. I was making fun of something I considered ridicule. Then you are right, I could have written the same thread exposing my opinion without mocking. If it serves to those concerned, I do not plan to mock anything I do not like anymore. I will bring my concerns in a respectful way. 5. Then came LeeLo post and the evidence of the provocation speaks louder. She got the reponse she deserved and I have no regret. I am done with her. I just do not fall for her trap. No matter how hard she try. 6. Then you came to insult me. When you did that you did not notice that I had post two comments on that thread even If I have said it here before in response to Teasel. So you read the thread or not? Because if you did not, why do you feel offended? I will assume that you really did not see my post before. I will assume that you really did not know I post two comments in that forum so as to have an excuse to play the victim. So, I am not passive aggressive any more, but still I did something nasty. OK I admit my guilt. I am guilty of mocking what I consider intolerant behaviour and I promise not to mock anymore behaviours I consider ridicule. On another note, here is where I see the source of misunderstanding. You think this thread was about you. It was not about you. There were about 4-5 people making comments that I found intolerant. So I create a mock of the intolerant behaviour. It was not toward Faith or particular person but toward any intolerant comment I saw in that and contemporary threads. I thought that if people could see how ridicule looked to be so fanatic they would do a self-awareness check and take the hint. Actually I thought it was not going to be so obvious. I thought the “teaching” was going to be non-humiliating so everybody could get the hint without being exposed. I thought that whoever could see themselves reflected in that mock would say to himself “wow, do I look like that?”. I thought it would be a good way to show how outsiders could perceive that behavior. It backfired and I was sorry about that. I felt sorry to have offended anybody with my mock. I wanted to shake, but not to humiliate. I already said that in this thread. To your questions about evidence of torture. As I said, in a mock you exaggerate things to make a point across. I do feel that the defense of victims is a flag used to harass Ami or get rid of her. Evidence? I believe that in the Ami case it is personal. It is not about you defending victims. It is about you having a problem with her. Of course, many other people having problem with her will support you. I know she is a controversial figure in this site and will have many people supporting the cause, but that does not make the point untrue. The fact that many people have problems with Ami does not mean that you are not using the defence of the victims as a flag for your personal problems with her. I do only have evidence in the opposite direction. If you were worried about victims, you would stand for all of them, not only Ami’s victims. Why don’t you go to that thread again and look at the dismissive and very offensive comments made to people dissenting with the METHOD?. Looks for example at any single comments made from LeeLo to any dissenting opinion. Would you stand up for these victims of verbal abuse, would you? Rhetorical question. These people did not say anything offensive, but she verbally abused them. So, when you show that your values are consistent with what you preach, then I will be the first to believe that it is not personal with Ami. Do I believe you care for victims? I do, do I believe that in this instance your attitude goes beyond the victim protection and become a personal battle with Ami? I do. If I ever discover that I was wrong I will be the first to apologize in public to anybody. I have no problem apologizing, but it is hard for me to not see this situation as a personal battle until proved otherwise. To the implication of a mafia, yes, I do think there is a “mafia” with people coming to the rescue of any person they have in their friend’s circle. That is OK. People has the right to defend their friends no matter what. Some friends are so loyal that defend even criminals because they are their friends. But it is not up to me to lecture how to behave with friends. I have my own principles and I am not planning to impose them on others. An example of the mafia is all the rescuer coming to this thread. Except for one or two, the rest are part of the team. So, why to hide what is so obvious to any careful observer? Rhetorical question For me this entire issue is past. I will not look at any response and will not post anything. I will post only in astrology discussion. If I noticed something that bothers me I will behave responsible. I will not mock anybody. I know there will be the compulsion to answer back and forth. I will refrain from that and if anybody wants to continue this discussion, I will not be part of it. We have reached a point where people have different views of a problem and how to solve it. We will not agree in many things and we do not need to. Respect for differences is also a good agreement. Otherwise, voice are raised, mistakes are made and things escalate to unimaginable proportions. Faith I called you fanatical. I think you are, but still, I consider you a brilliant person and a good source of insights in this community. I would still read post of yours associated to astrology and spider lane. You called me passive-aggressive and hypocritical and that is ok. For me this is in the past. It someone wants to continue a war, I will not eco the invitation. Again, I apologize to have hurt people with the mock not only to Faith (because it was not toward Faith). I do not apologize to LeeLo as I own every single words I said to her. I am done here. If Randall can close this thread, would appreciate it. NS IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18534 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted December 13, 2016 07:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: Faith, This mock was not toward you!!! I am going to write one more time in the hope that this help to solve the issue. I hope you can perceive the energy through this post and realize that my intentions are sincere. I want to go