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Topic: Insight on frustrating Virgo
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beewitched
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posted February 09, 2017 09:40 AM
  
http://i1070.photobucket.com/albums/u497/natashahyacinth/IMG_1031_zpsdn79oux0.png I'm looking for insight on a Virgo man that I've been seeing for a few months now. He doesn't want me to be with anyone else but he can and is constantly bringing other girls around as friends but I know he likes a lot of them. I'm a jealous Taurus I can't help it. he had mentioned something about us being exclusive and now he's right back to not wanting a girlfriend (fresh out another relationship). I feel like because of his scorp moon if I do see other people he'll never trust me or want to date me. But I'm tired of waitIng around for him. I told him the next time he has another partner that I won't see him anymore. Now I'm wondering if giving him an ultimatum was a mistake. I truly care for him it'll break my heart to let him go and it'll take a while to get used to since we practically live together but I need peace of mind! What do u think I should do? Do u think there's any hope IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted February 09, 2017 09:58 AM
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hypatia238
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posted February 09, 2017 12:37 PM
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Enneline
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posted February 09, 2017 02:17 PM
welcome!well, i don't think one can predict if he would give in in your case or not based on an astro chart only. I mean synastries, transits and progressions and individual feelings play huge roles as well. he might be quite complicated in love with the 5h ruler inconj venus in 11h that squares pluto.... i think it would be of better support for you if you either post a horary chart in the horary section or a synastry with progressions and/or transits in the interpersonal sub-forum IP: Logged |
sashavittoria
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posted February 09, 2017 05:45 PM
Regardless of his natal chart, he's treating you like s*** and you deserve better! (From a Taurus with many close Virgos in her life.)IP: Logged |
meyray
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posted February 09, 2017 07:17 PM
In posts like these people answer their own questions while describing the problem.This man is obviously selfish and cares more about being at comfort with his insecurities than he cares about you/your relationship. Whatever fantasy you have of him is not worth it. It will be an unjustified disappointment at the expense of your time and well-being. His actions speak for themselves but if we had look at it from an astrological perspective his chart pretty much backs up his behavior - he's a Virgo Sun (people who more or less treat relationships like business and are not susceptible to sentiments) and all his relationship planets are in fixed signs which means he is stubborn and will stand by what he thinks/feels and is NOT at all likely to make compromises. Plus he has a bunch of aggravating aspects between his Sun, Moon, Mars and Venus so don't expect too much personal integrity from him. Mars/Saturn too - it may be a trine which would benefit him in other aspects of his life but he is most likely self-involved where his relationships with others are concerned. IP: Logged |
beewitched
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posted February 10, 2017 01:11 AM
Thank you for the replies! You all made good points. I think A lot of the problem with him lies in the Virgo placements. My Pisces moon can't handle all the criticism. I'm like, do you even like me?! Cause it sounds like you think Im doing everything wrong. Virgo really does treat relationships like business. The scorp moon adds a little depth but not much that he lets me see. Also Saturn in the 5th same as my dad he seems sad in a similar way to my father about his family and just kind of acting like a dad to everybody in his life all the timeIP: Logged |
beewitched
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posted February 10, 2017 01:19 AM
I've always had This feeling that he's going to be the father of my children which is odd I've never felt that way before. I had a psychic tell me that too before we ever hookd up. My Venus is also in his eighth so that could explain the super strong feelings I've been having. I thought it seemed fated but the actions on his end are not there. I know he cares for me (it sucks how the more a Virgo cares about you the more they nag at you). But anyway I think I made this a bigger deal than it is in my head and now I'm paying for it sometimes I just get so delusional in relationships! IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted February 10, 2017 01:53 AM
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colorful butterfly
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posted February 10, 2017 03:05 AM
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Originally posted by beewitched:
I've always had This feeling that he's going to be the father of my children which is odd I've never felt that way before. I had a psychic tell me that too before we ever hookd up. My Venus is also in his eighth so that could explain the super strong feelings I've been having. I thought it seemed fated but the actions on his end are not there. I know he cares for me (it sucks how the more a Virgo cares about you the more they nag at you). But anyway I think I made this a bigger deal than it is in my head and now I'm paying for it sometimes I just get so delusional in relationships!
