posted April 27, 2017 02:25 PM            

example: Venus in Gemini man is more likely to be attracted to athletic, tomboy, square torso, short women, etc...

it's blanket description that doesn't always fit everyone with Gemini Venus. well i was wondering if the planets aspecting Venus have an effect on that. pretty much throwing a wrench in the works.

example: Gemini Venus trine Jupiter.
does some of the Jupiter energies change the Venus. like instead of short girls he likes tall girls or instead of athletic/square boxy torso he's more attracted to curvy/fuller figure women etc.
or what about Uranus aspecting Venus, does Uranus turn those basic descriptions on it's head out of no where.
example: Gemini Venus dates women who fit the basic description but then ends up dating(even marrying a woman) completely opposite to those he has dated before.

could any of this have any meaning or do those little "What's your type based on your Venus" not accurate at all..

posted April 27, 2017 02:53 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
I like short women and I am Venus in Gemini. I like nice bottoms and prefer dark hair. Overweight turns me off.

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posted April 27, 2017 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by littlecountrystar:
Do you have any aspects from other planets to your venus?

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posted April 27, 2017 05:17 PM            

I think in general though, she MUST be intelligent. I think what they say about "intelligence first, looks second" is true for him.

His Venus is aspected in order of closest to furthest orb:

opp. Neptune
trine Pluto
trine Mars
trine Jupiter

posted April 27, 2017 09:25 PM            

Honestly, ever since my dad commented on my ex's looks, saying he was good looking, I was embarrassed when I couldn't agree. So, I can see the need for dating someone good looking, especially since I'm a Venus in Taurus.

Granted, I don't know what general body type my boyfriend is into. He doesn't seem to mind curves or small breasts. Surprisingly, he doesn't seem that picky with a woman's body. He just cares about whether someone's weight could have a bad effect on her health later on.

posted April 27, 2017 10:21 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
I like short women and I am Venus in Gemini. I like nice bottoms and prefer dark hair. Overweight turns me off.

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posted April 28, 2017 05:10 AM            

My Venus aspects are:
Trine Ascendant 0,03 degrees orb (dont know if it affects My Venus)
Trine to Pluto 3 degree orb
Opposite Neptune 4 degrees
Square Saturn 6 degrees

posted April 29, 2017 06:32 PM            

As a starter tho, if, say, someone had Venus in Virgo, conjunct mars. Would the Mars flavour the desire for women with flat stomachs to preferring toned stomachs that have been worked for (mars)?

Also, do you see this working in reverse? If so, would you go from the woman's Jupiter placement and aspects, or Mars?

posted April 30, 2017 01:07 AM            

My father also had a libra venus in the 6th house. Loved beautiful women. Also, seemed to attract women who were richer/smarter than him.

I am a female. Would I use my mars to see men I am generally attracted to?

I also like women, so would I use my own venus?

posted April 30, 2017 01:30 AM            

I have Venus in Scorpio. I usually find Aries, Leo, and Aquarius men, really attractive.

posted April 30, 2017 11:45 AM            

I have also met other Saturn-Venus hard aspect types who share a similar outlook.

I am attracted to nice,calm folks. Can't say that is Cap though. As would be indicative of Saturn/Venus descriptions.

posted April 30, 2017 03:48 PM            

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Originally posted by littlecountrystar:
based on basics of Venus = the type of woman(look, energies, psychical body types) a man will like/is attracted to

example: Venus in Gemini man is more likely to be attracted to athletic, tomboy, square torso, short women, etc...

well i was wondering if the planets aspecting Venus have an effect on that.

example: Gemini Venus trine Jupiter.
does some of the Jupiter energies change the Venus. like instead of short girls he likes tall girls or instead of athletic/square boxy torso he's more attracted to curvy/fuller figure women etc.
or what about Uranus aspecting Venus, does Uranus turn those basic descriptions on it's head out of no where.
example: Gemini Venus dates women who fit the basic description but then ends up dating(even marrying a woman) completely opposite to those he has dated before.

could any of this have any meaning or do those little "What's your type based on your Venus" not accurate at all..

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Getting a broader understanding of love will help answer your questions. The Greeks had different words to describe "love".