over the chronology of events as I perceive them and wish you read it entirely before reacting to it.1. There is a history with Ami for several reasons. Some people are upset because she put wrong information in the chart. It seems she had done that a couple of times and this situation is enraging some people. On top, her political views are controversial. For these reason and many other that scape my understanding, some people have decided that they will be checking her post for accuracy. Since some other people are deeply offended by her political views which seems to be extremist right wing, some others joined the protest. a. To this background scenario I would say the in my opinion (respect the right to dissent) there are more professional ways to address the issue. A good example was the recent thread about the quality of the discussion material and how to make Lindaland more professional. Some may argue that without the fight this would have never happened. It may be, as people are tired of fighting and are eager for solutions. With regards to Ami political views, I also think that the issue should be addressed in a similar professional way. The netiquette or any other professional mechanism. Some have argue that this won’t happen because Randal won’t do anything. If this is a problem with the website itself, then I don’t know. In any case I would try the formals channels and if they do not work, then to bring an open discussion like in the thread I referring. Or something similar. b. In my view thread that discuss astrological content should keep on doing that. I understand if someone come to question the false charts, it is part of the astrological discussion. It seems that people get annoyed because they point that the charts are false and Ami does not apologize. Again, if that avenue does not work, it should be another creative way to solve it. Making fun of her is not one and if you want someone to apologize and make fun of them, then you trigger the defense in a person. So I have never seen this method work. c. Bottom line with this background, I do see the reasons people get upset, but I criticize the method to solve the problem. 2. When I saw in several threads the discussion with Ami was personal, I noticed that some people were making fun of Ami. I found this horrible and made my comments in that long thread about the ascendant. Everything would have died there if I would have observed any respect for dissenting opinions. Instead, people were accused of not liking the truth, to be friends of Ami and worst words can be found in LeeLo comments. So not only Ami was being mocked, but people who dare to dissent with the METHOD were dismissed. Because there were so many people supporting that method, I decided to create my own thread with my view. You may think but why to mock? Well, probably because I was angry at the way I see dissenting opinions were treated. Then I thought, if they cannot respect discent, then lets show them in a mock how they look from an outsider (me). They look like an inquisitor and that explains the mock thread. 3. If you follow the timeline of comments you may realize that after I noticed you linked my thread into that discussion, I realized that you thought I was attacking you. I wrote here that I would not address any non-astrological content and promise to ignore any thread or comments not related to astrology. I apologized to those I have offended and for me was the end. This thread have died there. And I was not making comments to any of the other threads going on about the issue. 4. Then I realized a comment from Violet bringing information about Ami, and I felt the need to let her know that it was not about Ami, but about any person being humiliated that I was defending. And wanted to make clear that even if all the claims against Ami were correct, I did not find appropriate to make fun of her. If you look carefully to that replay you will notice that I said that with my mocking post I was part of what I was criticizing. I acknowledge that I did the same I was criticizing. So you are correct in pointing this out. I did do exactly as the group of people I was criticizing. I was making fun of something I considered ridicule. Then you are right, I could have written the same thread exposing my opinion without mocking. If it serves to those concerned, I do not plan to mock anything I do not like anymore. I will bring my concerns in a respectful way. 5. Then came LeeLo post and the evidence of the provocation speaks louder. She got the reponse she deserved and I have no regret. I am done with her. I just do not fall for her trap. No matter how hard she try. 6. Then you came to insult me. When you did that you did not notice that I had post two comments on that thread even If I have said it here before in response to Teasel. So you read the thread or not? Because if you did not, why do you feel offended? I will assume that you really did not see my post before. I will assume that you really did not know I post two comments in that forum so as to have an excuse to play the victim. So, I am not passive aggressive any more, but still I did something nasty. OK I admit my guilt. I am guilty of mocking what I consider intolerant behaviour and I promise not to mock anymore behaviours I consider ridicule. On another note, here is where I see the source of misunderstanding. You think this thread was about you. It was not about you. There were about 4-5 people making comments that I found intolerant. So I create a mock of the intolerant behaviour. It was not toward Faith or particular person but toward any intolerant comment I saw in that and contemporary threads. I thought that if people could see how ridicule looked to be so fanatic they would do a self-awareness check and take the hint. Actually I thought it was not going to be so obvious. I thought the “teaching” was going to be non-humiliating so everybody could get the hint without being exposed. I thought that whoever could see themselves reflected in that mock would say to himself “wow, do I look like that?”