posted January 06, 2017 11:01 PM            

I have those doubts about people sometimes. In fact, right now, I was thinking along similar lines about someone. I feel ya.

Generally, I am an advocate of "when in *doubt*, it's a no"
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Not giving that as blanket advice.
I will take a look at the synastries when this gets moved (coz comments will get locked out).

posted January 06, 2017 11:28 PM            

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Originally posted by vertiver:
The links don't work.

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posted January 06, 2017 11:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
I think this might get moved to Interpersonal (because the question involves synastry).

I have those doubts about people sometimes. In fact, right now, I was thinking along similar lines about someone. I feel ya.

Generally, I am an advocate of "when in *doubt*, it's a no"
--BUT--
Not giving that as blanket advice.
I will take a look at the synastries when this gets moved (coz comments will get locked out).

You might try removing the "s" from https and putting the link between [IMG] and [/IMG] - then it'll be displayed here as an image.

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posted January 07, 2017 05:28 AM            

I experienced this 6 months ago, a older man who was obsessed with me and his Pluto was square my natal Venus and I felt uneasy and was relieved to break things off.

posted January 07, 2017 10:44 AM            

I believe it is a combination of Pisces Asc, keeping secrets from others brings them pleasure. Though very romantic.

Venus in Gemini. Sun conj Venus should make him charming, and agreeable. However, Geminis with Venus in Gemini are the least stable in relationships, they are the stereotypical "easily bored" ones who are always on the look out for something else.

From the pSynastry his pMoon is moving to conjunct your Asc - which is THE attraction aspect. This will become active in about four months time. For sure I'd say he is very attracted to you.

Currently his pMoon is in Scorpio this demotes his emotions are very intense, this could be what you're picking up. Once his moon moves into Sagittarius he will lighten up and become more laid back. However, Sagittarius is a traveling sign so that influence may prod him to move or travel abroad.

Another thing, if you can wait for his moon to enter Sagittarius before giving him an answer. One thing I've observed with Moon-Asc/Sun aspects is it could be the beginning or the end of an affair. If you're coming together for the first time during a Moon-Asc influence it often marks the beginning of something. However, if you've known each other before this influence it could either mark the end, as the moon person feels they could make a better connection elsewhere, or moving things to a hight more serious level in an already establish connection.

Another thing, his numerology numbers shows the #6 is very strong. Generally 6 is the number of responsibility, they tend to keep and honor their responsibilities and commitments.

Pisces Asc w/ Venus in Gemini would also make me anxious.

Verdict: This synastry has "legs" Don't agree to anything now. Give him time [five months or so] and space to prove himself.

posted January 07, 2017 11:49 AM            

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posted January 07, 2017 05:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Follow your gut feeling.

I believe it is a combination of Pisces Asc, keeping secrets from others brings them pleasure. Though very romantic.

Venus in Gemini. Sun conj Venus should make him charming, and agreeable. However, Geminis with Venus in Gemini are the least stable in relationships, they are the stereotypical "easily bored" ones who are always on the look out for something else.

From the pSynastry his pMoon is moving to conjunct your Asc - which is THE attraction aspect. This will become active in about four months time. For sure I'd say he is very attracted to you.

Currently his pMoon is in Scorpio this demotes his emotions are very intense, this could be what you're picking up. Once his moon moves into Sagittarius he will lighten up and become more laid back. However, Sagittarius is a traveling sign so that influence may prod him to move or travel abroad.

Another thing, if you can wait for his moon to enter Sagittarius before giving him an answer. One thing I've observed with Moon-Asc/Sun aspects is it could be the beginning or the end of an affair. If you're coming together for the first time during a Moon-Asc influence it often marks the beginning of something. However, if you've known each other before this influence it could either mark the end, as the moon person feels they could make a better connection elsewhere, or moving things to a hight more serious level in an already establish connection.

Another thing, his numerology numbers shows the #6 is very strong. Generally 6 is the number of responsibility, they tend to keep and honor their responsibilities and commitments.

Pisces Asc w/ Venus in Gemini would also make me anxious.

Verdict: This synastry has "legs" Don't agree to anything now. Give him time [five months or so] and space to prove himself.

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Oh wow, thank you for this response! Alright, so I'm gonna explain why I'm very in and out of this one.

Yes, you're right that he was not very faithful in relationships. He said it himself. He said that he had a ton of relationships and he's not proud of that. What baffled me is that he admitted he wasn't very committed in his past. And he really look dismayed and said that he was tired of playing games. He ACTUALLY told me he wanted me to be his "partner in life". When he said that I was really taken aback, because we've only known each other for a while and he wants to marry me! Yes, my first reaction wasn't very pleasant at all haha because it was all going too fast, even for a mars person like me. But I appreciated how he answers my every question about his past love affairs without holding back, he's really open about that I could tell you.

