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Topic: Toxic people
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colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 854
From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted February 07, 2017 10:13 PM
  
What in a persons chart would drawl toxic people to them. I am not perfect by no means, sometimes I say the wrong things, do the wrong things etc. I just notice that for whatever reason I drawl people to me that I might try to help who are truly ill or something. Borderline personality disorder or something? Such as going on my phone and reading my messages or taking things without asking, etc all the while asking for help with other things when they are without. If I say something I am in the wrong which is insane thinking to me. You can't take advantage of someone and then blame them for it. Thats like me going into their purse and stealing money then blaming them because I took it. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
Knowflake Posts: 876
From: CH
Registered: Jul 2016
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posted February 08, 2017 01:57 AM
colorful butterfly, do you know these people's chart?do you have something in their 8th/12th or they in yours? sounds like a 12th or 8th house overlay situation. IP: Logged |
meyray
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posted February 08, 2017 07:02 AM
Don't take this as set in stone but I've seen this manifest in people who have Pluto/personal planet aspects - specifically the Mars/Pluto conj/square/opp in women. They seem to "attract" Pluto negativity in the form of emotional (and sometimes psychical) abuse if they haven't actualized that aspect within themselves. This applies to all Pluto/personal planets but I've seen it the most with Mars/PlutoPisces placements can suffer from a savior (and martyr) complex - they attract toxic people who they believe they can save and fix and end up being drained and walked over without being aware of it. Moon in the 8H is not that intense but they can also gives off intense vibes that toxic people pick up. Venus in the 8H too but they usually attract sexual objectification. Not sure about Mars in the 8H. Again these are all possibilities and my own observations. Please don't think that every person who has these will attract abuse. I hope you break this cycle, colorful butterfly. Sending you positive vibes.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 08, 2017 07:30 AM
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teasel
Knowflake Posts: 9561
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posted February 08, 2017 10:43 AM
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Mergoatsun
Knowflake Posts: 980
From: USA Today
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted February 08, 2017 11:10 AM
I'm sure there are many more placements than just these but these are the placements I've seen:
Moon opposite Neptune: This person easily falls for deception and let's the wrong people see their inner most feelings.
Any Mars and Neptune aspects
Neptune square, or opposite Ascendant.
Neptune in general, Uranus and/or Pluto by the 7th, Ascendant or in tight aspects to your luminaries.
Pisces placements, especially Mars, Pisces Mars is constantly doing things for others and can be taken advantage of easily.
*I'll add more later------------------
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace."
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colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 854
From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted February 08, 2017 12:02 PM
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
colorful butterfly, do you know these people's chart?do you have something in their 8th/12th or they in yours? sounds like a 12th or 8th house overlay situation.
Some of them, mostly no. I know people that I am coming into contact with now mostly have planets that are falling into my 8th house. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 6127
From: Colorado
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 08, 2017 12:10 PM
Neptune/Pisces thing but as far as asteroids I would check Dejanira and see what is doing in chart too.. I have moon in Pisces square Neptune and Neptune is my strongest planet. I would say that neptunians are empaths and are highly sensitive people so negative energy affects them more. They are also very compassionate so they are more likely to put up with toxic situations bc they understand at a deeper level that everyone has flaws and need to be loved so their empathy gives them more patience and they give people multiple chances as a result. Neptunians suck with boundaries so they are more vulnerable to toxic people, they benefit from flower essences that protect their energy field so that things don't penetrate so easily unto them. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
Knowflake Posts: 876
From: CH
Registered: Jul 2016
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posted February 08, 2017 12:30 PM
quote:
Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Some of them, mostly no. I know people that I am coming into contact with now mostly have planets that are falling into my 8th house.
I think this is the case, especially showcased by the stealing. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 854
From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted February 08, 2017 04:38 PM
quote:
Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
I think this is the case, especially showcased by the stealing.
Thank you girlwiththerainysoul! I forgot , the website of the secret language of destiny. I am suppose to drawl in difficult people to solve problems. July 2 1979. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 854
From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted February 08, 2017 04:39 PM
I also have pisces on my descent and moon conjunct pluto in the first house. Also venus oppose neptune. Mars square saturn as well but I am not sure if this causes toxic people or not.IP: Logged |
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