. I thought it would be a good way to show how outsiders could perceive that behavior. It backfired and I was sorry about that. I felt sorry to have offended anybody with my mock. I wanted to shake, but not to humiliate. I already said that in this thread. To your questions about evidence of torture. As I said, in a mock you exaggerate things to make a point across. I do feel that the defense of victims is a flag used to harass Ami or get rid of her. Evidence? I believe that in the Ami case it is personal. It is not about you defending victims. It is about you having a problem with her. Of course, many other people having problem with her will support you. I know she is a controversial figure in this site and will have many people supporting the cause, but that does not make the point untrue. The fact that many people have problems with Ami does not mean that you are not using the defence of the victims as a flag for your personal problems with her. I do only have evidence in the opposite direction. If you were worried about victims, you would stand for all of them, not only Ami’s victims. Why don’t you go to that thread again and look at the dismissive and very offensive comments made to people dissenting with the METHOD?. Looks for example at any single comments made from LeeLo to any dissenting opinion. Would you stand up for these victims of verbal abuse, would you? Rhetorical question. These people did not say anything offensive, but she verbally abused them. So, when you show that your values are consistent with what you preach, then I will be the first to believe that it is not personal with Ami. Do I believe you care for victims? I do, do I believe that in this instance your attitude goes beyond the victim protection and become a personal battle with Ami? I do. If I ever discover that I was wrong I will be the first to apologize in public to anybody. I have no problem apologizing, but it is hard for me to not see this situation as a personal battle until proved otherwise. To the implication of a mafia, yes, I do think there is a “mafia” with people coming to the rescue of any person they have in their friend’s circle. That is OK. People has the right to defend their friends no matter what. Some friends are so loyal that defend even criminals because they are their friends. But it is not up to me to lecture how to behave with friends. I have my own principles and I am not planning to impose them on others. An example of the mafia is all the rescuer coming to this thread. Except for one or two, the rest are part of the team. So, why to hide what is so obvious to any careful observer? Rhetorical question For me this entire issue is past. I will not look at any response and will not post anything. I will post only in astrology discussion. If I noticed something that bothers me I will behave responsible. I will not mock anybody. I know there will be the compulsion to answer back and forth. I will refrain from that and if anybody wants to continue this discussion, I will not be part of it. We have reached a point where people have different views of a problem and how to solve it. We will not agree in many things and we do not need to. Respect for differences is also a good agreement. Otherwise, voice are raised, mistakes are made and things escalate to unimaginable proportions. Faith I called you fanatical. I think you are, but still, I consider you a brilliant person and a good source of insights in this community. I would still read post of yours associated to astrology and spider lane. You called me passive-aggressive and hypocritical and that is ok. For me this is in the past. It someone wants to continue a war, I will not eco the invitation. Again, I apologize to have hurt people with the mock not only to Faith (because it was not toward Faith). I do not apologize to LeeLo as I own every single words I said to her. I am done here. If Randall can close this thread, would appreciate it. NS
Oh boy...so it was a mistake to ignore this thread till page 2, this "I am a coward and a hypocrite and I can't stand it, please let the others be the villains, I can't stand people being mocked so I go make a huge mocking thread" hysteria continues In this case... ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18534 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted December 13, 2016 07:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: I could not agree more with this. probably, even making this mock was not a good idea. sometimes you think you want to shock to bring awareness, but then all backfired. this is my uranus-mercury (blame on him) who likes to shock people. Anyway, I apologize if I have hurt anybody with this thread. my intention was to shock, but under any circumstances I wanted to humiliate anybody. As I said previously, I respect many of the people I am disagreeing. I have followed many of their posts and like their astrological insights. I suspect the better way to keep this forum on track is to avoid sideline talk. once a thread lost track of astrological content, the best thing is to shy away. the less people get into that trap, the more we have content discussion. When we see a thread with 200 comments, wow! it must be good. then you realize is a fighting ring. what about just leaving the thread the moment it start losing focus. otherwise, we are becoming part of the problem. we are keeping the fight alive! from now on, I will shy away from any unproductive thread. the second it start becoming personal, i will withdraw even from reading.. that way the fight lose momentum.. that is for tonight.
Apology not accepted. Because of this: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Please, sweats, don't try this with me. Too late. Let me tell you what is meh for me. Adults who don't know interfering in a conflict with mockery/dismissivenness is rude and unproductive. Adults with their behind in two boats. Leeches who use a conflict to stand out personally. And the transparent attempt to mask cowardice and opportunism with " make love not war". In a conflict of fundamental ethical principles, one takes a side or shuts up. Take yours or go entertain yourself. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18534 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted December 13, 2016 07:28 AM
and because of this
quote: Originally posted by Violets: Duly noted, you're entitled to your opinions. I'm entitled to mine. We have the right to express our opinions.
