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colorful butterfly
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posted December 31, 2016 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is there anything in persons chart that would create an attraction for this? Sad part is , as scary as it should be I blow it off. Such as I had a guy who I knew just seeing around every now and then to catfish me one day just so he could get to know me, I finally got him to tell me who he was and since I knew him , I just let it go like oh, ok. Thing is , I draw this type of energy. Such as people putting things on your phone, at first I thought I was losing it but then I looked up a news air piece that says although it is breaking the law, it is becoming more popular for people to do.

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PixieJane
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posted December 31, 2016 01:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When people are attracted to it (as plenty are) then it's not called stalking anymore (even when it is), save in the most extreme cases (or like where someone wants attention and say goes hiding with friends or family but makes sure the stalker knows where to find him/her in the hopes they come out to stir up more drama with witnesses so people are talking, and I'm not going to include those engineering fake incidents of it as that has no genuine attraction to being stalked but is a strategy to achieve something by ruining someone else).

Also, some people only like stalking in fantasies (and media exploiting that fantasy), but that's not the same thing as liking stalking because a stalker (unlike a fantasy, including a fantasy of a stalker) can't be controlled and thus ruins the attraction, which means stalking isn't actually enjoyed by the said person, even if said person sighs wistfully over bestsellers and blockbusters featuring stalking in a romantic context.

But I've drawn that kind of attention as well. I get conflicting reports on how normal it is, and given how subjective a lot of these terms are (or how different words are used depending on how a person feels about it) it's hard to say. Plenty of people see me as admirable or evil, and I suppose the stalking (and related behavior) is something similar, like the guy who was sure I was his soul mate who only needed to "convince" me, while other stuff is rougher that I no longer feel like talking about.

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colorful butterfly
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posted December 31, 2016 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have pluto conjunct my moon in the first house in libra and my progressed moon is in Scorpio. I wander if this has something to do with it also my progressed ascendant is about to go into scorpio, that ought to be great.

I don't find stalking attractive by no means , I don't understand it and like why???

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Gemini30
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posted December 31, 2016 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini30     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's people who crave attention that like/love stalkers.

I wonder if any Leo dominant people find stalkers attractive? lol

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colorful butterfly
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posted January 02, 2017 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think I miss worded this, what would be in a persons chart that would attract stalker like people to them?

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Nine
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posted January 02, 2017 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would guess people who attract attention effortlessly. People with a certain star quality, but in day to day life.

You enter a room and all eyes are on you. You try to say something and everyone gets quiet. The sort of person who everyone expects to do or say something either to follow their lead or make fun of them.

How did you find out someone put a bug on your phone? How did the manage that?

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colorful butterfly
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posted January 03, 2017 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nine:
I would guess people who attract attention effortlessly. People with a certain star quality, but in day to day life.

You enter a room and all eyes are on you. You try to say something and everyone gets quiet. The sort of person who everyone expects to do or say something either to follow their lead or make fun of them.

How did you find out someone put a bug on your phone? How did the manage that?


I was dating this guy that gave it away to me early on in our relationship. At first I thought I was losing it but I just kept adding up things to let me know I won't crazy. After about 200 to 1000, I realized something is on my phone and very well still could be. I just don't like things held over my head very well and will shake it off very quickly. So I let it be known I know what was going on and that if I was smart enough to figure it out , then I am smart enough to know to screen myself. I explained that I am not a threat but if it is going to affect things in my life and that I hold dear we would have some issues. I haven't had too many issues since. You can look it up on youtube , cell phone bugs and how common they are.

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