posted December 27, 2016 03:36 PM            

if anything you should focus on your own personal lackings that you want to improve, but you'll naturally want to do that without thinking of them.

posted December 27, 2016 03:38 PM            

like for leo if disregarding the node, you naturally want more spot light attention, more powerful meaning and animousity, and desire to be generous and be a great person who others look up to, then that is strangely exactly like the NN (perhaps from the NN who knows)

posted December 27, 2016 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
what would be interesting though is if your own personal lackings were in direct alignment with your NN sign.

like for leo if disregarding the node, you naturally want more spot light attention, more powerful meaning and animousity, and desire to be generous and be a great person who others look up to, then that is strangely exactly like the NN (perhaps from the NN who knows)

in that case it would be a good discussion.

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Soren,

This makes a lot of sense! I do have the desire to be known and looked up to. I am extremely generous, almost to a fault. And I am trying to get more comfortable "putting myself out there". So I guess I am living out the nn a little ?

posted December 27, 2016 04:17 PM            

No problem

You should ask what is your own personal things you think you want to imrpove on.

And then focus on how to achieve them.

I think i said the word "achieve" because I have cap N.N. I think capricorn if anything is the sign of physical achievement, or achieving anything that has value to it.

posted December 27, 2016 04:25 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
Yup that sounds like it.

No problem

You should ask what is your own personal things you think you want to imrpove on.

And then focus on how to achieve them.

I think i said the word "achieve" because I have cap N.N. I think capricorn if anything is the sign of physical achievement, or achieving anything that has value to it.

Cap=Achievement

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Lol about achievement and cap NN. Makes perfect sense.

As far as me, I definitely am working on self love and self care. I've got giving it to others down, but have really struggled with giving myself that same level of care that I give others. I've realized that in not taking the most care of myself, I became too depleted to care for others. And I'm working really hard on that !!!!

I know it's working because my family always just expects me to take care of everything and now I say "sure once i finish xyz, if I have time I will do it". Lol. I can feel their jaws drop but they won't dare call me out because even doing that , I'm still always doing for others!

Ha I think I just got it: take care of others but only after you make sure you are straight. ( you meaning me obviously )

posted December 27, 2016 04:40 PM            

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posted December 27, 2016 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
Buy a lion for a pet.

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posted December 27, 2016 04:52 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Oh yes that was my plan for 2017! How did you know ?

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Dump all your friends, offend all of them! South Node in Aquarus and all.

posted December 27, 2016 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
Dump all your friends, offend all of them! South Node in Aquarus and all.

Just kidding!

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All kidding aside- I like my "eccentricity" that the aquarian SN brings. I also have a very diverse taste in friends. I have friends from all Walks of life. If I had to pick one trait about myself that I love, it would be the rawness of my heart, if that makes sense. I truly love people. I always try and see the best in people, but I tend to be attracted towards independent and eccentric types. Those that are not afraid to go against the grain.

posted December 27, 2016 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
my best trait is the deep care

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posted December 27, 2016 05:13 PM            

The North Node is definitely within you and always has been. It's just the more unappreciated side of you, while you relish your South Node a lot more. the North Node is not that much of a stretch. You just have to stop doubting it and just do it. Just do whatever the sign requires you to do and you'll realize you're actually really good at it. But, if you keep seeing the NN as this really difficult feat, it'll keep being a struggle.

With North Node in Leo, you are a lot more creative, passionate, expressive, and leadership-oriented than you may realize. You have to dig deep to understand and access this part of yourself. It's why I think of it as your "true potential" because it's what you can be amazingly good at but you just haven't taken the time to acknowledge it, appreciate it, or develop it.

So, you should really take the time to work on your outlets of self-expression and your ability to take center stage. If you make this a top priority, you will discover that it's been a hidden power within that you can now take advantage of.

posted December 28, 2016 12:52 AM            

it's something good to see because people are starting to question their life and purpose

for me I had a similar theme before in my early 20s but the struggle was cause I have NN in pisces and I already have pisces palcements in the chart with a total void of virgo only SN so I was swinging between the two so it was not totally different from my type but which way works better should I go this way or that way but now (and by the way I'm having a reversed nodal return right now) whenever I'm having this conversation with myself or in doubt I choose pisces and forget it and in the end it ends up better for me and I still think I have alot to unfold

posted December 28, 2016 01:40 AM            

I guess I just don't have much doubt about my NN because I am an Aquarius Rising, same sign as my NN (the NN is in the 1st but not conjunct). It feels much easier for me and not like this major struggle. It is a life-defining balancing act though.

The only things I really have to work on are not being so dramatic, not needing everything to go according to my will, and making more of a difference through various causes. Otherwise, I feel like I live up to my Aquarius NN quite easily. And even with those aforementioned issues, I have made a lot of progress with them in the past couple of years.

So, you're right. Depending on the chart, there is a certain "learning curve" with the NN and we all understand it at different stages and speeds. I don't see it as some difficult mountain to climb. But, maybe that's just me.

posted December 28, 2016 02:49 AM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Yeah, you have a point.

I guess I just don't have much doubt about my NN because I am an Aquarius Rising, same sign as my NN (the NN is in the 1st but not conjunct). It feels much easier for me and not like this major struggle. It is a life-defining balancing act though.

The only things I really have to work on are not being so dramatic, not needing everything to go according to my will, and making more of a difference through various causes. Otherwise, I feel like I live up to my Aquarius NN quite easily. And even with those aforementioned issues, I have made a lot of progress with them in the past couple of years.

So, you're right. Depending on the chart, there is a certain "learning curve" with the NN and we all understand it at different stages and speeds. I don't see it as some difficult mountain to climb. But, maybe that's just me.

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posted December 28, 2016 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
well you can express yourself pretty boldly online, i say that is a pretty daring leap in itself. much like a sag NN, not to mention you are disclosing information (truths) which is what sag is all about.

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Intellectually, I am bold( 4 personal planet in the 9th) BUT going places like long distance travel and doing adventurous things is what is hard for me, S.

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