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Topic: Cancer Risers! Where are you?!
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 6590 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 12, 2017 07:06 PM
I want to learn about you. Tell me, do you feel you are very emotional and your emotions change a lot throughout the day? Are you really anxious?What is your emotional side like, what area of your life are you the most sensitive about? Or do you feel you are very emotionally stable and your mood does not change a lot? What sign is your moon in? What aspects does your moon make? and what house does your moon fall in? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 78586 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2017 12:46 PM
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Gracha Knowflake Posts: 372 From: NY USA Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 13, 2017 02:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: I want to learn about you. Tell me, do you feel you are very emotional and your emotions change a lot throughout the day? Are you really anxious?What is your emotional side like, what area of your life are you the most sensitive about? Or do you feel you are very emotionally stable and your mood does not change a lot? What sign is your moon in? What aspects does your moon make? and what house does your moon fall in?
Yes I can be emotional but I tend to keep it to myself, especially concerning my romantic interests but I'm working on letting him know my feelings etc. My emotions are generally based on how I feel that day and are steady for that duration. Yes I can get anxious about things or goals I'm working on. I'm most sensitive about my feelings and love life. Everything else is okay. I'm a 12th house Gemini moon conjunct north node, trine Saturn/Pluto, square sun/mercury. Also my moon is widely opposite Jupiter/Uranus in Sagittarius.
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polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 952 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 13, 2017 06:02 PM
I worked with a woman in her 40s who was a Cancer rising/Gemini moon and she was a loose canon. She was nice in the beginning but when her true colors came out she was extremely manipulative and *highly* emotional. She twisted stories in her favor, she would cry to get out of blame directed on her, and she could never let anything go, even when told by a manager to leave an issue alone (maybe that was the Gemini moon). I don't really know many peoples risings signs so I can't say for sure whether I know of any other cancer risings. But whew, she was interesting to say the least. IP: Logged |
Gracha Knowflake Posts: 372 From: NY USA Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 13, 2017 07:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by polkadotstars: I worked with a woman in her 40s who was a Cancer rising/Gemini moon and she was a loose canon. She was nice in the beginning but when her true colors came out she was extremely manipulative and *highly* emotional. She twisted stories in her favor, she would cry to get out of blame directed on her, and she could never let anything go, even when told by a manager to leave an issue alone (maybe that was the Gemini moon). I don't really know many peoples risings signs so I can't say for sure whether I know of any other cancer risings. But whew, she was interesting to say the least.
She could've been a Taurus moon or even leo moon, assuming you didn't know her birth time...please don't try painting Gemini mooners with such a broad brush stroke. IP: Logged |
llewsacm Knowflake Posts: 728 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted April 13, 2017 08:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: I want to learn about you. Tell me, do you feel you are very emotional and your emotions change a lot throughout the day? Are you really anxious?What is your emotional side like, what area of your life are you the most sensitive about? Or do you feel you are very emotionally stable and your mood does not change a lot? What sign is your moon in? What aspects does your moon make? and what house does your moon fall in?
I am cancer rising with scorpio moon in the 5th. My moon is quincunx my Mars and Saturn in the 12th conjunct Lilith and square the true node. I am emotional with those I am close to, but with others, I am calm and focused. I do not cry in public but can let it loose in close company. I have a dry sense of humor. I want everyone to feel good around me. I feel deeply. My children are of the most importance above all. If I feel misunderstood or hurt...I will do the classic crab move and retreat and hide. I will grow quiet and think. Some people call it the silent treatment but I don't see it that way. I need time to collect my thoughts. I always come back at some point to finish the conversation. Personal integrity is important to me. I cannot stand it when someone is or acts superficial or even self centered. I love to help people. I give of myself to my friends and family without asking for anything in return. I expect those who love me to give their all and be open with me. I am very open to those I love. Super sensitive with them. When people have inner planets that come close to my ASC axis, I feel vulnerable. In a good and bad way I suppose. I just wrote down everything I could think off without hesitation so hopefully this helps you in your quest for knowledge and makes sense.