So if it is written in the stars by a psychic and other things then nothing you do should matter. I have delt with men like this before who want their cake and ice cream too. If he can not be about you like you are for him , let him go. In the end you will thank yourself and save yourself in a lot of ways. Maybe it is my Virgo rising talking but no way, it would be to my benefit as well in some ways or that person has to go. Even when I try , I can't. I'll end up going out with someone else because I think the other person is full of themselves. I can negotiate but I've learned never fear losing someone if they are not fearful of losing you either. Save yourself girly, it will hurt for awhile but in the long run you will find someone who loves you for you. Do you! Hardest lesson that I still am learning in life as well. IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted February 11, 2017 02:22 PM
Virgo can be difficult to figure out. Virgo ASC here.IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo
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From: Welcome to Mercury
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted February 11, 2017 06:59 PM
There's plenty of Virgo men in the sea. There's plenty of Scorpio Moons, too, in case the enigmatic moon has you fooled into thinking they're the only one for you.- A Virgo who has dated her fair share of Virgo and Scorpio men. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 12, 2017 12:18 PM
Pluto Moon conjunct in Scorpio- Ouch!
Mars-Pluto-Moon opposition-Ouch! Ouch!
Pluto-Venus square in Scorpio/Leo -Ouch!
Chiron- Saturn opposition in Cancer/Cap-Ouch! Ouch!Pluto-Moon conjunct people are often hurt/betrayed by a maternal figure or a close relationships at some point of their upbringing. It could be through abandonment,abuse, manipulation,ill treatment or domination etc. Whatever the method, the individual learns not to trust those that are clsoe to them and builds a high wall. Mars-Moon opposition is very volatile and prone to erratic outbursts- like someone is chaffing an open wound they have etc. There is a tendency to act very "macho" with this opposition. An attempt to suppress the emotional nature which is almost always on the surface. These guys hurt at the slightest provocation(despite appearances) This could also suggest someone who breaks off(Mars) intimate relationships(Moon) abruptly or violently(square). Maybe this person associates volatility(Mars) in intimate relationships(Moon) as necessary to interpret "LOVE"? And if they don't get it, they don't feel affirmed? Pluto-Venus square re-iterates what is said above. There is "theater"(Leo) and emotional drama(Scorpio) in the relationships that one is attracted to. Many times an extreme level of emotions, flamboyance and "bleeding heart" affirmations of love and affections. Chiron opposition Saturn hints at "Daddy issues". Often in males,there is a feeling of not being good enough i.e working hard to project the image of being "mature", responsible and all together but feeling very much like a sad, lost little boy internally. My advice- look to your own chart to understand which part of you, you are trying to explore or develop that would make you interested in a person who is fraught with so many emotional walls? For example; are you the type to want to "rescue" those who are lost? Or do you find the idea of helping someone over their issues as showing "love"? Where is your Moon/Venus? What do you get out of this attraction? This individual may have a very firm defense in place that might prove challenging.He may need deep love(Pluto-Moon,Pluto-Venus,Chiron in Cancer), but he may go about it ways that may guarantee that he precludes it i.e sexual relations with many people he feels no real emotional ties with etc.
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hypatia238
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From: Colorado
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posted February 12, 2017 01:59 PM
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Originally posted by beewitched:
http://i1070.photobucket.com/albums/u497/natashahyacinth/IMG_1031_zpsdn79oux0.png I'm looking for insight on a Virgo man that I've been seeing for a few months now. He doesn't want me to be with anyone else but he can and is constantly bringing other girls around as friends but I know he likes a lot of them. I'm a jealous Taurus I can't help it. he had mentioned something about us being exclusive and now he's right back to not wanting a girlfriend (fresh out another relationship). I feel like because of his scorp moon if I do see other people he'll never trust me or want to date me. But I'm tired of waitIng around for him. I told him the next time he has another partner that I won't see him anymore. Now I'm wondering if giving him an ultimatum was a mistake. I truly care for him it'll break my heart to let him go and it'll take a while to get used to since we practically live together but I need peace of mind! What do u think I should do? Do u think there's any hope
Giving him an ultimatum was not a mistake. I would move out, I don't think is healthy to live with someone you are in love with who is unsure wants to be with you and brings other girls over. Seriously F that!
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charlie
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posted February 12, 2017 02:02 PM
He's taking you for a convenient ride. Ew. Don't be a convenient ride! IP: Logged |
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