I don't see the use of this thread anymore, since its sole purpose was and is a focus on personal insults. Perhaps it should be closed.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 69823 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 13, 2016 08:33 AM
In a conflict of fundamental ethical principles, one takes a side or shuts up.VERY nice. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 20334 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 13, 2016 08:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: [b]In a conflict of fundamental ethical principles, one takes a side or shuts up.VERY nice. [/B]
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 69823 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 13, 2016 08:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: Faith, This mock was not toward you!!! I am going to write one more time in the hope that this help to solve the issue. I hope you can perceive the energy through this post and realize that my intentions are sincere. I want to go over the chronology of events as I perceive them and wish you read it entirely before reacting to it.1. There is a history with Ami for several reasons. Some people are upset because she put wrong information in the chart. It seems she had done that a couple of times and this situation is enraging some people. On top, her political views are controversial. For these reason and many other that scape my understanding, some people have decided that they will be checking her post for accuracy. Since some other people are deeply offended by her political views which seems to be extremist right wing, some others joined the protest. a. To this background scenario I would say the in my opinion (respect the right to dissent) there are more professional ways to address the issue. A good example was the recent thread about the quality of the discussion material and how to make Lindaland more professional. Some may argue that without the fight this would have never happened. It may be, as people are tired of fighting and are eager for solutions. With regards to Ami political views, I also think that the issue should be addressed in a similar professional way. The netiquette or any other professional mechanism. Some have argue that this won’t happen because Randal won’t do anything. If this is a problem with the website itself, then I don’t know. In any case I would try the formals channels and if they do not work, then to bring an open discussion like in the thread I referring. Or something similar. b. In my view thread that discuss astrological content should keep on doing that. I understand if someone come to question the false charts, it is part of the astrological discussion. It seems that people get annoyed because they point that the charts are false and Ami does not apologize. Again, if that avenue does not work, it should be another creative way to solve it. Making fun of her is not one and if you want someone to apologize and make fun of them, then you trigger the defense in a person. So I have never seen this method work. c. Bottom line with this background, I do see the reasons people get upset, but I criticize the method to solve the problem. 2. When I saw in several threads the discussion with Ami was personal, I noticed that some people were making fun of Ami. I found this horrible and made my comments in that long thread about the ascendant. Everything would have died there if I would have observed any respect for dissenting opinions. Instead, people were accused of not liking the truth, to be friends of Ami and worst words can be found in LeeLo comments. So not only Ami was being mocked, but people who dare to dissent with the METHOD were dismissed. Because there were so many people supporting that method, I decided to create my own thread with my view. You may think but why to mock? Well, probably because I was angry at the way I see dissenting opinions were treated. Then I thought, if they cannot respect discent, then lets show them in a mock how they look from an outsider (me). They look like an inquisitor and that explains the mock thread. 3. If you follow the timeline of comments you may realize that after I noticed you linked my thread into that discussion, I realized that you thought I was attacking you. I wrote here that I would not address any non-astrological content and promise to ignore any thread or comments not related to astrology. I apologized to those I have offended and for me was the end. This thread have died there. And I was not making comments to any of the other threads going on about the issue. 4. Then I realized a comment from Violet bringing information about Ami, and I felt the need to let her know that it was not about Ami, but about any person being humiliated that I was defending. And wanted to make clear that even if all the claims against Ami were correct, I did not find appropriate to make fun of her. If you look carefully to that replay you will notice that I said that with my mocking post I was part of what I was criticizing. I acknowledge that I did the same I was criticizing. So you are correct in pointing this out. I did do exactly as the group of people I was criticizing. I was making fun of something I considered ridicule. Then you are right, I could have written the same thread exposing my opinion without mocking. If it serves to those concerned, I do not plan to mock anything I do not like anymore. I will bring my concerns in a respectful way. 5. Then came LeeLo post and the evidence of the provocation speaks louder. She got the reponse she deserved and I have no regret. I am done with her. I just do not fall for her trap. No matter how hard she try. 6. Then you came to insult me. When you did that you did not notice that I had post two comments on that thread even If I have said it here before in response to Teasel. So you read the thread or not? Because if you did not, why do you feel offended? I will assume that you really did not see my post before. I will assume that you really did not know I post two comments in that