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 6590 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 13, 2017 08:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by llewsacm: I am cancer rising with scorpio moon in the 5th. My moon is quincunx my Mars and Saturn in the 12th conjunct Lilith and square the true node. I am emotional with those I am close to, but with others, I am calm and focused. I do not cry in public but can let it loose in close company. I have a dry sense of humor. I want everyone to feel good around me. I feel deeply. My children are of the most importance above all. If I feel misunderstood or hurt...I will do the classic crab move and retreat and hide. I will grow quiet and think. Some people call it the silent treatment but I don't see it that way. I need time to collect my thoughts. I always come back at some point to finish the conversation. Personal integrity is important to me. I cannot stand it when someone is or acts superficial or even self centered. I love to help people. I give of myself to my friends and family without asking for anything in return. I expect those who love me to give their all and be open with me. I am very open to those I love. Super sensitive with them. When people have inner planets that come close to my ASC axis, I feel vulnerable. In a good and bad way I suppose. I just wrote down everything I could think off without hesitation so hopefully this helps you in your quest for knowledge and makes sense.
I looooved reading your response, very detailed and thoughtful. I am very curious about this combo now. I can imagine you are a wonderful parent, they must really feel loved by you your kids. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 6590 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 13, 2017 08:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gracha: She could've been a Taurus moon or even leo moon, assuming you didn't know her birth time...please don't try painting Gemini mooners with such a broad brush stroke.
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 6590 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 13, 2017 08:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by polkadotstars: I worked with a woman in her 40s who was a Cancer rising/Gemini moon and she was a loose canon. She was nice in the beginning but when her true colors came out she was extremely manipulative and *highly* emotional. She twisted stories in her favor, she would cry to get out of blame directed on her, and she could never let anything go, even when told by a manager to leave an issue alone (maybe that was the Gemini moon). I don't really know many peoples risings signs so I can't say for sure whether I know of any other cancer risings. But whew, she was interesting to say the least.
Her not letting go of an issue I don't think would be due to having a gemini moon at all, gemini is mutable and chill, they want to let go of stuff so they can enjoy themselves. That sounds more like Cancer rising with Moon in Taurus which can be very stubborn. BUT I see what you mean too, like the cancer rising with moon in gemini maybe leads to staying stuck with certain thoughts or communication issues, like thought rumination since cancer gets attached and gemini rules communication. IP: Logged |
llewsacm Knowflake Posts: 728 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted April 13, 2017 10:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: I looooved reading your response, very detailed and thoughtful. I am very curious about this combo now. I can imagine you are a wonderful parent, they must really feel loved by you your kids.
Feel free to ask anything you wanna know. Some of it bleeds into my other placements I'm sure ..Lol. I love and honor my mom. Not so much my dad, but I still loved him deeply.
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DakotaKo Newflake Posts: 3 From: Registered: Apr 2017
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posted April 14, 2017 03:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: I want to learn about you. Tell me, do you feel you are very emotional and your emotions change a lot throughout the day? Are you really anxious?What is your emotional side like, what area of your life are you the most sensitive about? Or do you feel you are very emotionally stable and your mood does not change a lot? What sign is your moon in? What aspects does your moon make? and what house does your moon fall in?
I also have a cancer rising, I have a Moon in Virgo in the 2nd house. My moon is in opposition to Venus and square to Pluto (involved in a t-square) and in sextile to Lilith. In all honesty I am very emotional and it shows through very easily, you could read me like a book and even when I try to hide my emotions. It's annoying. -_- Usually I'm very reactive and anxious when I come into interaction with others because of what they would think of me, otherwise my emotions don't change often. What am I sensitive about in life? lol short answer, almost everything about myself. I tend to analyse my emotions a lot and I have trouble trusting others so I like to keep people in my life at a distance.
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GrlyGirl200 Knowflake Posts: 250 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 14, 2017 03:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Her not letting go of an issue I don't think would be due to having a gemini moon at all, gemini is mutable and chill, they want to let go of stuff so they can enjoy themselves. That sounds more like Cancer rising with Moon in Taurus which can be very stubborn.BUT I see what you mean too, like the cancer rising with moon in gemini maybe leads to staying stuck with certain thoughts or communication issues, like thought rumination since cancer gets attached and gemini rules communication.
