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wintersun
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posted January 07, 2017 10:55 PM
  
If people who has a "strong water chart" stop calling you for a month, and when you call, they talk to you normally, were they upset to you due to something you said or did(sometimes we really don't know if we hurt them, because they won't ever say it), or is it due to the fact they like to spend some time alone? do they hope people call them more? I do notice this happens more with these "kind of friends".IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted January 08, 2017 05:07 AM
Water dominates my chart( 6 planets in water signs + 5 planets in water houses + NN and ASC in water). It is very normal for me not to call people for month or even months, I don't really miss people in general, not that I don't have friends, I have plenty of friends, and I've spent some unforgettable moments with them, but I don't really miss any of them most of the time. But if I miss them, feel the urge to call/message them, I do call them/text them.Another reason is, when I spend too much time with people, I feel sapped of energy, so I need to recharge my battery in solitude, and after my battery gets completely recharged, I start socializing again. My Cap Sun brother is completely different, he's like a Duracell battery( Sun square Mars in Aries), does not need to be recharged, gathers people around him, sits in the middle, tells his tales and keeps on shouting( Sag mercury, they don't talk, they shout) from dusk till dawn. He does not have much water in his chart. My Cancer friend( Sun, Mercury, Venus stellium) is very different though, if you don't call him for a month, he starts ignoring you for a while probably coz it p!sses him off, I find it very passive-aggressive. I'm a Pisces btw. IP: Logged |
meyray
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posted January 08, 2017 09:30 AM
Water doms definitely need alone time. It's not personal.Generally speaking water heavy charts make people introverted and passive in socializing (unless there's a lot of fire or air) - they speak when they are spoken to. So in many cases they don't take the initiative to call, text or make plans, again it's nothing personal. Many people take this passiveness as a hint that the water person is upset, may not like them or that they aren't interested and just give up trying which is creates painful misunderstanding. Call and text first when it's been a while and don't stop inviting your water dominant friends to things (even if you know they will refuse) - it's a courtesy that will make them feel appreciated and it will strengthen your bond. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted January 08, 2017 10:08 AM
Welcome, Winter  Water is emotion and empathy. People who are high in an element very much embody that element. They may struggle when they are low in another element, as a result, such as fire, which is confidence and vitality and energy. ------------------
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Faith
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posted January 08, 2017 10:51 AM
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Originally posted by wintersun:
If people who has a "strong water chart" stop calling you for a month, and when you call, they talk to you normally, were they upset to you due to something you said or did(sometimes we really don't know if we hurt them, because they won't ever say it), or is it due to the fact they like to spend some time alone? do they hope people call them more? I do notice this happens more with these "kind of friends".
If they typically call you on a regular basis and then stop, there is probably a reason for it, and if you suspect that you may have done or said something to hurt them and cause them to pull back, perhaps your are right. But in my opinion, if you can get it back on track by proving you are still interested in them and wanting to sustain the friendship, it could renew their sense of security and diminish the impact of whatever hurt them to begin with. So maybe it doesn't matter if there was a reason for their retreating. Maybe they just needed time alone to regain their balance. As a Pisces moon I've struggled with finding a sense of proportion, ie "How much does this matter? I'm in pain, but did they intend this or am I just being too sensitive again?  " IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted January 08, 2017 10:53 AM
Then, the interesting subject of voids come up, in which you have no planets in that element, such as I have--an earth void.------------------
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Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
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posted January 08, 2017 10:54 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Water is emotion and empathy. People who are high in an element very much embody that element. They may struggle when they are low in another element, as a result, such as fire, which is confidence and vitality and energy.
I'm fire dominant, and I have confidence, but that doesn't erase the struggles of having a water moon in a water house. IP: Logged |
Electro DGX
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posted January 08, 2017 01:05 PM
I am a water/air type, having 6 air planets but having them in water houses, plus a water ascendant and having two planets in water signs. I am probably the worst when I comes to keeping in touch with people because my alone time is precious to me. With my Mars being so strong in my chart, I'm not necessarily drained by people, but I want time alone and away from people when I get the chance. A lot of people that I talk to who are only strong in air and lack water seem to not understand my need to be away from the world, which includes absolutely everyone. Being strong in Scorpio and Aquarius makes this tendency more prominent. Typically I am not the person that will instantly respond to someone if they text me. Sometimes I will think of wanting to hang out with them again but the only one who I may possibly miss so much as to want them being there so often would be a significant other. Otherwise I am okay on my own. If I am mad at someone I can easily cut off communication and refuse to talk to them if they message me. If we meet in person I will straight up tell them the reason why they upset me but at first I will refrain from speaking to them. Eventually though it will come out and I will tell them either way. ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted January 08, 2017 01:12 PM
I have certain subjects that fascinate the heck out of me. I think it is because I have them lolI have an earth void and am fascinated by voids. I have an opposition void. I am fascinated by Unaspected planets. I have an Unaspected Venus I am fascinated by Mercury/Sun combusts My mother has a Mercury/Sun Combust I am fascinated by other things, too.These are some of them  ------------------
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wintersun
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posted January 10, 2017 12:45 AM
I'm so thankful for your answers. I really needed replies from "water people" to know what they really feel when they're out for a while. I have water signs in social houses(although no planet in water signs ), so I got some idea of it. I don't always need to talk to people anyway,though it doesn't mean I don't love them. I just need some time to think about everything, searching about many subjects,all alone. 
My piscean friend, some days ago, was upset to me just because he's used to call me almost everyday, and I don't use to call,maybe cuz he always take the initiative. I clearly see he felt this as I don't love him(as a friend) the way he loves me(as a friend too).So I explained my point to him, and everything went ok.
As we can see,many "levels" of it. The person may call you almost everyday, or generally hope you call them ever. LOL IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted January 10, 2017 08:38 AM
If people get really drained when they are out, I find it may be the asteroid Kaali conjunct the ASC or MC. Check yours out, my Friend.------------------
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Enneline
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posted January 10, 2017 10:12 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If people get really drained when they are out, I find it may be the asteroid Kaali conjunct the ASC or MC. Check yours out, my Friend.
yes, someone who is drained should take a huge breath on an island as the asteroid kaali suggests: http://www.minorplanetcenter.net/db_search/show_object?utf8=%E2%9C%93&object_id=4227 The island of Sareema looks indeed lovely  an ideal place to relax
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