posted April 13, 2017 10:29 AM            

It was advised to find a date with a "favorable Saturn transit" at least for this couple to encourage "grounding" since they lack a lot of major Saturn aspects in their synastry.
Any dates the beginning of next year? January - April 2018 perhaps?

Female - June 19, 1986 1:12pm Cambridge, ON
Male - July 15, 1982 11:56pm Cambridge, ON

posted April 13, 2017 08:24 PM            

It's a scholarly article. Leaving the URL here for you.

Ken Gillman, Marriage Elections: Comparing Different Rules.
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/marriage.html

posted April 14, 2017 10:33 AM            

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It's hard to find the positive in anything!!

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Good practice for what marriage is like???
If you can FIND the positive, and cultivate it, then you actually have a tool for working on a marriage relationship.

A lot of people look forward to the fantasy of Togetherness-- the party, the dress and suit, the starting-over in life. It's like the death of one world, and a rebirth into a whole new state.

I like what I read some astrologers say-- be engaged, but don't marry until you 'see' that spouse go through their Mars-Return. That's a two-year engagement! ... but most people don't want to put their lives on hold that long. ... Thing is? Two-years, for investment for a Lifetime?

I know the 'pang' inside where you wouldn't have wanted THAT long of a wait with your Beloved. The crush inside that you could have been in married-state for two-years, if it winds up being a glorious match. There's a magnetism, a longing to be ONE. Almost like there's a resentment for having Bodies, because it Separates you from their Heart, from their DEPTHS, from their Inside. You want to be THAT Close!, and can never full-fill it as earthly animals.

I guess too, it would depend on the 'reason' for getting married.

In the past days, marriages between kingdoms were arranged for safety and property reasons. There was no room for a personal wish such marrying for Love and romantic notions. It was a Business deal.

Marriage is a day-to-day relationship. You're together, AND, you discover who you each are, day to day to day. ... Definitely for 'grown-ups' and your most selfish desires must die (ego).

Rewards come, with each adversity, and each personal time you master your own self. You build and climb the steps, one at a time.

Married is definitely a 'portal' you cross...

And you in deepest psychological romantic levels really don't know what to expect until after the magic-words "I do" are uttered in (expensive) Legal Vow! You find out "what you did!!"

I still think it's Worth it. Lots of HARD work-- but if you have a worthy-partner, who's IN it for the Long-Run, it's stable and a wonderfully secure place to be.

You Belong WHOLE-Self WHOLE-Heart to One Another.

(music) Do You Love Me? (clip from Fiddler on the Roof lyrics) [2:35] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6A2MBneb7lc

It's an extreme different Portal, crossing a threshold into a TOTALLY different Life you take on willingly together. Filled with sorrows you can face Together, AND Joys.

The words and tone of this song... so much Wisdom. So touching.

So dire. So permanent. Ah Life! Ah Love!

posted April 14, 2017 11:04 AM            

I have my TV on in the background on mute. As I read my post about marriage and thresholds and Portals, and I listened to those songs, I turned my chair and saw my TV screen.

This is the commercial that brought strange Visuals alive here.... Strange attracting an Ideal soulmate type energies afoot in the Universe today?

(topic) Capital One Quicksilver: Doors [0:31] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bYuyYJZ1YNE

posted April 14, 2017 11:38 AM            

Okay, general Moon early Sag is square Neptune Pisces right now, while Venus-rx Pisces conjuncts Chiron *cry-on!! * later H(3)aqua

My own Venus Taurus has been sextile t-Pluto in Builder Capricorn, on my Part of Destiny and asteroid Nostalgia in H2.

The Sun (conjunct Uranus) in Aries (home H4) trines Saturn-rx Sag (on my NN-GC H1).

God is working to heal my wounds, cleanse the past grief of Broken Vows. It shattered and splintered my life in so many ways.

A woman definitely needs her own economic security in an age where Marriage is NOT regarded as Sacred Covenant, and be merely a contract whose promises can easily be abandoned.

Actually, I am not in disagreement with being able to divorce-- There are WAY too many Abused spouses. Being married to the 'wrong person' is a tomb and a lifeless grave. A pit.

Abuse... is wrong!
It ain't Love if it's mean.
Stay SAFE.

(music) Evangeline (Little Big Town) [4:33] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w6R_A1X_cJI

There are Singles who grieve not being married?... No. Freedom is a nice state of being. *You don't know what you got till it's gone? *

Be Content in whatever state you find yourself. Learn how to prize being who you are, in the Moment.

For those searching for their True Soulmates....
I pray that 'doors' be closed that need to close;
and that the absolutely Right One Comes Along for you.

A Good Thing to be Found... ?! LOL.
{scripture}

posted April 14, 2017 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:

There are Singles who grieve not being married?... No. Freedom is a nice state of being. *You don't know what you got till it's gone? *

Be Content in whatever state you find yourself. Learn how to prize being who you are, in the Moment.

For those searching for their True Soulmates....
I pray that 'doors' be closed that need to close;
and that the absolutely Right One Comes Along for you.

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posted April 14, 2017 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
Amen!!!

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