The twisting stories in her favor via communication sounds VERY Gemini Moon. I would think she is most likely a Gemini Moon because she is quick to feel and respond. That is not something Taurus Moon does easily or readily. As far as myself I'm a Cancer Rising with my Sun and Mars Conjunct each other and (both of them) Conjunct my Rising in the 1st, so I'm not sure how having all that in my 1st changes things. Tell me, do you feel you are very emotional and your emotions change a lot throughout the day? I would say I'm sensitive not emotional. In fact I wouldn't say terribly emotional at all (as in cry a lot or are even defensive about things). Even when I should be. I think my moods do change a great deal, but that has more to do with energy levels and the like. In fact one of my old college roommates used to joke about me and how moody I was lol. Are you really anxious? No, when I was younger I was. I think this had more to do with the fact that I was an overweight child in Southern California and felt very ugly. What is your emotional side like, what area of your life are you the most sensitive about? I would say I'm most sensitive about myself (how I'm perceived/come off/look) and my relationships. Which to be honest is spoken like a 1st and 7th house ruled person. The first house is the house of "I," and the 7th house is the house of "we." I'm a 7th house Moon with Venus in the 11th person, so I truly value them and find that I tend to feel the most vulnerable and hurt when friendship or a one on one relationship (not just romantic) fails or doesn't occur. My emotional side is really me trying to wrap my head around what I did and what I could do to improve the situation (if I were to come across a similar situation) in the future. I also have a strong tendency to try to avoid a hurtful situation. For instance a breakup or painful rejection would be dealt with by me trying to see what I did wrong (or if I did something wrong) and then promptly pretending like the person doesn't exist (via social media) until I'm strong enough where the idea of them with someone else or happy doesn't hurt. This process may or may take terribly long depending on if I can get something or someone to replace the feeling. Or do you feel you are very emotionally stable and your mood does not change a lot? Yes and no. My mood may change and run the gamut, but my emotions and feelings do not change. Emotionally wise I have a Taurus Venus so if I feel something I feel it (even if my mood may change). What sign is your moon in? What aspects does your moon make? and what house does your moon fall in? I have a Cap Moon in the 7th Trine Venus in the 11th, Square Pluto in the 5th, and Sextile Saturn in the 5th.
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polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 952 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 14, 2017 06:45 AM
She was a Gemini moon. I had her birth time from her birth certificate that I saw with my own eyes. And I was saying she wouldn't let things go because she talked so much, which is where the problems began. She didn't know when to let an issue die because she kept talking about it. She was very very very talkative. Is that a Gemini moon thing? I wish I knew more rising signs of other people so I could do a comparison. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 6590 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 14, 2017 02:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by polkadotstars: She was a Gemini moon. I had her birth time from her birth certificate that I saw with my own eyes. And I was saying she wouldn't let things go because she talked so much, which is where the problems began. She didn't know when to let an issue die because she kept talking about it. She was very very very talkative. Is that a Gemini moon thing? I wish I knew more rising signs of other people so I could do a comparison.
I have the same wish! You are right I would think moon in Taurus with cancer rising would be reserved and not very talkative. Now moon in gemini I would think has a strong emotional need to talk and to talk through their feelings. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 6590 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 14, 2017 02:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by GrlyGirl200: I would think she is most likely a Gemini Moon because she is quick to feel and respond. That is not something Taurus Moon does easily or readily.
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 9858 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2017 02:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by polkadotstars: She was a Gemini moon. I had her birth time from her birth certificate that I saw with my own eyes. And I was saying she wouldn't let things go because she talked so much, which is where the problems began. She didn't know when to let an issue die because she kept talking about it. She was very very very talkative. Is that a Gemini moon thing? I wish I knew more rising signs of other people so I could do a comparison.
