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Topic: Scorpio driving me crazy. Help!
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coffeetime
Knowflake Posts: 145
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted January 05, 2017 08:11 AM
  
The scorpio man driving me crazy. We've been hanging out for half a year and he still hadn't made a first move! Although he looks at me this sweet kind of way and tries to be as close to me and also touches me on occasion. And blushes around me a lot! And trusts me. He even said that (while drunk, lol). Also, I in one party I danced with another guy, so the next day scorp guy was really angry and didn't want to talk with me. Go figure, we're not even together, he has no right to be jealous  So he is scorp sun, virgo moon, scorp mercury, venus libra and mars virgo. How to figure his behaviour out? Is there a way for me to make him move faster? Can I somehow fasten things up? IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 725
From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted January 05, 2017 03:25 PM
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Originally posted by coffeetime:
The scorpio man driving me crazy. We've been hanging out for half a year and he still hadn't made a first move! Although he looks at me this sweet kind of way and tries to be as close to me and also touches me on occasion. And blushes around me a lot! And trusts me. He even said that (while drunk, lol). Also, I in one party I danced with another guy, so the next day scorp guy was really angry and didn't want to talk with me. Go figure, we're not even together, he has no right to be jealous So he is scorp sun, virgo moon, scorp mercury, venus libra and mars virgo. How to figure his behaviour out? Is there a way for me to make him move faster? Can I somehow fasten things up?
If it were me, I would just ask him why he was mad? Whither he admitted it or not, I would be like well if it's because of the other guy, although I am really into you, you don't ask me out or to be more serious with you? How am I suppose to know? IP: Logged |
Einfühlung
Knowflake Posts: 419
From: Lily of The Valley
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 05, 2017 03:48 PM
There's tons of possible reasons why he would be mad. Some people get jealous if they really like someone, some don't. He's could be the former. And maybe he thought you were into him too but after knowing that you were with the other guy made him think you were leading him on. Probably his views of you were shattered after that happened. Probably thinks you're not the type of girl he thought you were.I agree with Colorful Butterfly. It's better to be upfront about it. Plus it's a faster way to get things going. And maybe instead of waiting for him to make a move, you should make one.  IP: Logged |
coffeetime
Knowflake Posts: 145
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted January 05, 2017 04:13 PM
there was a party few days ago and my guy friend kissed me. the scorp wasn't there, but if he would know that... there would be no way he would show even a slightest liking towards me. i blame myself just a little bit, but then again... i'm absolutely free, i can do whatever i want without having to explain to some other guys who do NOTHING.although, i fear i might be interpreting him wrong. he's too serious type for me, i could sound childish if i said that i liked him... i've done many wrong things, including dances and kisses and ignorance at times, but that all was just because of confusion. so, saying it up to him would be strange. maybe he really views me not the same... maybe i've been just too friendly and charming for everyone. but he did just the same with other girls. the last time we were together he acted really distant not only towards me, but from other people also. when i tried to make a conversation, he didn't respond well, just wore his smile for a moment and then got himself busy with something else. although, he seemed flattered when i hugged him goodbye, maybe he didn't expect that. i noticed that he seems happy if i hug him. but he doesn't do that first anymore (oh, there were times when i could have been SURE he was into me). i don't know how to deal with scorpios like that. of course i could just say it straight away, but i don't have the guts. and sticking to him is draining for me, because his actions are unreadable and might be interpreted in two sides. not sure if my intuition is right or i just really want to believe that he feels the same.. IP: Logged |
coffeetime
Knowflake Posts: 145
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted January 05, 2017 04:30 PM
and just a little facts behind the 'dancing with other guy' story:i've made myself availabale so that scorp could come to me. he didn't. and well, we all got drunk. the other guy was faster and i didn't have a proper reason to turn his offer down. i really lost track of time and although we stood really close and were flirting and touching everywhere, i THOUGHT about scorp! when we separated for a while i saw scorp was holding some other girl in his hands. i mean, what a f...? so i got really depressed, this was all it took for me to feel bad. i thought he just wasn't into me. other way, why would he dance this way with another girl? and later on it hit me. maybe he did that because he was angry? or thought that i'm not interested? but sorry, why should i ask him for a dance? yeah, some guys are shy, but he wasn't shy towards the other girl, so argument is invalid. and for the end - the jealousy that springed out the other day at work. the girl he danced with seemed to be interested in him, but he didn't respond. he was hella mad that day. didn't talk much to anyone. when i wanted to talk to him, he looked at me like he would just blurt out some swear words in front of my face. and when he talked (bussines talk) with the guy i danced with, he stood so still it looked as if something's going to explode soon. and his eyes. they were threatening, like knifes! so i understood he might be jealous. and givent the fact that he might be into me..all fell into place. but now i'm not sure. maybe it was some other reason.. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 725
From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted January 07, 2017 07:42 PM
Sounds like some type of game he is playing. I would just ask him, at least to save yourself some mental anguish. He's not worth it if he isn't going to be anything to you outside of a friend and doesn't sound like a real friend either because a real friend would want you happy. Let him be mad. I've dated guys like this, they just got issues. They won't be anything but they don't want you being with anyone else either.
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