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Topic: Aqua Moons - tell me about your mother
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Stellia
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: Yorks, UK
Registered: Jan 2017
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posted February 17, 2017 12:16 PM
  
I have read an awful lot about natives with Aquarian moons, and how it can often portray a difficult relationship with their mother, or indicate a certain coldness from the mother growing up.Is this true in your experience? I know two aquarian moons (that I'm aware of). One, my ex, had a very difficult relationship with his mother, was thrown out at 16 and still doesn't talk to her. The second is my son. He is young, but the thought of him growing up with a cold, detached and neglectful mother is haunting me (I have a Leo moon and taurus sun so this horrifies me)! I'd love to hear your experiences of having Aquarius moon and your experience of your mother. IP: Logged |
Radium
Knowflake Posts: 242
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Registered: Jul 2016
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posted February 17, 2017 02:42 PM
I have an Aqua moon and it rules my IC.I was thrown out a 18, only child , me and my mom have a strenuous relationship, very disruptive, we don't get along I've called her out on being cold and sometimes heartless IP: Logged |
MoonMystic
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Registered: Nov 2016
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posted February 17, 2017 06:32 PM
Like Radium that summed up a big amount of my mum and I.A few key points in my personal experience of being an Aqu Moon with my Mum-
My interpretation (from the child's view point)aloof, self absorbed, non reciprocal of affection. Almost sterile in emotions.
Connecting between us only possible on superficial level. Not much hugging etc. ~Edited. I am sorry but it made me sad that I over shared. Standing back, the important matters in the relationship, I left ^. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 6136
From: Colorado
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 17, 2017 07:26 PM
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Stellia
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: Yorks, UK
Registered: Jan 2017
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posted February 17, 2017 08:12 PM
I am so sorry for your challenges  IP: Logged |
MoonMystic
Knowflake Posts: 88
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Registered: Nov 2016
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posted February 18, 2017 01:29 AM
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Originally posted by Stellia:
I am so sorry for your challenges
Thank you. I'm sorry I was too explanatory. Your post just crossed my path after a raw moment I recently went through with her.
Of course no 2 Aqu Moons will have the same situation. I find similaritiy with Radium yet I'm still in my Mum's life. It is painful emotionally tbh. I do like your choice of topics tho. I'm sure it will help many who see it too. IP: Logged |
deja293
Newflake Posts: 9
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Registered: Dec 2015
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posted February 18, 2017 01:59 AM
At the moment, my mom and I are really not getting along. She's being very controlling (she's an Aqua sun) and I honestly can't do anything right at the moment. She was in the Army when I was younger until I was about 6, so that chunk of my life was spent more with my grandma and me being like "who's this lady?" whenever my mom showed up. But ya, she's just a control freak when you really don't need it, and very dismissive and cold when you need her the most. It swings a lot but me and my sisters have a handle on it now, we joke about it when she gets in her "controlling" moods and have the timing down to a science lol------------------
I'm cut in half pretty bad IP: Logged |
Sylven
Knowflake Posts: 721
From: Netherlands
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 18, 2017 06:02 AM
Again I have to come in and say: "NOOOOO, NOT AT ALL!!!" I adore my mum, she always listened, did everything and more for me and sis and she was always there. I got on with her excellent, much better than my dad. She is a very soft sweet person who does a lot for other people. I love her with all my heart and soul!!  Moon trine Uranus / trine MC/ trine Mercury/ 8 dgrs square Saturn, sesisq Pluto and opposite Venus. IP: Logged |
Stellia
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: Yorks, UK
Registered: Jan 2017
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posted February 18, 2017 06:25 AM
Thank you Sylven for your different perspective! Are those natal aspects or synastry? That's a really good idea to look at the sign rulers. I have Aquarius rising, so can come across as cool or aloof - but I love my son completely, and enjoy trying to teach him about asking for what he needs and wants. I don't know if this will be enough to give him the security he needs (he also has moon square Saturn ) but I hope positive intention helps at least. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 6136
From: Colorado
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 18, 2017 01:37 PM
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Originally posted by deja293:
At the moment, my mom and I are really not getting along. She's being very controlling (she's an Aqua sun) and I honestly can't do anything right at the moment. She was in the Army when I was younger until I was about 6, so that chunk of my life was spent more with my grandma and me being like "who's this lady?" whenever my mom showed up. But ya, she's just a control freak when you really don't need it, and very dismissive and cold when you need her the most. It swings a lot but me and my sisters have a handle on it now, we joke about it when she gets in her "controlling" moods and have the timing down to a science lol
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deja293
Newflake Posts: 9
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Registered: Dec 2015
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posted February 18, 2017 06:42 PM
Thanks! Glad to be here hypatia238!  IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted February 18, 2017 07:09 PM
My mom make it known to everyone that I am a failure since childhood, that I am not good enough. Now she does that to my kid brother. She is self absorbed, bossy and bias towards her children depending on who brings in more money. Recently bro failed his exams again, mom said "we now have to to give up our expectations of what he can be". Wow....like de ja vu of what I been though all over again. She never picked on my sis cos she gave her the most dough. That coming from your mom, who has never worked a day in her life. Lol.
Being grown up, older n wiser, I ignore her most of the time rather than pick fight/arguments. She can continue to view me badly and I don't care. It no longer bothers me.i give more to my dad, I give all the love I have for parents to my dad.
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hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 6136
From: Colorado
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 18, 2017 08:07 PM
^^truly mortifying, sorry you have had to go through that.IP: Logged |
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