Some issues don't die - they will stay with you. They also won't die, if another person hurt them/was in the wrong, and flat-out refuses to admit so. That's a problem I've had with a few family members. One told me that a situation was water under the bridge - an abusive situation, that was not even close to being water under any bridge, and it wasn't her place to say that it was. Another one also expects you to just get over it, and will push her way around. She practically ruined Thanksgiving. They don't LISTEN. They don't take responsibility. Gemini Moon/Venus/SN. IP: Logged |
saadsarah8 Knowflake Posts: 155 From: Ottawa, Canada Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 14, 2017 05:40 PM
*do you feel you are very emotional and your emotions change a lot throughout the day?*My emotions change depending on the people around me,, it's easy for me to absorb other people's energies and moods. Very emotional, yes, but I think I hide it rather well. Though come to think of it, my emotions change rather quickly (it doesn't take much to make me extremely happy or extremely upset). *Are you really anxious?*
Yes, but that could be my venus in virgo square mars in gemini. That mutable energy makes me easily agitated and nervous for sure. Very shy and anxious when in groups/when meeting new people. *What is your emotional side like, what area of your life are you the most sensitive about? Or do you feel you are very emotionally stable and your mood does not change a lot?* Very emotionally-invested in people, which often shatters my heart completely. Always feel like I'm let down by people and like they just don't care enough.. Emotionally stable isn't a word I would use to describe myself but I feel like given the right circumstances, right people, right relationships, I can definitely thrive emotionally and be steady in that regard. *What sign is your moon in? What aspects does your moon make? and what house does your moon fall in?* Moon in aquarius, 8th house. Moon trine mars in gemini. I feel extremely plutonic!! I can barely identify the aqua in my persona.
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Hon Solo Knowflake Posts: 82 From: Registered: Apr 2016
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posted April 15, 2017 03:23 PM
I am a Cancer rising, my moon is in Taurus. My Mars is exact conjunct my moon. These two oppose Pluto.I am innerly very sensitive, yes, and I feel very deep and dark, elusive emotions very easily. Cancer presents itself in the way my emotions can quickly change. I can go from a happy-go-lucky to a dark, fear-based twistedness very quickly. If I keep myself in check, before I react, I am usually fine. I seem quite stable to the outside, and I probably seemed even severe when I was younger. I felt very strongly that I feel very strongly, so I tried to keep my emotions in check. This led me to protect my emotions too much, so I've swallowed a lot of emotions in the habit of not letting them be as they are, as I feel very strongly that they are stronger than I usually see in other people. The extremity can scare people, and make them go away. This is also the root of my deepest fear of people "not being able to stand" the emotional me. A lot of people have proved this fear right, unfortunately. The older I grow the better I am at letting go of the control. Sometimes it creates hilarious situations, even! IP: Logged |
Hon Solo Knowflake Posts: 82 From: Registered: Apr 2016
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posted April 15, 2017 03:26 PM
I feel like this a lot, except for the hiding part. For me hiding my feelings comes from my conditioning and learned behavior, and if those are forgot, my moods are all over me and easily seen, probably. quote: Originally posted by saadsarah8: My emotions change depending on the people around me,, it's easy for me to absorb other people's energies and moods. Very emotional, yes, but I think I hide it rather well. Though come to think of it, my emotions change rather quickly (it doesn't take much to make me extremely happy or extremely upset).
