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Radium Knowflake Posts: 278 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted March 11, 2017 09:02 PM
standing for the truth is not supposed to be healing. But it's the right thing to do. This is why our world blows and good people struggle.You haven't seen the posts mirage has said about me attacking my character. I don't play that game and I will not tolerate it. It is not right and it is not cool. I am all down for someone having a different opinion about me about you will not fantasize or demean my spirit. I am not a child. I am just going through a VERY rough time. I know she MEANS well, but it does not make it any better. Considering my situation it's a little hard to be kind. The only thing I have right now is the truth and faith. I am trying everyday and I have learned more about myself than I think most people do in a lifetime. I refuse to talk about this anymore, I'm sure mirage is a swell lady but I am not the one. IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 1089 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted March 11, 2017 09:40 PM
Yes, standing up for truth is definitely the right thing to do. But not the way you have done it, allowing yourself to swear, that's being agressive. It does nobody good and especially to you. I have seen all her posts on this thread. You said you 'don't play game and don't tolerate it'. Ok, but what do you do in real life, not on the internet? If somebody random comes up to you on the street and tells things that are not true about you? Sometimes you just have to play a game and just Ignore. Very often actually. Be smart, think. Don't waste yourself on everyone around you. Did you see that I 'thumbed up' Mirage's post where she said all the things you didn't like? She gave you advice she could think of, something that made sense to her. You can choose to see only 'false accusations' and no advice or you can see both, defend yourself Honourably (no need to attack back) and consider her advice because she did try to be helpful. As you said, right now you are going through a very rough time. Even something small like this, argument on Internet forum can help you get stronger. "Considering my situation it is very hard to be kind" and this is Exactly why you should be, against all odds! Prove to yourself that you can be better. Anger will only produce anger, within yourself and after that in others around you, like an exchange, a vicious circle. IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 1133 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted March 11, 2017 09:53 PM
I have Saturn in Capricorn, in the 10th house. I have problems with my parents.I sometimes have to defend myself, because people think I'm being 'arrogant' to my parents, but my parents have issues, and project them on me. I think people can be presumptuous and assume Radium was arrogant towards his mother, when we don't know the full story. I'm not going to say him, or his mother, was/is in the wrong, because I don't know the details, or full story. But what if it was someone besides Radium that was the arrogant one? How can people be so sure? Also, even if Radium came off arrogant, maybe it's because he's in a load of hurt, pain, and in an extreme situation. So I believe the 'arrogant' assumption was a bit much. People can be ageist sometimes and assume all young people (under 30) are arrogant punks, when they (the ones judging) already have their own prejudices and biases in tact before they even listen to the whole story, and details. It doesn't excuse Radium's rudeness, but perhaps Radium was reacting strongly to people's assumptions of him, and his situation. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 9721 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 11, 2017 10:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by soren: yeah mirage reflects her own kind of.. thing she wants others to be going through, like she wants there to be a lot of depth and painactually another old guy i know does the same thing, said i should take a philosophy course- and soon , he said. i was like wow, this guy is really not too smart to assume my life was so screwed and that i was lacking that i needed a college course. i told him what an idiot he is and college courses are not going to change anything, i took it as an insult. but mirage feel free to post in this thread he didnt mean you cant post he just meant he isnt interested cause its not relevent
Actually, she's been through a hell of a lot more than me, and has a much better attitude. Me? I was thinking this morning, that anything that would normally annoy me, or upset me, is just fueling my apathy. That was until someone blew their horn at my dad, for no good reason, in a parking lot. I was suddenly raring to tell this guy where to go. When a couple of guys yelled something at me, when I was walking the dogs with dad late one night last Summer, when mum was in the hospital, I almost ran after their pick-up truck (and I'm not a runner). I guess that's where people get that Aries are up for a fight. I'm usually not, but that sort of thing really ****** me off. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 71147 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 11, 2017 10:06 PM
Radium Just ignore the people who are nasty to you. I think it is despicable that you come on here in the WORST pain and people get on their high horse but that is life, so take all the love that many people have given you and drink from that. God loves you and many people here love you and learn the lesson of ignoring anyone who treats you poorly. You don't have to explain yourself. You can if you want, but you can just ignore, too!------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 9721 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 11, 2017 10:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Radium Just ignore the people who are nasty to you. I think it is despicable that you come on here in the WORST pain and people get on their high horse but that is life, so take all the love that many people have given you and drink from that. God loves you and many people here love you and learn the lesson of ignoring anyone who treats you poorly. You don't have to explain yourself. You can if you want, but you can just ignore, too!
