posted March 13, 2017 07:15 PM            

To clarify, by "strange/creepy" I don't simply mean every man that approaches me. Obviously, just b/c a man tries to engage you, it's not necessary to label them creeps.
What I mean is literally awkward and strange men.

Ex. One guy followed me for 5+ blocks while walking even after I made it clear that I did not want to talk to him. After I stopped responding back to his questions, he kept trying to talk to me even after I would not respond.

I suppose the same could be applied for males attracting strange women as well.

I have Venus in Aqua square Mars in Gemini

I also have Venus square Pluto but a wide orb

posted March 13, 2017 09:23 PM            

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posted March 14, 2017 02:37 AM            

I noticed my stalker on the street long before he started following me. I just saw the look in his eye and I knew it would be a problem. When he tried to follow me into my building he didn't anticipate that I would have remembered his face from a week ago. I don't know what would have happened if he would have made it all the way inside. When I confronted him he tried to grab me but i was already screaming. He came back for me five times and I saw him from far away every time so thankfully nothing happened. I did move because of him though.

The first time this happened I was listening to music while walking home in my normally very safe neighborhood at night. I saw a shadow approaching me and I ripped my earphones out but it has always been nothing. Well, this time it wasn't, but as soon as he lurched at me I was already screaming so he was forced to let me go. I don't think he anticipated that I was in fact paying attention and noticed the shadow of someone running up behind me.

posted March 14, 2017 03:04 AM            

I used to write about my travels and the weirdness, but I think I'm become numb to it.

posted March 14, 2017 03:17 AM            

My Venus/Pluto conjunction is in Scorpio. I've always lived by the mantra that only the paranoid survive. Pluto may have brought me this cross to bear but I'd like to think there is a reciprocity of karma here. I don't look at it as a bad thing most of the time.[/QUOTE

You have gone through so much shite. Glad your still with us.

I have been victimized as well. I have 8th house Chiron opposite my Sun/Uranus conjunction.

Just for full disclosure, I have 4H Sagde Venus conjunct my Scorpio IC in sextile 2H Libran Pluto.

Hugs and Love to YOU.

posted March 14, 2017 05:02 AM            

Creepy people are often those who don't respect boundaries/privacy etc.

Also, these types tend to prey on the loners or take the opportunity when you separate yourself from a crowd.

Since Pisces/Neptune/12th house strong people have inclinations of being alone. They may find themselves unwittingly attracting those whom may impose themselves on them.

As a Mars conjunct the Dsc, attracting more agressive people is my issue at times. Or atleast people with an uneven temperament.

Now if Neptune is there or the ruler aspects Neptune. Or even Pisces on the cusp of the 7th/Venus in Pisces, this could extend to everyday contact with some pretty strange/bizarre people.

posted March 14, 2017 10:55 AM            

What I have noticed is that a lot of people that I attract tend to be physically obsessed with me at times. It is a very unsettling feeling and often it's like I ooze this sort of highly magnetic energy that hooks people like fish.

However, I'm not vulnerable in this sense. I can easily ward people off if need be.

posted March 14, 2017 08:44 PM            

@Aries23Degrees
That makes a lot of sense about Neptune/Pisces not knowing boundaries. Could it work the other way also though? Like someone that DOES the stalking and makes others uncomfortable may have a lot of Neptune/Pisces influence, since they themselves know no boundaries

posted March 15, 2017 12:30 AM            

I have another anecdotal story about Pluto. I once came across a guy on youtube who I guess claims to be a longevity coach or something, and his career is based on selling expensive herbs to people that are purportedly good for their health and keeps diseases away. He's really good at what he does. But of course, we all die no matter how many supplements we take. He's really good at making you forget that. At the time I was really re-thinking my stance on what Pluto means in astrology and I managed to get his birthdate from facebook due to personal friends wishing him happy birthday. When I looked at his chart I noticed his Sun in Leo in aversion to his Pluto in Virgo, with Pluto not making any major aspects I could see without a birth time. So, I checked the sign ruler of Mercury, and it's conjunct to his Sun. A lot of people have Mercury conjunct Sun, and even so in the sign of Leo, but through sign rulership we can see a thread here that ties his Sun, Mercury, and Pluto together. And since Pluto lacks major aspects, this is one of the only ways in the natal chart in which it can express itself. So, it makes sense that he makes a career out of proselytizing (Sun/Mercury) about how to cheat death (Pluto).

Relating this back to mythology, Pluto conjunct Venus reminds me strongly of the myth of Pluto and his wife, Pluto's attempt at Venus-ruled partnership. The process of this involved abduction and rape of an unsuspecting woman, Persephone. Her mother Ceres threatened to make the Earth barren unless her daughter was returned, but Persephone tasted fruit from the Underworld and therefore could not fully leave. Ceres made the Earth less capable of hosting life for the time her daughter remains in the Underworld, aka autumn and winter. For me this myth is full of karmic lessons. There's not much justice here for Persephone, but life sometimes is like that. Bad things sometimes happen spontaneously, and we as people have been trying to explain why since our existence. Since the model of most religions and moral thought is that our death is intrinsically linked to our "bad"ness, once we've been exposed to the capability for evil in human nature, we can never make that invisible to our conscious again. It's similar as well to Eve in the garden with the apple. And, as we can see, in both the Bible and Ancient myth, the karmic reciprocation for evil is generally some form of death. In the Bible, eating the apple ushered in the sinfulness and mortality of man, and mythology targeted our capability to produce food, which in a way is also targeting the mortality of man since we need food to survive.

posted March 15, 2017 10:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
I have Mars in Scorpio on ASC exact from 12th. It is also parallel Pluto in declinations.

What I have noticed is that a lot of people that I attract tend to be physically obsessed with me at times. It is a very unsettling feeling and often it's like I ooze this sort of highly magnetic energy that hooks people like fish.

However, I'm not vulnerable in this sense. I can easily ward people off if need be.

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posted March 15, 2017 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
I have Mars in Scorpio on ASC exact from 12th. It is also parallel Pluto in declinations.

What I have noticed is that a lot of people that I attract tend to be physically obsessed with me at times. It is a very unsettling feeling and often it's like I ooze this sort of highly magnetic energy that hooks people like fish.

However, I'm not vulnerable in this sense. I can easily ward people off if need be.

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posted March 15, 2017 02:41 PM            

This world we live in does not have exclusion. Mostly we attract that which we are ;whether on a subconscious level or conscious one.

As much as we have the qualities that "attract", there are those that are attracted. And they identify with these qualities too.

So if you know yourself to be someone who is shy,timid and not very assertive, there are those whom you will attract that will empower you to be more certain of yourself

The 1st could be attracting people whom you will be grateful for helping you, protecting you etc. But over time, you will notice how these same people will turn to dominate your life and even bully you.

When the dynamics of the relationships shift from "helper" to inhibiter, the call is for you to assert your independence and win back self autonomy.

The other more immediate way this could manifest is attracting those whom will take advantage of you immediately.

The call here is to assert your boundaries and avoid feeling fearful or threatened that someone will see through the facade.

Projecting confidence, walking head high and chest out goes a long in helping one become seen and recognized in the world.

Often times we can tell people who are not confident by their body language. How much more then can you imagine someone with sinister intentions can do the same?

Often stalkers are not amateurs and are aware of psychological cues and mind games. They seek to victimize from a passive point of view and don't feel confident with people that threaten them.

Not to say all victims are "weaklings". But many are reduced to this position to imprison them and make them fearful of the world. And this is the out outcome that most of them want.