posted December 18, 2016 09:02 AM            

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Originally posted by headintheclouds91:
I am sick of hearing depressing bad things about this influence so i am wondering what are some good things about having a hard venus pluto aspect in a natal chart?

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I would like to know !

Really I ask me what others think they see and feel when they look and fall hard for our venus/pluto

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Venus/vesta 5th sag. square pluto
Pluto trine sun, sext.Mars & Jupiter

posted December 18, 2016 09:54 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Its the vibe. One of my friend has the Sun-Venus-Pluto conjunction in Sag. My friend finds her plain-looking but I've also had acquintances who asked me her name to find her on fb. I find it difficult to describe her looks, I would not call her pretty, beautiful or ugly, does not even have what is called a "good figure", nowhere near close. But she definitely has something going on, she just seems very comfortable in her skin, that to me is sexy.

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I think that's pretty much it.

People either like the vibe, or they don't.

But it's strong and unusual and deep, so it does seem to evoke either like or dislike, not much in-between?

Just suspecting here. I agree with what you've said, though. Basically. It's a vibe thing.

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Venusian types are not attracted to me, lol. Hardly ever. Not only do I have the opposition, but I also have Pluto in 3rd, so if they're looking for someone to speak politely and not get to the guts of the matter, they're definitely barking up the wrong tree.
And any appeal that I hold is generally not Venusian at all, from what I can gather.

posted December 18, 2016 10:02 AM            

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Originally posted by TensionEmpire:
i guess pluto aspects rule the world

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Well, duh.

posted December 18, 2016 10:39 AM            

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Originally posted by TensionEmpire:
they have the urge to live love to its core
maybe this is sexy
maybe it is painfull

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posted December 18, 2016 11:04 AM            

I sometimes appreciate this placement for these things, and other times find it to be an annoyance that I constantly have to be mindful of.

But overall, it definitely adds magnetism and appeal.

posted December 18, 2016 02:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Violets:
To answer the title question, we are raw, sexual people. There is not much pretense being offered up, although we may guard our secrets closely. There is tremendous intensity, which is appealing to some people, and overwhelming for others.

I sometimes appreciate this placement for these things, and other times find it to be an annoyance that I constantly have to be mindful of.

But overall, it definitely adds magnetism and appeal.

Hope more people have stuff to offer here. I know what I like and don't like about having the placement, and the positives and negatives when it comes to attracting people or not.

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I can honestly say that I repel way more than I attract. This has got to be one of my least favourite aspects (Venus/Pluto square). And what's worse, is that my Venus is in the 1st; so my struggles are for everyone to see.

posted December 18, 2016 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by MarsSaturnDelight:

I think the conjunction, trine and sextile are more favourable aspects that facilitate the 'magnetism' characteristic, in this instance. There's so much disconnect with the square which gives rise to internal struggle, and therefore this projects to the world.

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posted December 18, 2016 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by headintheclouds91:

I don`t agree with this bc i have the square and i have attracted men from all ages but it is usually desperate men that will almost go for anything lol. I have even attracted a few women too but again it is the more desperate types.

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Hm...
I don't tend to attract men I find unattractive (or women). Occasionally this happens, but it's more often a clash of style or thought for me (like I don't care for their fashion sense or taste in music, or their thought process in general).

Usually, as I have Venus in Aries, I'm the one who understands that I am attracted, and I move forward with that. If a friend (as in ONLY my friend) is attracted to me for more, I generally ignore it. This has actually created some hostility from said friends in my life, and so I went my own way from them.

posted December 18, 2016 03:20 PM            

Obviously, we all can attract people we find unattractive, it happens. I think I just choose to either ignore it, or I don't notice it if we're not friends or around each other often enough.

posted December 18, 2016 03:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Violets:
^^ I have to take back some of that.

Obviously, we all can attract people we find unattractive, it happens. I think I just choose to either ignore it, or I don't notice it if we're not friends or around each other often enough.

So yeah, there have been some gross people I'v had to really go out of my way to ignore, but I think that's true for everyone, isn't it?

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posted December 18, 2016 03:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
They seem like they want to get to know you completely. Maybe some of it is motivated by distrust, all the questions...but that doesn't matter, if you're a person who enjoys having someone pay very close attention to you. Even just the look in their eyes can be penetrating, like they are trying to see everything.

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posted December 18, 2016 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by headintheclouds91:

Haha i was about to say that i know you are hot so i don`t believe that you don`t attract unattractive people to you, hehe But yes i bet that arian side of you helps you get rid off creeps or unwanted attention effortlessly sometimes hehe.

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Omg, that made me blush and then that Pluto kicked in and I was like "...is she being sarcastic?"

posted December 18, 2016 04:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Violets:
Omg, that made me blush and then that Pluto kicked in and I was like "...is she being sarcastic?"

Well, you're hot too, lol. Some like our brand of hotness, some don't. Their loss!

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posted December 18, 2016 06:13 PM            

A couple of famous people I happen to love who are clearly thought of as sexy, and have Venus/Pluto aspects. (Not to stereotype myself as a person who worships Kurt Cobain, but I do love him...as I do lots of musicians.)

Eva Green (whose role in Penny Dreadful reminds me wholeheartedly of a Pluto/Venus person) has the trine, and Kurt Cobain had the opposition. I'll have to think of more as I find them. No one can accuse them of not being sought after!