I'm not being nasty to him. I told him that I feel the same way. Stop stirring! IP: Logged |
Radium Knowflake Posts: 278 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted March 12, 2017 12:27 AM
I'm so done with everyone's **** . Those who get it - thank you. Those who don't, goodbye.I ******* HATE people that think they are smarter than everyone else. You aren't telling me anything I don't already KNOW. If I wanted your opinions on my family life I'd tell you. You are no longer supporting me. You are trying to tell me what to do. You are really getting on my bad side Cap. STOP assuming. **** off. This is the EXACT reason I want to kill myself. Shut up and look in the mirror Mr and Ms. Know It All. IP: Logged |
soren Knowflake Posts: 3594 From: where are atoms from Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 12, 2017 12:36 AM
in the past, i always did ignore that old guy constantly thinking i was for the worse. but recently i lashed out. if you ever get the opportunity to lash out at someone and tell them what you think, its lucky. most of the time they are too closed off to consider it (not talking about anyone here) just in general. usually once they actually listen to what you say, they understand and stop being so "pained" For example this old guy did some terrible things, but i said they werent that bad. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 9721 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2017 12:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by Radium: I'm so done with everyone's **** . Those who get it - thank you. Those who don't, goodbye.I ******* HATE people that think they are smarter than everyone else. You aren't telling me anything I don't already KNOW. If I wanted your opinions on my family life I'd tell you. You are no longer supporting me. You are trying to tell me what to do. You are really getting on my bad side Cap. STOP assuming. **** off. This is the EXACT reason I want to kill myself. Shut up and look in the mirror Mr and Ms. Know It All.
I want to, as well. I was empathizing with you, so thanks. If this was aimed at me at all, you're doing to me, exactly what you're accusing others of doing. I would love to **** off. I don't want YOU to, though. Ugh. I need to find a way to get some sleep. My life has been really ****** up, too, in ways. Especially in recent years. I get it. And I still don't want you to hurt yourself. IP: Logged |
Radium Knowflake Posts: 278 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted March 12, 2017 12:49 AM
Trust me teasel you would know if it was aimed at youIP: Logged |
soren Knowflake Posts: 3594 From: where are atoms from Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 12, 2017 01:25 AM
sorry erasing. IP: Logged |
soren Knowflake Posts: 3594 From: where are atoms from Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 12, 2017 01:34 AM
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soren Knowflake Posts: 3594 From: where are atoms from Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 12, 2017 01:35 AM
sorry erased oh and sorry for what i wrote i decided to eraseIP: Logged |
soren Knowflake Posts: 3594 From: where are atoms from Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 12, 2017 01:58 AM
dont k*ll urselIP: Logged |
soren Knowflake Posts: 3594 From: where are atoms from Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 12, 2017 01:59 AM
sorry there was a power outage and decided that i want to erase some stuff here erasingIP: Logged |
soren Knowflake Posts: 3594 From: where are atoms from Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 12, 2017 04:30 AM
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CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 1089 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted March 12, 2017 07:34 AM
You just told me to F off?? Really? I see. If you say what the person wants to hear then you support them and if you say something they don't like then you can "f off". Ok, good luck in life and goodbye.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 71147 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 12, 2017 08:47 AM
One thing I have learned from being a Mod for 7 years is that you have to ignore many people or you will be doomed. This is life, too. God will, always, send you good people, but this world has enough bad people that they will ALWAYS be a thorn in your side. Stick with the wonderful people God will send you. Do that here. Do that everywhere, God will send you angels. Embrace them ![](http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/angel.gif) ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 76623 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2017 02:43 PM
Not sure why this is in the Astrology 2.0 Forum.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 76623 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2017 02:43 PM
Moving to Sweet Peas. IP: Logged |