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 9858 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 15, 2017 07:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by GrlyGirl200: The twisting stories in her favor via communication sounds VERY Gemini Moon. I would think she is most likely a Gemini Moon because she is quick to feel and respond. That is not something Taurus Moon does easily or readily. As far as myself I'm a Cancer Rising with my Sun and Mars Conjunct each other and (both of them) Conjunct my Rising in the 1st, so I'm not sure how having all that in my 1st changes things. [b]Tell me, do you feel you are very emotional and your emotions change a lot throughout the day? I would say I'm sensitive not emotional. In fact I wouldn't say terribly emotional at all (as in cry a lot or are even defensive about things). Even when I should be. I think my moods do change a great deal, but that has more to do with energy levels and the like. In fact one of my old college roommates used to joke about me and how moody I was lol. Are you really anxious? No, when I was younger I was. I think this had more to do with the fact that I was an overweight child in Southern California and felt very ugly. What is your emotional side like, what area of your life are you the most sensitive about? I would say I'm most sensitive about myself (how I'm perceived/come off/look) and my relationships. Which to be honest is spoken like a 1st and 7th house ruled person. The first house is the house of "I," and the 7th house is the house of "we." I'm a 7th house Moon with Venus in the 11th person, so I truly value them and find that I tend to feel the most vulnerable and hurt when friendship or a one on one relationship (not just romantic) fails or doesn't occur. My emotional side is really me trying to wrap my head around what I did and what I could do to improve the situation (if I were to come across a similar situation) in the future. I also have a strong tendency to try to avoid a hurtful situation. For instance a breakup or painful rejection would be dealt with by me trying to see what I did wrong (or if I did something wrong) and then promptly pretending like the person doesn't exist (via social media) until I'm strong enough where the idea of them with someone else or happy doesn't hurt. This process may or may take terribly long depending on if I can get something or someone to replace the feeling. Or do you feel you are very emotionally stable and your mood does not change a lot? Yes and no. My mood may change and run the gamut, but my emotions and feelings do not change. Emotionally wise I have a Taurus Venus so if I feel something I feel it (even if my mood may change). What sign is your moon in? What aspects does your moon make? and what house does your moon fall in? I have a Cap Moon in the 7th Trine Venus in the 11th, Square Pluto in the 5th, and Sextile Saturn in the 5th. [/B]
That doesn't sound like a Gemini moon. It sounds like someone I know, but I won't blame her moon sign. IP: Logged |
llewsacm Knowflake Posts: 728 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted April 15, 2017 07:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hon Solo: I am a Cancer rising, my moon is in Taurus. My Mars is exact conjunct my moon. These two oppose Pluto.I am innerly very sensitive, yes, and I feel very deep and dark, elusive emotions very easily. Cancer presents itself in the way my emotions can quickly change. I can go from a happy-go-lucky to a dark, fear-based twistedness very quickly. If I keep myself in check, before I react, I am usually fine. I seem quite stable to the outside, and I probably seemed even severe when I was younger. I felt very strongly that I feel very strongly, so I tried to keep my emotions in check. This led me to protect my emotions too much, so I've swallowed a lot of emotions in the habit of not letting them be as they are, as I feel very strongly that they are stronger than I usually see in other people. The extremity can scare people, and make them go away. This is also the root of my deepest fear of people "not being able to stand" the emotional me. A lot of people have proved this fear right, unfortunately. The older I grow the better I am at letting go of the control. Sometimes it creates hilarious situations, even!
It sounds like this might be coming from your moon/Mars opp Pluto.
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dreamscomeslow Knowflake Posts: 60 From: Registered: Jan 2017
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posted April 25, 2017 04:52 PM
I wouldn't use the word emotional either but sensitive, yes. Very sensitive. I also tend to flee the scene a lot...I wonder if leaving at every bump in the road could be attributed to Rising/Mars Cancer..? Anyways, I've sort of internalized the loner persona as a way to not have to explain myself and reduce the pain of being misunderstood/not fitting in. People say I'm weird a lot. ...(It's night time where I am right now-the Moon rules Cancer-so I'm being a little romantic/dramatic but this was all in the past and I do meet kindred spirits as well.. I don't know why I'm writing this on the internet. Along with weird, I get the "good energy" compliment every now and then, too.) Interested in the arts, creating and appreciating. My moods change like anyone elses but if I eat properly throughout the day then it doesn't seem to be a noticeable thing. As a Rising Cancer, I really am at my best if I strictly take care of my needs like sleep, not getting to the point of dehydration, exercise and so on but doesn't that go for all people? I guess some people can just be okay whatever's going on. If I'm hungry I get the "Are you ok?" a lot from people. Sometimes I catch myself in the mirror by accident and I'm like holy **** , my facial expression is so tense. Like my eyes look anxious and then seeing it, I fix it. Anyone else ever have that happen? But what I(and you, reading this) need to realize is it makes no sense to label yourself in such concrete ways... the self is always changing and evolving so like we use "Oh that's just my nature" as an excuse a lot or "I'm ____. I've always been that way" so we don't have to change. Like, I have to ask myself... WHAT is making me moody... and that usually helps me to at least begin the process of learning how to manage it. IP: Logged | |