forum so as to have an excuse to play the victim. So, I am not passive aggressive any more, but still I did something nasty. OK I admit my guilt. I am guilty of mocking what I consider intolerant behaviour and I promise not to mock anymore behaviours I consider ridicule. On another note, here is where I see the source of misunderstanding. You think this thread was about you. It was not about you. There were about 4-5 people making comments that I found intolerant. So I create a mock of the intolerant behaviour. It was not toward Faith or particular person but toward any intolerant comment I saw in that and contemporary threads. I thought that if people could see how ridicule looked to be so fanatic they would do a self-awareness check and take the hint. Actually I thought it was not going to be so obvious. I thought the “teaching” was going to be non-humiliating so everybody could get the hint without being exposed. I thought that whoever could see themselves reflected in that mock would say to himself “wow, do I look like that?”. I thought it would be a good way to show how outsiders could perceive that behavior. It backfired and I was sorry about that. I felt sorry to have offended anybody with my mock. I wanted to shake, but not to humiliate. I already said that in this thread. To your questions about evidence of torture. As I said, in a mock you exaggerate things to make a point across. I do feel that the defense of victims is a flag used to harass Ami or get rid of her. Evidence? I believe that in the Ami case it is personal. It is not about you defending victims. It is about you having a problem with her. Of course, many other people having problem with her will support you. I know she is a controversial figure in this site and will have many people supporting the cause, but that does not make the point untrue. The fact that many people have problems with Ami does not mean that you are not using the defence of the victims as a flag for your personal problems with her. I do only have evidence in the opposite direction. If you were worried about victims, you would stand for all of them, not only Ami’s victims. Why don’t you go to that thread again and look at the dismissive and very offensive comments made to people dissenting with the METHOD?. Looks for example at any single comments made from LeeLo to any dissenting opinion. Would you stand up for these victims of verbal abuse, would you? Rhetorical question. These people did not say anything offensive, but she verbally abused them. So, when you show that your values are consistent with what you preach, then I will be the first to believe that it is not personal with Ami. Do I believe you care for victims? I do, do I believe that in this instance your attitude goes beyond the victim protection and become a personal battle with Ami? I do. If I ever discover that I was wrong I will be the first to apologize in public to anybody. I have no problem apologizing, but it is hard for me to not see this situation as a personal battle until proved otherwise. To the implication of a mafia, yes, I do think there is a “mafia” with people coming to the rescue of any person they have in their friend’s circle. That is OK. People has the right to defend their friends no matter what. Some friends are so loyal that defend even criminals because they are their friends. But it is not up to me to lecture how to behave with friends. I have my own principles and I am not planning to impose them on others. An example of the mafia is all the rescuer coming to this thread. Except for one or two, the rest are part of the team. So, why to hide what is so obvious to any careful observer? Rhetorical question For me this entire issue is past. I will not look at any response and will not post anything. I will post only in astrology discussion. If I noticed something that bothers me I will behave responsible. I will not mock anybody. I know there will be the compulsion to answer back and forth. I will refrain from that and if anybody wants to continue this discussion, I will not be part of it. We have reached a point where people have different views of a problem and how to solve it. We will not agree in many things and we do not need to. Respect for differences is also a good agreement. Otherwise, voice are raised, mistakes are made and things escalate to unimaginable proportions. Faith I called you fanatical. I think you are, but still, I consider you a brilliant person and a good source of insights in this community. I would still read post of yours associated to astrology and spider lane. You called me passive-aggressive and hypocritical and that is ok. For me this is in the past. It someone wants to continue a war, I will not eco the invitation. Again, I apologize to have hurt people with the mock not only to Faith (because it was not toward Faith). I do not apologize to LeeLo as I own every single words I said to her. I am done here. If Randall can close this thread, would appreciate it. NS
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 20334 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 13, 2016 08:39 AM
quote: You think this thread was about you. It was not about you. There were about 4-5 people making comments that I found intolerant. So I create a mock of the intolerant behaviour. It was not toward Faith or particular person but toward any intolerant comment I saw in that and contemporary threads.
Not about me.....but about me. Gee and I wonder how many people reading thought it was not about me in the slightest? Good job being all mysteriously accusative and stuff. I'm not often sarcastic. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 20334 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 13, 2016 08:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Perhaps it should be closed.
That would be nice but I think nordicsoul might want to write more of this book of criticism that's not ABOUT me, but inspired by me, directed towards me, and occasionally mentions me by name. Waiting for the next chapter. PS Thanks, as always.  IP: Logged | |