I actually can't put my finger on why I feel so drawn to him, like I feel some kind of responsibility towards him. Physically, I find his face repulsive (and I used to give very high importance to physicality but now I don't know). Sorry if I sounded so shallow, I, too, hate this part of me. Romantically, I feel NOTHING for him. Yeah! That's the confusing part. I only gave him permission to pursue me because I see a slight potential to him AND that I liked some of his personality as a friend. But Sexually really takes the cake, guy couldn't please me even if he tried. I feel so frustrated. I really do feel sorry for him, he tried his best though and I appreciate that.

He's really just the first guy to actually go out on a limb for me. He's actually struggling financially now yet he still treats me from time to time. He never fails to message me every day. He actually went to my house one time late at night because I was craving food and he delivered it right to my doorstep. I feel so wanted whenever I'm with him.

This would all suck if it were a love game and I got caught in it. Would it be right to consider his efforts and shocking honesty?

posted January 07, 2017 05:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You would need some of the asteroids like Bilk, Lie, Pinochio(sp) and others that can show bad intent, my Friend.

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Ooh, fascinating. So should they aspect personal planets in order to be relevant? I'm gonna check this one later! Thank you ☺️

posted January 07, 2017 05:56 PM            

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posted January 07, 2017 05:58 PM            

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Originally posted by vertiver:
It looks like his Pluto is opposite your Venus, that aspect is a little creepy - and he is older, gives a obsessive predatory vibe.

I experienced this 6 months ago, a older man who was obsessed with me and his Pluto was square my natal Venus and I felt uneasy and was relieved to break things off.

And like babybull82, posted, yes your gut instincts are right. Go with them, and he is a Gemini sun conjunct Venus - seems untrustworthy to me.

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The Pluto opp Venus I have that with a lot of people so I tend to take it with a grain of salt. The Gemini Sun/Venus though haha, you're so right about that though I would hate to judge someone on sign placements alone. I'm a Sun/Mars in Aries yet I wouldn't call myself a warfreak lol! ;-) Thank you for the advice, though. His other sign placements are also sketchy so I'm keeping my wits up

posted January 07, 2017 06:03 PM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Honestly when in doubt trust your gut and watch his actions instead of words, but just by initially looking at synastry, he doesn't put anything in your 12th and by YOU having Pluto in the 12th natally I think you're probably just suspicious by nature. His Jupiter hitting that Pluto in your 12th is also probably amplifying it by like 10.

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posted January 07, 2017 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If HIS Bilk conjuncts your personal planets or angles, I would really watch it, for example. The same goes for Lie and several other asteroids of a similar nature, my Friend.

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posted January 07, 2017 06:19 PM            

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posted January 07, 2017 06:26 PM            

Gemini is the sign of communication. Generally they talk freely and openly with almost anyone. Because he has all those planets in Gemini, I won't take his disclosures as a sign of genuine interest. Geminis love to share personal info.

Pisces, like Virgo is also a sign of service thus will service your needs when aroused. However, unlike Virgo, Pisces has a magic where they can capture your imagination - whatever your ideal may be Pisces will mirror that image back at you. Then you're left feeling the Pisces person embodies all the qualities of your ideal.

If this describes your case chances are high you aren't seeing this person clearly. Or, they are projecting a false image, albeit, intentionally.

With Venus in Taurus, I'm not a risk taker in the love department. Unless I was looking for a fling I would give him time, end of school year, to prove himself. This because of the Pisces & Gemini and my experience with them.

posted January 07, 2017 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
I'm hardly the best judge of character, I have been fooled before. However, I would advise you to give him more time to prove himself.

Gemini is the sign of communication. Generally they talk freely and openly with almost anyone. Because he has all those planets in Gemini, I won't take his disclosures as a sign of genuine interest. Geminis love to share personal info.

Pisces, like Virgo is also a sign of service thus will service your needs when aroused. However, unlike Virgo, Pisces has a magic where they can capture your imagination - whatever your ideal may be Pisces will mirror that image back at you. Then you're left feeling the Pisces person embodies all the qualities of your ideal.

If this describes your case chances are high you aren't seeing this person clearly. Or, they are projecting a false image, albeit, intentionally.

With Venus in Taurus, I'm not a risk taker in the love department. Unless I was looking for a fling I would give him time, end of school year, to prove himself. This because of the Pisces & Gemini and my experience with them.

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posted January 07, 2017 11:13 PM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I have gemini venus, I can be very bored in relationships very easy. I think Gemini venus has to mature alot. In my 20's I didn't really understand relationships like I do in my 30's. Is he over 30?

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posted January 08, 2017 04:15 PM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I have gemini venus, I can be very bored in relationships very easy. I think Gemini venus has to mature alot. In my 20's I didn't really understand relationships like I do in my 30's. Is he over 30?

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I have a Gemini venus, too. Do you really love to have fun. I do

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