posted December 27, 2016 10:44 AM            

I also resonate with Pisces as it is my venus sign in love. How about you? For the sun it is also accurate though, at least for me.

Zodiac signs actually play an important role in determining the kind of person you should be with. Compatibility and same thinking are two things that enable two people to hit it off the moment they meet.

Here is a list of reasons why you might end up with the wrong person according to your zodiac sign:

ARIES

are adventurous and spontaneous. They tend to go with people who are just as same and at the start it works quite well. But as the time passes both the partners want to be the alpha and it does not work out. Aries should go with people who are completely opposite to them like Pisces so that they can have that momentarily break from all the highness and excitement.

Dating your opposite actually works very well and it is like fitting two pieces of a puzzle together. This is because life requires some break as well and when it comes to taking important and serious decisions then you need someone besides you to hold your hand and smoothly take you across the other side of the tunnel without creating any mess or chaos.

TAURUS

Taurus are stubborn people. If you are a Taurus and your gut tells you that this person is not right for you then you will go for it with double enthusiasm because you are too stubborn to back down. Taurus just want to make everything and everyone right and according to their choice. So they often end up with the wrong person because they spend all their time and energy modifying their partner that they hardly enjoy the relationship.

They should go with someone who is easy going and accepts whatever they say without much difficulty because that is the only way Taurus can actually stay happy. It does not mean that they need pushovers, it just means that Taurus likes it when there is no one to challenge them on their intelligence and judgement.

So they should find someone who gets all fascinated by their wisdom and hold on to them through any situation without any question.

GEMINI

Gemini are too sensitive about their feelings. They are very social and can interact with others but often say the wrong things at inappropriate timings. If you are a Gemini then as soon as someone tries to get close to you, you will chase them off because no one is supposed to enter that stony exterior except yourself. You think that if someone will get too close they will hurt you and more often than not you end with people who are shallow and have no regard for your feelings so that hurts you anyway.

Gemini should be with someone who has a lot of tolerance and is determine to make things work between you two because that’s the only way you can work it out with someone without having to look for a new relationship every other day.

CANCER

Cancer are very nurturing people and they like to take care of others. What they do not realize is that they need to be taken care of as well and often end up with people who just want all the attention for themselves. The relationship starts off very well and if you are a cancer it will all go very smooth for a few couple of weeks when you take care of everything.

But it starts going downhill after a while because the other person gets so used to the extra attention that they forget that they need to take care of you too. So you need to find someone who knows how to keep it balanced between getting and giving the attention. Cancer can be a very good partner to someone who is equally sensitive and nurturing.

LEO

Leos are naturally born leaders and want everything to happen their way. They tend to get attracted towards someone who instantly says yes to everything that they say. In the start it all feels nice because everything is happening according to their will but as the time passes they start getting bored because there is no more excitement left.

Leos are very energetic and they need entertainment at all times so if they find someone who just does everything they say there is no real excitement there. Leos should be with someone who can stand their ground and can say no when they are supposed to say no. There is nothing more exciting for a Leo to find their equal and take it as a challenge for the rest of their life because that would be entertaining enough.

VIRGO

Virgos are thinkers. So they need someone who is a very good listener and is there for them when they really need to talk their heart out. But they often end up with someone who is easy going and the kind who is always in a chill mood. This is because they think that if they are so serious they should end up with someone who is a lot more fun than them which is not right. Virgos are usually quiet people and like to stay near those who talk sensible things rather than going crazy over the smallest of things.

They need someone who can give solid advice at the time of crisis and can handle anything without losing their control. The worst part is that being a Virgo you become an overthinker and end up the exactly opposite and in this case it hardly ever works because there is absolutely no compatibility.

LIBRA

Libras have charming personalities and often end up with people who just go for their appearances. You need to understand that you are much deeper than that and you need to date someone who does not just praise you all day even if you are not looking all that good.

While it seems so interesting that your partner can’t keep their eyes off you all the time but Libras should end up with someone who has the guts to point out if there is something wrong with you as well.

This hardly ever happens because people think that to stick up to a Libra you have to just praise them all the time and that is not true. They actually take criticism in a very good manner and there is always a spot open for improvement. So if you are a Libra go for someone who has a mind to keep you on track rather than get lost with you on the road.

SCORPIO

Scorpios can seem insensitive at times but that is not always true. They have their own world and so many things are going on their imaginary world that they forget to come to the real one. They often end up with unassertive partners and this leads to them taking the wrong decisions.

Scorpios need to be someone who can take charge sometimes and call the shots because Scorpios are often lost in their tiny world and do not know what is going around them. Scorpios also like their independence and they do not like anybody to boss around them.

The perfect match for Scorpios is either cancer or Pisces because they two zodiac signs are the most considerate and sensitive of all and they surely can understand the psyche of Scorpios.

SAGITTARIUS

Sagittarius are very lively people. They are always full of joy and excitement and get attracted to people with similar traits. It usually works very well but when all the fun and games end and it is time for some serious advice then there is no one to do that. So a Sagittarius should go for someone who is as lively and fun-loving as them but also has the right mind to stick up to them in the hard times without dulling the moment. Sagittarius hardly ever want to just sit around and do nothing.

They should find partners who love to travel and explore and do all kinds of crazy stuff without caring about others. A relationship between a Leo and Sagittarius can actually work really well because the compatibility is hard to ignore and they match perfectly to each other’s needs.

CAPRICORN

Capricorn are very independent people and like to stay isolated most of the times. They tend to get attracted towards introverts but the relationship goes with 0 speed as both the partners do not know what to do after a while. So you should date someone who is easy going, understanding and has the capability of taking you along to their pace and making you open up to new experiences without invading your privacy.

Someone who dates a Capricorn needs to have a lot of patience and if you end up with someone who does not have much tolerance then your relationship can go south way sooner than you would expect it to be.

AQUARIUS

Aquarians try to stay away from emotions and feelings as much as possible. They like to date people who take things slow and very seldom it happens that they end up committed soon. They need to be someone who can hold on to you when you have the urge to run away if you feel like things are going way too serious than you had expected.

You need to find the kind of person who will always find you out of your hiding place and never let you go because only then you can find something permanent. But Aquarians often end up with people who are as fragile as themselves and more often or not they end up getting hurt and broken up.

PISCES

Pisces are the dreamers. They like to help anybody and everybody and people usually sense it. So all the manipulative ones out there tend to “fall for you” and make you do all those things that you just have to do because you cannot say no. so you need to find someone who loves for who you are and not what you can do for them because literally you can anything for the one you love and there is no need for proof because it really is true.

But you end up with people who take advantage of you and keep you as an option that will always come in handy when the “others” are busy.

posted December 28, 2016 02:35 AM            

My future spouse is someone who allows me the freedom to be me. But also is sensitive and in touch with their feelings.

Mostly this is the case with all the people I date-regardless of sign. But the reason it doesn't last much is because I have intimacy issues

The universe in my experience does not attract that which I like.But attracts that which I have the least resistance/ indifferent to.

Most of my exes are not really my "type": At first blush I thought them too different from me and wrote them off.Some others I didn't even notice had any interest in me at all.

But all are extremely loving,caring people.So I wouldn't say that I hook up with the "wrong" people per se.I just haven't learned enough about me to know what I want from anyone.