As far as Venus is concerned, I agree with your observations.

The Greek word Philia generally describes our preferences or "likes" towards something or someone. This can be a healthy or unhealthy attraction. You'll see this word as a suffix in terms like homophily (love of the same) or pedophilia. The house placements, sign, and aspects to Venus may indeed give insight into a persons preferences.

Philia is often described as a brotherly love built between people with shared values (Venus). If someone's physical appearance resonates with those you value, naturally, we are attracted to that.

Here are other words or "concepts" of "love" that I associate with the other planets:

1. Eros: Love of the body (Martian Love: Mars)

Eros was the Greek God of love and sexual desire. He was shooting golden arrows into the hearts of both mortals and immortals without warning. The Greeks feared that kind of love the most because it was dangerous and could get them into the most trouble. Eros is defined as divine beauty or lust. Eros is mainly based on sexual attraction and it is where the term “erotica” came from.

2. Ludus: Playful love (Sun)

Ludus is the flirtatious and teasing kind of love, the love mostly accompanied by dancing or laughter. It’s the child-like and fun kind of love. If you think about it; this generation loves Ludus more than anything else.

3. Pragma: Longstanding love (Saturn)

The everlasting love between a married couple which develops over a long period of time. Pragma was the highest form of love; the true commitment that comes from understanding, compromise and tolerance. It is pragmatic this is why it is referred to as “standing in love” rather than “falling in love” because it grows over time and requires profound understanding between lovers who have been together for many years.

4. Agape: Love of the soul (Neptune)

It is the selfless kind of love, the love for humanity. It is the closest to unconditional love. The love you give without expecting anything in return reflected in all charitable acts. It is the compassionate love that makes us sympathize with, help and connect to people we don’t know. The world needs more Agape.

5. Storge: Love of the child (Moon)

This is the love parents naturally feel for their children. It’s based on natural feelings and effortless love. Storge is the love that knows forgiveness, acceptance and sacrifice. It is the one that makes you feel secure, comfortable and safe.

6. Mania (Pluto)

Mania refers to obsessive love where the person is jealous or obsessive. Manic lovers view their partners as possessions and feel that they “need” them. These feelings can result into doing things such as stalking or other behavior to try to reciprocate their obsessive love. Have you ever felt this type of love or has someone else made you feel as if you were the cause of their “mania”?

http://thoughtcatalog.com/ann-eshaw/2015/07/6-types-of-love-that-might-he lp-you-understand-it-better/

http://thoughtcatalog.com/rania-naim/2 016/02/the-7-kinds-of-love-and-how-they-can-help-you-define-yours-according-to-the-ancient-greeks/

posted April 30, 2017 07:06 PM            

@Astrofaye and @Stellia
i definitely think it can work for women using our mars. I'm working on mine seeing what aspects to my mars change up the basic list of attraction triggers for my Taurus mars.

posted April 30, 2017 07:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Stellia:
Interesting idea, I'll need to do some digging I think.

As a starter tho, if, say, someone had Venus in Virgo, conjunct mars. Would the Mars flavour the desire for women with flat stomachs to preferring toned stomachs that have been worked for (mars)?

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that's what i'm thinking. i know other things are in play but even attraction has a blueprint or building blocks to work from.
not everyone fits in those list when you look at a person dating history.
not every cancer venus likes a busty woman or there are some gemini venus out there that are attracted to full figured women.
so i wondered if aspect to other planets where at play( haven't got to working Venus house placement and aspecting planet sign and house yet but i know that adds something)

posted April 30, 2017 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
These are mere guesses. Would a Gem Venus male be attracted more to a brainy type lady. Lois Lane. As well the hands are snd arms shapely. Perhaps manicured?

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posted April 30, 2017 08:06 PM            

Thanks for the interesting info

posted April 30, 2017 09:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Aries 23

Thanks for the interesting info

Do you know of any asteroids matching these symbols or should I go and search for myself..I want to check up those in synastry

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I am not sure i understand the question. But if you looking for a similar effect asteroid to Venus-Saturn, look at ;

Juno Cap
Juno Saturn

I dont know of any others asteroids however.